This is Michael, Mr. Imperfect himself.
I'm an uncut male. In my past sexual experiences this has gotten me some strange responses. Like when a woman stops a blowjob to ask me "Am I doing this right?" as if it was something she had never done. I've also had women who were excited over it and loved to play with my foreskin. Never met a woman who wouldn't play with me just because I was uncut. Although, I have very little experience in the lifestyle, and have been with my wife since I turned 20.
Recently, however, I've had 2 seperate experiences that left my jaw on the floor...
Both happened during first introductions on internet with a couple.
The first, happened in e-mail. The female half of a prospective couple decided to let me know that, even though she loves giving head, she "won't go down on an uncut male". :v I'm sorry but if I'm going down on her, my wife is going down on her husband, and her husband is going down on my wife...I think I might feel a bit left out...
The second happened in private chat. When the female asked me if I "know how to keep myself clean". :s I'm sorry...wouldn't that matter wether or not I was cut? For those of you that don't know, foreskin is a lot like labia. How would you feel if upon meeting the Mrs. in your relationship I asked if she knew how to keep her pussy clean?
Are there really that many women out there who avoid playing with uncut males? If so...why? Am I missing something?
I'm an uncut male. In my past sexual experiences this has gotten me some strange responses. Like when a woman stops a blowjob to ask me "Am I doing this right?" as if it was something she had never done. I've also had women who were excited over it and loved to play with my foreskin. Never met a woman who wouldn't play with me just because I was uncut. Although, I have very little experience in the lifestyle, and have been with my wife since I turned 20.
Recently, however, I've had 2 seperate experiences that left my jaw on the floor...
Both happened during first introductions on internet with a couple.
The first, happened in e-mail. The female half of a prospective couple decided to let me know that, even though she loves giving head, she "won't go down on an uncut male". :v I'm sorry but if I'm going down on her, my wife is going down on her husband, and her husband is going down on my wife...I think I might feel a bit left out...
The second happened in private chat. When the female asked me if I "know how to keep myself clean". :s I'm sorry...wouldn't that matter wether or not I was cut? For those of you that don't know, foreskin is a lot like labia. How would you feel if upon meeting the Mrs. in your relationship I asked if she knew how to keep her pussy clean?
Are there really that many women out there who avoid playing with uncut males? If so...why? Am I missing something?
LOL
Good reply! :h
Good reply! :h
Our guess would be a matter of preference and for some just a general lack of experience or knowledge or a combination of both.
You can do something about the lack of knowledge but nothing in the area of personal preference.
It's always hard to get 4 people to click and this is just one of those things that may be a deal breaker. In any event, take it for what it's worth and move on to the next couple.
Good luck and don't let that discourage you!
You can do something about the lack of knowledge but nothing in the area of personal preference.
It's always hard to get 4 people to click and this is just one of those things that may be a deal breaker. In any event, take it for what it's worth and move on to the next couple.
Good luck and don't let that discourage you!
We have seen it in profiles many times, for whatever reasons they may have and NEWCPL99 said it very well, so no matter why have chose that as their deal breaker consider it their loss and move on. For the majority it's a non-issue.
We have also seen no blacks, no blondes, no Hispanics, no short men, no fake boobs, no republicans.
It's a wonder anyone ever makes a match.
We have also seen no blacks, no blondes, no Hispanics, no short men, no fake boobs, no republicans.
It's a wonder anyone ever makes a match.
I agree with FL4Fun (its their loss)
How ever i do have my own deal breakers too.NO THIRD EYE, THIRD NIPPLE OK,NO PURPLE MOHAWKS,AND NO GIRLS WHO ONLY WANT TO SUCK MY DICK FOR HOURS AND THATS IT(HOWEVER I AM FLEXIBLE ON THAT LAST ONE :z ) OH AND NO ALIANS FROM OTHER PLANETS I DONT PLAY THAT S*&T.THATS WHERE U RUN INTO THAT THIRD EYE THING.
CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG .................................AND FUCK....................:z
How ever i do have my own deal breakers too.NO THIRD EYE, THIRD NIPPLE OK,NO PURPLE MOHAWKS,AND NO GIRLS WHO ONLY WANT TO SUCK MY DICK FOR HOURS AND THATS IT(HOWEVER I AM FLEXIBLE ON THAT LAST ONE :z ) OH AND NO ALIANS FROM OTHER PLANETS I DONT PLAY THAT S*&T.THATS WHERE U RUN INTO THAT THIRD EYE THING.
CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG .................................AND FUCK....................:z
my wife has been with a uncut guy, she pulls the extra skin down tell she finds the head and shes never had a problem un less they pre-cum while getting hard
Having been visited by Rabbi Cutyourpeckeroff when I had a teenie weenie, I can't speak from experience, but there is a legitimate hygenic issues if the man does not clean himself properly. One would hope that it is not an issue because we were taught hygene in our schools and by our parents.
Sorry,
Couldn't resist. Its technicall y still on topic.
A certain rabbi, when he would perform the ritual circumcision on a
8-day-old child, would put the amputated foreskin in a bottle of tanning
solution such as used to preserve fine leathers. After a certain number
of years, he had collected a rather large number of these small pieces of
tanned foreskin. He decided to take the collection to a leather
craftsman to see if something useful might be made from them. The
craftsman told him that he had never been asked to make anything from
tanned foreskins before and he'd have to think about it for a while.
Could the rabbi leave the "skins" with him for a few days. The rabbi
said that he could. He really had no specific wishes, he just thought
that something useful could be made, and he didn't want to see the
"skins" go to waste, so he left them there with the instructions to the
craftsman to make whatever he could that might be useful. About 3 weeks
later, the leather craftsman sent word to the rabbi to come and pick up
what he had made. When he arrived, the craftsman presented the rabbi
with a small leather coin purse about 2 inches deep and about 3 inches
across. The rabbi frowned and asked: "Is this it? Is this all that you
could get out of all the foreskins I brought you?" -- "Yes," replied the
leather craftsman, " but if you hold in in your hand and rub it a little
bit, it will warm up and turn into a complete set of luggage!"
Couldn't resist. Its technicall y still on topic.
A certain rabbi, when he would perform the ritual circumcision on a
8-day-old child, would put the amputated foreskin in a bottle of tanning
solution such as used to preserve fine leathers. After a certain number
of years, he had collected a rather large number of these small pieces of
tanned foreskin. He decided to take the collection to a leather
craftsman to see if something useful might be made from them. The
craftsman told him that he had never been asked to make anything from
tanned foreskins before and he'd have to think about it for a while.
Could the rabbi leave the "skins" with him for a few days. The rabbi
said that he could. He really had no specific wishes, he just thought
that something useful could be made, and he didn't want to see the
"skins" go to waste, so he left them there with the instructions to the
craftsman to make whatever he could that might be useful. About 3 weeks
later, the leather craftsman sent word to the rabbi to come and pick up
what he had made. When he arrived, the craftsman presented the rabbi
with a small leather coin purse about 2 inches deep and about 3 inches
across. The rabbi frowned and asked: "Is this it? Is this all that you
could get out of all the foreskins I brought you?" -- "Yes," replied the
leather craftsman, " but if you hold in in your hand and rub it a little
bit, it will warm up and turn into a complete set of luggage!"
"...but there is a legitimate hygenic issues if the [uncut] man does not clean himself properly."
This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about...
:: sighs ::
Oh, and your joke... there IS a humor forum last I checked...this ISN'T posted there.
This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about...
:: sighs ::
Oh, and your joke... there IS a humor forum last I checked...this ISN'T posted there.
I thought it was funny. One of our requirements for friendship and fun is a sense of humor...
Lighten up dude. Some chicks are ok with it, some aren't, move on to the next and don't sweat the petty stuff.
Lighten up dude. Some chicks are ok with it, some aren't, move on to the next and don't sweat the petty stuff.
Awww... come on. A preference is a preference. Does everyone like curry or tofu??
Side note: There ARE those who DON'T keep their foreskin clean. I have worked with men in construction who wouldn't shower but twice a week and you can't tell me that they made sure to wash "there" and no where else.
