I just joined this sight yesterday. I have been on another site for some time,met lots of good people,many of them are on this site too. My question is as a single male am I just wasting time and effort here? This appears to be a mostly couples site and thought I play well with couples, I seek an available woman. I am familliar with the over abundance of males on most sites but wonder how many couples ever make initial contact vs. turning away dozens if not hundreds of men. And how would anyone know if I'm decent or not if we never meet? just wondering is all.
come to florida, i do single males lol
this has been a great concern of mine as well...since lisa left 14 days ago, not 1 email..not even from the friends WE made...guess it was all about her..i dont know of many single women who are in the lifestyle, who are willing to meet men like me...nor do i know of any couples that would show intrest in a single male...guess time will tell...
Single men are our primary focus now. True , there are a LOT of single men who make it rough for the good ones, but if your polite when you send an email to a couple that hasn't said no single men, and you fit what they asked for, you should do ok.
In our area we cannot find a good one. Seems like most think because they are male and have a penis they are what we are looking for. Be honest, this is most important, and never send those famous one liners using foul language. If your are told "no thanks" respect that and move on, do not keep sending emails.
In our area we cannot find a good one. Seems like most think because they are male and have a penis they are what we are looking for. Be honest, this is most important, and never send those famous one liners using foul language. If your are told "no thanks" respect that and move on, do not keep sending emails.
Dropkickmurphy,
Try getting some better pics of you, without the ball cap, and one that people can see what you look like. Maybe your luck may change.
Try getting some better pics of you, without the ball cap, and one that people can see what you look like. Maybe your luck may change.
I'm no longer single (thank god), but I have to say I've had a blast with everyone I've met off this site. Not everyone is a prude about it, and you'd be surprised how many couples that advertised 'couples and single females only' actually responded to my ad. (and had alot of fun, I must say) 
I meant I had alot of fun...hahaha
But everyone I've met has asked me back, so I guess they did , too
And, we don't advertise that we're seeking single males, but it's not out of the question...just have to convince my 'attorny'...she makes the rules ...hahaha
But everyone I've met has asked me back, so I guess they did , too
And, we don't advertise that we're seeking single males, but it's not out of the question...just have to convince my 'attorny'...she makes the rules ...hahaha
Welcome Slowhand, I met slowhand311 before at a party and can tell you he is the real deal. He never once over stepped the boundaries, was thoughtful and made me feel right at home. If I were a couple I would invite him in a heart beat, a single lady absolutely give him a try. As soon as I am healed, I hope the pleasure of his company for an evening.
Ok...so to answer your question, no I dont think you are wasting your time here. I know several single men on this site who have very good luck. The ones who dont are the jerks who email with "Im the best fuck you will ever have baby" and "You know you want me" etc etc etc. The single men who are nice and mature and respectful dont have those kinds of problems. I dont even respond to emails like that, and it has nothing to do with being snobbish. Good luck cutie!!!!
.....Chelle
.....Chelle
Ok...so to answer your question, no I dont think you are wasting your time here. I know several single men on this site who have very good luck. The ones who dont are the jerks who email with "Im the best fuck you will ever have baby" and "You know you want me" etc etc etc. The single men who are nice and mature and respectful dont have those kinds of problems. I dont even respond to emails like that, and it has nothing to do with being snobbish. Good luck cutie!!!!
.....Chelle
.....Chelle
I have met some GREAT people on this site ...
I have been on here for about 2 months now have not met any one on here yet i have sent out a quit a few email but i have not even got a no thank you yet from any of them. I would be happy to get even a"sorry you are not what we/I am looking for" just so i can move one
I agree with some of the other posts. You need some better pictures my dear!! I bet you are a cutie underneath the cap!!!
I think you bring up a very valid point! If you receive email-ANSWER IT!. Even if it is to say "no thank you". Didn't your mothers teach you this!!!
My closest friend and dearest "playmate" is a single male...and he has had some luck online but he has LOTS of pictures on his profile and only one is R or X rated. The guys with the X rated shots and short profile are a turn off.
I wish you LOTS of luck and when I come to Panama City to run the Ironman...maybe we should hook up (before the race...after the race, I won't be able to move!!!)
-M
I think you bring up a very valid point! If you receive email-ANSWER IT!. Even if it is to say "no thank you". Didn't your mothers teach you this!!!
My closest friend and dearest "playmate" is a single male...and he has had some luck online but he has LOTS of pictures on his profile and only one is R or X rated. The guys with the X rated shots and short profile are a turn off.
I wish you LOTS of luck
and when I come to Panama City to run the Ironman...maybe we should hook up (before the race...after the race, I won't be able to move!!!)-M
I agree with some of the other posts. You need some better pictures my dear!! I bet you are a cutie underneath the cap!!!
I think you bring up a very valid point! If you receive email-ANSWER IT!. Even if it is to say "no thank you". Didn't your mothers teach you this!!!
My closest friend and dearest "playmate" is a single male...and he has had some luck online but he has LOTS of pictures on his profile and only one is R or X rated. The guys with the X rated shots and short profile are a turn off.
I wish you LOTS of luck and when I come to Panama City to run the Ironman...maybe we should hook up (before the race...after the race, I won't be able to move!!!)
-M
I think you bring up a very valid point! If you receive email-ANSWER IT!. Even if it is to say "no thank you". Didn't your mothers teach you this!!!
My closest friend and dearest "playmate" is a single male...and he has had some luck online but he has LOTS of pictures on his profile and only one is R or X rated. The guys with the X rated shots and short profile are a turn off.
I wish you LOTS of luck
and when I come to Panama City to run the Ironman...maybe we should hook up (before the race...after the race, I won't be able to move!!!)-M
Studman try adding more pics and put a little more effort into your profile cpls want to know a bit about the single guys they may meet it always amazes us cpls will put alot in thier profiles but alot of guys seem to think a few words will do (WRONG) that sends out the wrong signals if a guy won't put the effort into writing a good profile good possibility he is the same in bed. Frankly wife is tired of the lazy ones who want to lay back and lets the ladies do all the work. Guys who put effort into thier profiles impress those who don't take the time to write a good profile just get ignored.
SLOWHAND311,
Not all single guys are bad we have are share of them form this sight and others but they are very sicret and not willing to give enough photo's of them selfs both nude and un-nude.
Then not all meet the requierments that my wife is looking for for when she does want a 2nd dick around. and alot of time when they do meet her requierments they cant keep it hard with me in the room or they cant keep it hard with a condum on.
Poet
Not all single guys are bad we have are share of them form this sight and others but they are very sicret and not willing to give enough photo's of them selfs both nude and un-nude.
Then not all meet the requierments that my wife is looking for for when she does want a 2nd dick around. and alot of time when they do meet her requierments they cant keep it hard with me in the room or they cant keep it hard with a condum on.
Poet
I didn't come in looking for a quick fuck, so I'm not disappointed. I've gotten to know a lot of cool people through chatting and e-mailing. If I didn't live so damn far away from everyone, I'm sure I'd have met some of them. Like anything else, it's all about how you present yourself and how you approach things.