My wife and I were married and in the lifestyle for several years before our twins were born. Obviously, we were used to pretty much setting our own schedule and had the opportunity to go out fairly often. Since our young twins were born it's been tough, especially since one has special needs. We've gradually gotten to increase our adult time over the past four years, but it can still be difficult sometimes, especially since the clubs, parties, and our few remaining friends in the scene generally are over an hour away (that's at least two hours of babysitting time just in travel, to us parents).
My questions (for those to whom it applies); Assuming you were swinging before you had children, how, if at all, did it affect your participation in the lifestyle? Did you spend a period out entirely? Were either or both of you as into it when you started again? How long (if ever) did it take before things got back to a fairly normal clip?
Obviously there's a lot here, would love any feedback that applies.
My questions (for those to whom it applies); Assuming you were swinging before you had children, how, if at all, did it affect your participation in the lifestyle? Did you spend a period out entirely? Were either or both of you as into it when you started again? How long (if ever) did it take before things got back to a fairly normal clip?
Obviously there's a lot here, would love any feedback that applies.