We have had two different exclusive relationships while on Swingular, both was very positive and exciting. We enjoyed going out with the other person on single dates, couple dates and even went on family vacations. We have not been able to find a couple who wants to have an exclusive thing. Is this possible any more? We prefer not to sleep with several and want a true friendship this is our reasoning behind it...thoughts ?
Been there, done that. No thank you. Too much potential for major drama and other crap hitting the proverbial fan. Don't get me wrong, we understand how that type of a swinging relationship can seem attractive and exciting but we've seen too many relationships, friendships, AND marriages crash and burn playing that game.
We have seen that in the swinger lifestyle in general, exclusive or not. Drama insues everywhere exclusive or not, and marriages crumble everyday because of swinging. If you know the rules and are honest and respectful it works! And works well!
The problem is that you only have control over yourself and possibly over your own relationship with your significant other. Others have their own rules and agendas (often unstated or even intentionally obfuscated) that can differ significantly from yours. Glad it has worked out for you in the past. It will likely continue to work out...until it doesn't.