The wife and have discussed this in depth she works at nights and we work allot she's given me permission to chill with a lady but i am courious how to go about finding or even approaching this..especially when its with a couple i want to be respectful of them and her any idea's or leads would be appreciated
Well I would say you came to the right place. Some people have specific rules. And others don't. Trust, and honesty build security within your relationship. So what I can say from conversations c and I have had about this topic is communication between all parties. Meet as a couple first and if you click enjoy everyone's company. Then if you feel like the couple is one worth doing again go for it. Now not everyone can fit time schedules. But if you had a good experience with the couple you could cross the bridge of one of you playing with the couple on your own and vise-versa. At some point you may be comfortable enough to full swap with out your significant other around. In our case c wants 2 guys to spoil her. Maybe 3. But that could also be done with a nice foursome too. So many options lol. So if I were you I would proubably post in the booty calls as a male with a hall pass. See if there are any takers. Then communicate with all parties. Just my thoughts. May be easy. Or I could have complicated it. Lol
Hope that helps. B
Hope that helps. B
^^^^ What they said.^^^^
Meet as a couple first. That way you can put to rest any suspicion that you're not on the up and up. Far too many cheaters lurking about looking to game the system. Anyone who's been around here for a while has likely been burned and could be a little gun shy. Best to demonstrate up front that your wife is 100% okay with you meeting women without her being there.
Meet as a couple first. That way you can put to rest any suspicion that you're not on the up and up. Far too many cheaters lurking about looking to game the system. Anyone who's been around here for a while has likely been burned and could be a little gun shy. Best to demonstrate up front that your wife is 100% okay with you meeting women without her being there.
Damnit Evil, you're giving away my best ploys again, oh and stop outing each of us!
PAIRPLAYERS wrote:
Damnit Evil, you're giving away my best ploys again, oh and stop outing each of us!
Jesus Christ-On-A-Cracker, PAIR. The ONE time I don't offer a snarky, facetious response and you jump all up in my face about it! Besides, I thought you had moved on to just serial pussy grabbing and Tic Tac chewing. As a local celebrity (in case most of you don't know, Mr. PAIR is also the Jazz Bear as well as the winner of the past SIX Miss City Weekly Pride Week Drag Queen Pageants) you know you can grab just about any woman's pussy and they'll beg you for more. In fact, MOST women in Utah apparently just want their pussies grabbed...all the time. Isn't America GREAT...again?
EVILDOERS wrote:PAIRPLAYERS wrote:
Damnit Evil, you're giving away my best ploys again, oh and stop outing each of us!
Jesus Christ-On-A-Cracker, PAIR. The ONE time I don't offer a snarky, facetious response and you jump all up in my face about it! Besides, I thought you had moved on to just serial pussy grabbing and Tic Tac chewing. As a local celebrity (in case most of you don't know, Mr. PAIR is also the Jazz Bear as well as the winner of the past SIX Miss City Weekly Pride Week Drag Queen Pageants) you know you can grab just about any woman's pussy and they'll beg you for more. In fact, MOST women in Utah apparently just want their pussies grabbed...all the time. Isn't America GREAT...again?
Evil,
The polls all say that "Don't grab me by the pussy" is leading "Please grab me by the pussy" by a 3 to 5 point margin, but that just means the silent majority of women want to be grabbed by the pussy, they just don't want to admit it in mixed company. So lets all make America great again by doing our civic duty: go out and grab a girl by the pussy! (Even if they say no, they really want it....)
Disclaimer: The above piece is sarcastic, I do not condone behavior or attitudes like this in any way. What does upset me this week is that failed logic like this is being used to embolden bigoted, racist and down right inhuman attitudes, actions and comments toward members of our society by those that have assumed that Trumps victory is an affirmation of Trumps bigoted, racist,and inhuman attitudes and gives them the "OK" to act deplorably and the "mandate" to not be "PC" anymore. </rant>