We would like to throw an idea out there for a new hang out for the younger LS crowd on Saturday nights instead of Habits: Sky!
So we have tried the Saturday night Habits scene 3 times lately, and although we have had fun, mostly because of the group we arranged to be there with, we are noticing some trends.
There are a lot of single males, especially older ones, who like to come and watch. These "creepers" are often mood killers and will sometimes try to sneak a cheap thrill from one of our ladies. Not cool.
The average age seems to be 50 or so, which is fine, except our group seems to average about 30-38.
There also isn't a huge dance floor and it is more difficult to have some discreet LS fun on the dance floor without all the creepers and other guests standing around the fish bowl just watching (when the ladies decide to get dirty together or we are all switching partners it feels like all eyes are on us).
The collared rule on Saturday night prevented one couple from coming in and almost ourselves (luckily had an extra shirt in car).
We do like all the seating at Habits and the food. But these other issues are making Habits very unattractive for us.
So for all you younger, fit, attractive couples and non-creeper singles, how about turning Sky on Saturday nights as our new place for meet and greet and some discreet LS fun on the dance floor? There are several nearby bars to meet up before or after, several nearby hotels and the crowd is much more conducive to the under 45 LS crowd.
We'd also like to arrange a house party sometime this Summer in Salt Lake where we rent a nice home for a night. Interested?
So we have tried the Saturday night Habits scene 3 times lately, and although we have had fun, mostly because of the group we arranged to be there with, we are noticing some trends.
There are a lot of single males, especially older ones, who like to come and watch. These "creepers" are often mood killers and will sometimes try to sneak a cheap thrill from one of our ladies. Not cool.
The average age seems to be 50 or so, which is fine, except our group seems to average about 30-38.
There also isn't a huge dance floor and it is more difficult to have some discreet LS fun on the dance floor without all the creepers and other guests standing around the fish bowl just watching (when the ladies decide to get dirty together or we are all switching partners it feels like all eyes are on us).
The collared rule on Saturday night prevented one couple from coming in and almost ourselves (luckily had an extra shirt in car).
We do like all the seating at Habits and the food. But these other issues are making Habits very unattractive for us.
So for all you younger, fit, attractive couples and non-creeper singles, how about turning Sky on Saturday nights as our new place for meet and greet and some discreet LS fun on the dance floor? There are several nearby bars to meet up before or after, several nearby hotels and the crowd is much more conducive to the under 45 LS crowd.
We'd also like to arrange a house party sometime this Summer in Salt Lake where we rent a nice home for a night. Interested?
Define non creeper singles lol.
We think it's a great idea. We have occasionally had the same experiences at Habits too. Keep us in mind when you plan it!
We live in Utah County and we would like to try the Madison in Provo, it's a nice club and there are 3 floors of music to keep everyone entertained.
Sound's fun! Please let us know
JJS69 wrote:
More options is a good thing. I like the idea.
First response to post an SM. Hahahaha
A vocal minority of single males think the Submit button also dispenses easily obtained free sex.
Thumbs down to creeper haters. Creepers are people too.
We were there on Saturday and the creeper ring was out of control. Sky might be worth a try.
There are creepers in every bar, and I don't think it would matter what dance floor you are on, people are going to gawk, Maybe a new venue to mix things up a little but a lot of the concerns will be the same no matter what club you hit. And I wouldn't be able to attend, as I am far from fit 
When I was in my 20's I thought 30's was the over-the-hill age, but once I hit my 30's I realized it was really 40's that you are really old...but of course now that I'm in my 40's I have become wiser and learned that it's not until you hit 50 that you shouldn't be partying with us younger generation...
Age is just a number. Haven't ya all heard, 50 is the new 30?
May we join? We're on the back 9 of our 30's but I think we might be sexy enough to catch a stare or 2 from a creeper on any dance floor, well I'm positive Mrs. AandR would.
Oh, and somewherentime, you guys are sexy as hell. Just our little humble opinions
Oh, and somewherentime, you guys are sexy as hell. Just our little humble opinions
well we are in our early 40's so I guess we're out, maybe someone will like us since we are so old and disfigured
AANDR wrote:
May we join? We're on the back 9 of our 30's but I think we might be sexy enough to catch a stare or 2 from a creeper on any dance floor, well I'm positive Mrs. AandR would.
Oh, and somewherentime, you guys are sexy as hell. Just our little humble opinions
Well then, for all the middle-aged, fit, attractive couples...please send your resumes to the "One-on-One No Need to Meet At A Bar Club", to have fun in Utah.
Oh, and AANDR, thanks for the compliment! Back at ya...sexy as hell, from what we can tell.
AANDR wrote:
May we join? We're on the back 9 of our 30's but I think we might be sexy enough to catch a stare or 2 from a creeper on any dance floor, well I'm positive Mrs. AandR would.
Oh, and somewherentime, you guys are sexy as hell. Just our little humble opinions
AANDR...You two are in your prime! You're very hot!
"Somewhereintime"...consider our resume sent!
Will there simply be an age restriction or will successful applicants also need to catalog and send a comprehensive list of any and all Affliction and Tap Out clothing they own? 
Only you need to provide all that Evildoers.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Will there simply be an age restriction or will successful applicants also need to catalog and send a comprehensive list of any and all Affliction and Tap Out clothing they own?