Geez.... no one knows why some preferences are so inflexible and others not. Who cares? You are either wlling to work around it or no. And really.... wasn't NOT HAVING her give you a bj as much of a deal breaker for you? Why was it THAT important in a fun night of various play? Honestly..... it's not that big a deal. So she doesn't want or like to suck on the uncut. You are not given all the explanations or history and there may be a very understandble reason for it that wasn't your business to know.
All I'm saying is, with all the really important stuff to be upset about, do we really need to create more? And out of silly things? It's "mountain out of a mole hill" stuff and equally as childish when adults allow themselves to do it.
Some people don't like hairy men. I'm not crying over it. Some don't like plus sized women. No tears over that either. My wife dosn't want another man besides me performing oral on her. There are good reasons and I won't get into it. It's a no and that's it. Most men are understanding, but for some it's a deal breaker. It's fine with us if it is and we all move on. I suggest that maybe half the problem was you and your reaction to the preference.
If there can't be respect for each other given in places like here then maybe none of us should be here. We can get disrespected in enough places to have to do it to each other on swing sites.
Just my take on it.... and yes, I know what it's worth, so please don't start bashing. I'm not being insulting or inflamatory intentionally and if it sounds like it here I'm sorry. It would simply be a consequence of my efforts to be as brief as possible.
Let's just have fun and respect each other..... can't we please?
Side note: There ARE those who DON'T keep their foreskin clean. I have worked with men in construction who wouldn't shower but twice a week and you can't tell me that they made sure to wash "there" and no where else.
Geez.... no one knows why some preferences are so inflexible and others not. Who cares? You are either wlling to work around it or no. And really.... wasn't NOT HAVING her give you a bj as much of a deal breaker for you? Why was it THAT important in a fun night of various play? Honestly..... it's not that big a deal. So she doesn't want or like to suck on the uncut. You are not given all the explanations or history and there may be a very understandble reason for it that wasn't your business to know.
All I'm saying is, with all the really important stuff to be upset about, do we really need to create more? And out of silly things? It's "mountain out of a mole hill" stuff and equally as childish when adults allow themselves to do it.
Some people don't like hairy men. I'm not crying over it. Some don't like plus sized women. No tears over that either. My wife dosn't want another man besides me performing oral on her. There are good reasons and I won't get into it. It's a no and that's it. Most men are understanding, but for some it's a deal breaker. It's fine with us if it is and we all move on. I suggest that maybe half the problem was you and your reaction to the preference.
If there can't be respect for each other given in places like here then maybe none of us should be here. We can get disrespected in enough places to have to do it to each other on swing sites.
Just my take on it.... and yes, I know what it's worth, so please don't start bashing. I'm not being insulting or inflamatory intentionally and if it sounds like it here I'm sorry. It would simply be a consequence of my efforts to be as brief as possible.
Let's just have fun and respect each other..... can't we please?
I am not cut.
Being british,it is something that is not routinely done like here in America.
i have had no problems with any of the couples we have been with.When it gets hard the foreskin retracts.
Now the subject of cleaning..Think about it,when we bathe or take a shower,we clean our knobs just like any other part of our bodies.
If we don't clean under our fingernails,will they remove them at birth?Hell no!..if we don't clean our teeth,are they removed?Well they will if they rot but you get the point right?
We were born with a foreskin,so why the hell take it off?It does protect the head somewhat when we are wearing clothes.
We are a clean nation(by and large anyway)So leave the bloody thing there until the poor guy can make his own choice.
If God had meant us to remove our foreskins,he would have fitted us with velcro.
Being british,it is something that is not routinely done like here in America.
i have had no problems with any of the couples we have been with.When it gets hard the foreskin retracts.
Now the subject of cleaning..Think about it,when we bathe or take a shower,we clean our knobs just like any other part of our bodies.
If we don't clean under our fingernails,will they remove them at birth?Hell no!..if we don't clean our teeth,are they removed?Well they will if they rot but you get the point right?
We were born with a foreskin,so why the hell take it off?It does protect the head somewhat when we are wearing clothes.
We are a clean nation(by and large anyway)So leave the bloody thing there until the poor guy can make his own choice.
If God had meant us to remove our foreskins,he would have fitted us with velcro.