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Why do the husband always answers first and why on this lifestyle dont have a pic of them together
I always anwser husband never home
For is she will answer some of the time, but I will the majority of the time. That is because the nature of my job has me on my computer 12+ hours a day and I read/respond as I see messages appear. That said, we text about the messages and she is fully aware of what is going on with our account.

As for the pictures, we have a couple pic as our main image. We do agree that a couple pic should be nearly mandatory for all couples profiles.
Thats good that some couples the husband and wife answer but i hate when the husband answer first because they are pushy
well if ya a single female friend our profile the male will contact ya since the wife is str8 and the male assume you're interested in him. Had our photo in public section and husband got fired since a boss reconizzed him.
Try and remember that men have to try much harder in this that the women do. I've been told I'm not pushy enough sometimes, but I'd say "don't mix up pushy with enthusiasm". In addition, if your girl is hot, which they all are, don't be surprised if guys are very enthusiastic. ;-)
Hmmm...I'm the wife and my husband always leaves it up to me to answer first. As for a pic of us together?...We have those posted on our private album for the people we have friended.
I the male half get home sooner then she will so a bit easier to answer. At time she will do it and some times we do it together depending on what the answer is about. Never pushy and always polite so it should never be a problem who will answer from us.
Because men are more sexual in general.. they tend to get more hopped up on the thought of new pussy more than women with new dick. While there are always exceptions.. u dont see women faking to b couples .. or rarely catch women trying to swing without their husbands knowledge.
With us I manage this site and my man manages our other one. Although I prefer him to do most of the talking to weed out the jerks! Bit that's just how we seem to work this out!
HFUN wrote:

Sexy latin you are not perfect by anymeans .we have chatted with you and you did not mind it when i was chatting with you untill you could not get your way.we could not change the date that you set up and you got mad at us for not being able to change it. And i was totally nice not pushy at all very respectful even tho we felt uneasy about meeting somone your age and even said something but you are persistant. And what did you expect your a single woman on a swinger site .. Besides the definiton of swingers is a couple swapping partners . so its not a single dateing site . altho singles are welcome to it.. So why are you here in this lifestyle sexy latin ? I just had to put my two cents in .This is The male half not the wifes view.

I don't think this answers her question or is helpful in any way. Doesn't seem like it's your place to attack or question the motive of any single for being on this site because each of us has our reason. Obviously you didn't mind when you were trying to set up a date with her. And we aren't aware of what happened in a closed messaging session between the two of you, but it seems that airing it in the open like this is an ugly way to settle it. May cause others to avoid you for such a visceral response from her seemingly harmless question. Again, I don't know what happened between the two of you, but this isn't the best place for you to show this angry side of you.

To SexyLatin, I'm contacted more often by men, of course, but it's often hard to know who is talking when a couple. I think we always assume it's the man when it could be the woman. From the comments above, it seems that there are women who do the contacting, also, but you may think it's the man.
Hfun i think you forgot how you where just saying how you only wanted me. Right when i told and show your wife all the conversation she was shock how you where talking nasty to me. Saying how you wanted me and never talk how your wife wanted. Keep talking and i will show all the conversations on here. I have never started you did.
I've always been the one on the actual keyboard. We mix n match photos to include pics of both of us, but don't have a TON of them with us posing together since usually one of us is taking the pic.

-THE WIFEY