how do we meet new couples without wasting each others time?
CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:
how do we meet new couples without wasting each others time?
Not sure exactly what you mean by "wasting each others time" but I would proffer that the best method might be to maybe vet each other online a little bit. Exchange some emails or texts or perhaps chat via some online method. Maybe even have a few telephone conversations. Alternatively, meeting for a drink with zero expectations on anyone's part (agreed to beforehand) is usually a pretty good method to ascertain mutual attraction. It's still a crap-shoot, though, when meeting new people in the lifestyle and unfortunately most of us have to dig a little to find people we're attracted to as well as compatible with. If you consider any or all of the above a waste of time I really don't know what to tell you other than good luck.
Doh! Yes, of course meeting at parties is often even better because there are more people to choose from and you can mix and mingle. Not sure about Halloween parties though. We went to one once and Ms. Evil was flirting pretty heavily with a sexy girl who was also wearing an elaborate costume and mask only to discover a little while later that it was her cousin! 
EVILDOERS wrote:
Doh! Yes, of course meeting at parties is often even better because there are more people to choose from and you can mix and mingle. Not sure about Halloween parties though. We went to one once and Ms. Evil was flirting pretty heavily with a sexy girl who was also wearing an elaborate costume and mask only to discover a little while later that it was her cousin!
It wasn't yur kiss'n cousin was it?
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
Doh! Yes, of course meeting at parties is often even better because there are more people to choose from and you can mix and mingle. Not sure about Halloween parties though. We went to one once and Ms. Evil was flirting pretty heavily with a sexy girl who was also wearing an elaborate costume and mask only to discover a little while later that it was her cousin!
It wasn't yur kiss'n cousin was it?
Actually turned out that the cousin was more or less a unicorn who'd been playing exclusively with the host couple since high school! And YES, the host dude totally wanted to bang Ms. Evil AND her cousin, but by the time he was maneuvering them into a bedroom Ms. Evil was just sober enough to grab my hand and demand we leave immediately. LOL
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
Doh! Yes, of course meeting at parties is often even better because there are more people to choose from and you can mix and mingle. Not sure about Halloween parties though. We went to one once and Ms. Evil was flirting pretty heavily with a sexy girl who was also wearing an elaborate costume and mask only to discover a little while later that it was her cousin!
It wasn't yur kiss'n cousin was it?
I worry about this. A cousin of mine knows some of the people I've met in the Lifestyle and I worry that one day I'll run into her at a party. Might create an awkward Thanksgiving or Christmas conversation. "So, who are you sleeping with?"
How are we supposed to meet at parties and meet-and-greets? We've been to a couple (Club 48 & Sandy Station) and the music is always way too loud for any actual conversation.
INDEFINITECUDDLES wrote:
How are we supposed to meet at parties and meet-and-greets? We've been to a couple (Club 48 & Sandy Station) and the music is always way too loud for any actual conversation.
We totally agree Indefinitecuddles the music makes it impossible to do anything but sit and smile at each other. We finally gave up on that method
CURIOUSCPL91 wrote:INDEFINITECUDDLES wrote:
How are we supposed to meet at parties and meet-and-greets? We've been to a couple (Club 48 & Sandy Station) and the music is always way too loud for any actual conversation.
We totally agree Indefinitecuddles the music makes it impossible to do anything but sit and smile at each other. We finally gave up on that method
At Sandy Station last Saturday, there was a back room for those attending the Orchard event only. The music is lower there. And house parties shouldn't have loud music. I haven't really gone to any meet-n-greets so I can't tell you about that. Have you RSVPd to any Halloween parties?
We have been trying to meet others and it's been harder every time and kik is no help so to how to meet people I guess you have to be in certain clicks and those that are not just go to parties hopefully and find other couples who are not stand offish
Thanks and yes we have good friends but we are trying to meet new ones who are approachable near us or at least as open as us via the shy people we have met at parties who never seem to want to explore because they are afraid to talk
Thanks and yes we have good friends but we are trying to meet new ones who are approachable near us or at least as open as us via the shy people we have met at parties who never seem to want to explore because they are afraid to talk
EVILDOERS wrote:SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:
[quote=EVILDOERS]Doh! Yes, of course meeting at parties is often even better because there are more people to choose from and you can mix and mingle. Not sure about Halloween parties though. We went to one once and Ms. Evil was flirting pretty heavily with a sexy girl who was also wearing an elaborate costume and mask only to discover a little while later that it was her cousin!
It wasn't yur kiss'n cousin was it?
Actually turned out that the cousin was more or less a unicorn who'd been playing exclusively with the host couple since high school! And YES, the host dude totally wanted to bang Ms. Evil AND her cousin, but by the time he was maneuvering them into a bedroom Ms. Evil was just sober enough to grab my hand and demand we leave immediately. LOL[/quote]
Awesome story Evil! Apparently the apple didn't fall too far from yur family tree. My guess is if da Mrs. Evil were to have partaken "uno mas" appletini...ya'all may have lost yur fig leaves forever. You should be putting all these fun and not so fun experiences in yur new book. Sounds like you have many!
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
[quote=SOMEWHERENTIME][quote=EVILDOERS]Doh! Yes, of course meeting at parties is often even better because there are more people to choose from and you can mix and mingle. Not sure about Halloween parties though. We went to one once and Ms. Evil was flirting pretty heavily with a sexy girl who was also wearing an elaborate costume and mask only to discover a little while later that it was her cousin!
It wasn't yur kiss'n cousin was it?
Actually turned out that the cousin was more or less a unicorn who'd been playing exclusively with the host couple since high school! And YES, the host dude totally wanted to bang Ms. Evil AND her cousin, but by the time he was maneuvering them into a bedroom Ms. Evil was just sober enough to grab my hand and demand we leave immediately. LOL[/quote]
Awesome story Evil! Apparently the apple didn't fall too far from yur family tree. My guess is if da Mrs. Evil were to have partaken "uno mas" appletini...ya'all may have lost yur fig leaves forever. You should be putting all these fun and not so fun experiences in yur new book. Sounds like you have many![/quote]
Too many, actually. Remind us to tell you the forklift and the pussy cats story sometime.
Here's what we suggest: Come over and get in our hot tub. 60% of the time, it works every time.
Seriously though. Come over.
Seriously though. Come over.
XANADUME wrote:
Here's what we suggest: Come over and get in our hot tub. 60% of the time, it works every time.
Seriously though. Come over.
One other way to meet couples is when they invite you over to actually show up!!!