My wonderful wife relies on me to do our interface on this site. As many of you know, it's hard to find a 4-some that works for all. When looking at profiles, it's even harder to find compatible couples when there are zero pics of the the male half. Yes, we all like to look at the women, but would it be too much to ask to have a couple of pictures of the guy??? No, I'm not going to set up my wife with a someone I know she will be repulsed by.... She is easy going and loves to please everyone. A friendly picture with a smile will go a long way...
We agree. The Mrs. will rarely get on here and browse because of it.
It's too the point we get more excited to see a face pic than anything else!
yea those are even more rare
On the other hand, sometimes the pics of the lady are really hot and then we TOTALLY regret asking for pics of the dude.
I find it odd when the male blurs his face in the pic, but not the face of the female....
I completely agree with you, most of the photos posted, while great, need to be mixed in with photos of the whole people not just random body parts.
Don't be afraid, we are all trying to make friends here.
Don't be afraid, we are all trying to make friends here.
You can post images that won't even start to expose who you may be in "real life". Many go for blurred faces or headless or sometimes just blinding out the eyes. The point being, there needs to be "some" chemistry and image is always at least a piece of it. If there is nothing there to go on, it's hard to take the leap of faith to set up a meet n greet or date. Images also give some verification to what people claim in their profiles.
For the most part, anyone who views images on here have just as much to hide as anyone else here.
For the most part, anyone who views images on here have just as much to hide as anyone else here.
We agree 100%. We are both "face people" and it has made finding compatible couples through profile searching very cumbersome. I guess that's why we like going to parties/events so much. You can scan a lot of faces 
So, if the husband or the wife is in a high profile position, and their other half post recognizable pictures, wouldn't that also incriminate the non visible spouse? We don't expect people to give away their identity, but we do appreciate being able to see some representation of what they are shaped like. Same goes for the text portion of their profile. We appreciate honest disclosures.
As for us, we have found that most of our clothed pictures, would be more likely to out us than naked pictures would, simply because anyone we know, who would take exception to our having a profile, has not and probably will not see us naked. So our public pictures were taken by friends, with a cell phone camera during a playdate, at a point the two of us were together. Our friends, seem to understandably focus the camera more toward Mrs. Delicious and they also, understandably, seem to think I look best with my head cut off. We do have a few pictures where you can see that I do have a head. We keep the elicit clothed photos and all nude and clothed face pictures in our private photos.
As for maintaining some anonymity, if you have basic come with programs like "paint" on your computer and "Windows Photos" you can crop, blur, write captions and even change the coloring just enough to leave some shadow of doubt in the minds of anyone who might see you and think..."Hey isn't that?" That's what we did.
If you have time there are some excellent professional photographers with Swingular memberships that could do a portfolio shoot for you. It is something we have considered doing, but just have not gotten around to it. We have also considered that should a pro make us look unrealistically good, would we end up being a disappointment in the flesh?
As for us, we have found that most of our clothed pictures, would be more likely to out us than naked pictures would, simply because anyone we know, who would take exception to our having a profile, has not and probably will not see us naked. So our public pictures were taken by friends, with a cell phone camera during a playdate, at a point the two of us were together. Our friends, seem to understandably focus the camera more toward Mrs. Delicious and they also, understandably, seem to think I look best with my head cut off. We do have a few pictures where you can see that I do have a head. We keep the elicit clothed photos and all nude and clothed face pictures in our private photos.
As for maintaining some anonymity, if you have basic come with programs like "paint" on your computer and "Windows Photos" you can crop, blur, write captions and even change the coloring just enough to leave some shadow of doubt in the minds of anyone who might see you and think..."Hey isn't that?" That's what we did.
If you have time there are some excellent professional photographers with Swingular memberships that could do a portfolio shoot for you. It is something we have considered doing, but just have not gotten around to it. We have also considered that should a pro make us look unrealistically good, would we end up being a disappointment in the flesh?
We completely agree, we have to see face pictures as well as body to decide if we're attracted to you. We also post the same so that people can see what we look like before we meet.