OK, so we get that we might not be everyone's cup of tea. Having said that, if you don't have an interest in meeting, don't setup a date. Your loss. She would have sucked your dick til you passed out, but.. again your loss. The dreaded single male yet again makes it worse for the other single males who might actually NOT be douches.
We rarely have had single guys puss out.. 1 or 2..seems couples are worse.. and the same excuse always.. wife is sick or started her period haha. It is always better to b honest cause plans falling out is irritating
It's kind of like hiring someone to do a boob job on your wife. It's usually a really good idea to get some references from other people who've had boob jobs done by this person...or at least to make sure they've actually DONE a boob job before.
Yeah, we think maybe it might have been new to him, or he was not single as represented.
Weve had our share of flakes with couples and even single guys in the past to the point where weve both almost decided to give up the LS. Like you said....if youre not interested then dont bother us, we already dont have alot of time to get out due to kids but when we do we dont want to waste it because they flaked out
I have to admit I also have been a victim of flakes . No big deal you just block them and move on. That's why you need to take the time to chat with these individuals and make sure your compatible ..Anyhow I'm for real.
We have had a few no shows. We continue the date and have fun. Their lost.
I always do the no expectation coffee/drink meet before any play. If they got the approval after that meet I haven't had any issues with them showing up. Reschedules sure as life happens but I haven't been stood up after the meet. Now for the coffee/drink meet, maybe 30% of those scheduled actually show up.
The lookey loo's are a pain in the ass. Even more offensive are the liars. Seriously, i don't understand old or obviously faked profile pics. Does pity sex actually happen??
The lookey loo's are a pain in the ass. Even more offensive are the liars. Seriously, i don't understand old or obviously faked profile pics. Does pity sex actually happen??
MANDIEQT wrote:
Even more offensive are the liars. Seriously, i don't understand old or obviously faked profile pics. Does pity sex actually happen??
Hahaha! Not here!
I usually get the "let's do it" on the message and then when I go to make sure plans are on... no reply. Ghosting & flakes on this site are starting to get annoying. I have had to cancel twice because of a sick kid, but 95% of the time I am there. If running late, I give a heads up. But it's called manners... if you got it, flaunt it. Too bad most people don't realize common sense is a must in this world. If you are really not interested, drop your left one & say so. I have told a couple of single men that they were not really my type & they have actually thanked me for being up front. Everyone's time is precious & I don't want to waste a fun time waiting on someone who's not going to show up.