And UnderArmour and Hurley and their student loan balances, shit credit scores and pictures of the 15 year old Subie wagon they've used since high school, only w/ two sticky baby seats in the back. Sleep deprivation not required but is a plus!
You too Cheffette..please provide all the above.
Oh, and please describe in 300 words or less why you now prefer maple bacon macchiato e-liquid over Skittles and Mountain Dew Code Red.
Big bushy beards and ironically large glasses optional.
Big bushy beards and ironically large glasses optional.
Does age and looks matter if we are filthy rich?
Does age and looks matter if we are filthy rich?
Rich is good. Exactly HOW filthy are we talkin' here? Bathe once a week? Monthly? Quarterly?
My Chuck Taylors are so old they were made in the USA. But then, I get down w/ a 30 y.o. FWB a couple of times a week and I'm 46 so stereotypes just might be crap.
Younger LS Meet-up.
In my defense I was in a hurry and didn't have time to find a better pic. But it DOES look like several swing parties we've been to over the past few years. But if it will make the youngin's feel better I'll post a pic of one of our geezer meet 'n greets. The one on the left is the creeper...cuz her battery is getting low.
Settle down there, Goober. Nobody here is offended (Do they speak sarcasm in Driggs?). We're just goofing around. Why don't cha mosey on down to the soda shop and treat yourself to a Grape Nehi. You'll feel much better and maybe even realize that none of this shit on the internet really matters very much in this great big cosmic shitstorm we call existence.
Alternatively, a good laxative might be in order.
Alternatively, a good laxative might be in order.
JJS69 wrote:
Wow, I just think changing things up a bit can always be fun. And I thought the funniest thing was that an SM was the first to post that it was a good idea. Maybe he's creeped out too? Lol
But can we get on with the idea on the thread? I'm not going to be in my thirties anymore by the time it's settled.
Yes... some time us single males get creeped out too. Life is hard as a single male. Love habit have met a lot of cool couples but a different venue can be fun. You don't always have to be hating on single males we do our part too ... It's all about respect. NAMASTE
Wow! Been busy with work and birthdays and other obligations for a few days and came back to this. Haha.
No offense meant towards the 45+ crowd and we wouldn't be offended if 18-25 year olds wanted to be around there own age either (although any 21 year old male who didn't want to fuck my Mrs. does not have a sex drive)!
So we are getting a group together this Saturday night at Sky. So far there are 4 couples committed and likely a few more soon. We are reaching out to invite more.
It will be a group mostly comprised of:
- age 25-40 or 42 or so
- all fit/athletic
- all couples (we are very open to similar single females but no single males for this get together)
- all outgoing/fun
- several are outspoken with ladies that will not allow any uninvited behavior or starring
- all newer to the LS, just by chance but not required, actually wouldn't mind some experienced couples/single females joining.
Most of us have already met and have had some fun together several times at Sky and Habits. It seems like all of us are getting a room nearby and there will be some pre-gaming and meeting and greeting before hand around 9 p.m. at one of our rooms. We are getting bottle service/table at Sky and plan to show up around 10:30 p.m or so.
If you'd like more details or to join, please PM us or send us a message on kik at mr.fullofpassion6. We have a group chat on kik right now that we will add people to that want to join.
We hope this isn't offensive and we had no intention of offending. This is just the type of people we are looking for and interested in.
Thanks for understanding!
No offense meant towards the 45+ crowd and we wouldn't be offended if 18-25 year olds wanted to be around there own age either (although any 21 year old male who didn't want to fuck my Mrs. does not have a sex drive)!
So we are getting a group together this Saturday night at Sky. So far there are 4 couples committed and likely a few more soon. We are reaching out to invite more.
It will be a group mostly comprised of:
- age 25-40 or 42 or so
- all fit/athletic
- all couples (we are very open to similar single females but no single males for this get together)
- all outgoing/fun
- several are outspoken with ladies that will not allow any uninvited behavior or starring
- all newer to the LS, just by chance but not required,
actually wouldn't mind some experienced couples/single females joining.Most of us have already met and have had some fun together several times at Sky and Habits. It seems like all of us are getting a room nearby and there will be some pre-gaming and meeting and greeting before hand around 9 p.m. at one of our rooms. We are getting bottle service/table at Sky and plan to show up around 10:30 p.m or so.
If you'd like more details or to join, please PM us or send us a message on kik at mr.fullofpassion6. We have a group chat on kik right now that we will add people to that want to join.
We hope this isn't offensive and we had no intention of offending. This is just the type of people we are looking for and interested in.
Thanks for understanding!
I don't think anybody was really offended (except for that guy who got offended because he thought WE were offended-lol). Of COURSE you want to play with others in your own age group. Nobody wants to fuck someone who reminds them of their aunt or uncle or worse... their parents! *shudder* Have a great meet and greet and don't any pay attention to those of us who are just goofing around posting silly things. We really aren't butthurt that you want to have your own age appropriate get together, I promise. 
BIKE_CPL4FUN wrote:
can't you just let em meet up without all the Bullshit comments and pics throwing digs????????? this blows me away that you (you know who you are) are actually offended, if you weren't, then why would you give them shit about wanting to hook up with peeps their own age???? wtf live and let live.. (now watch all as they defend their childish behavior as in jest...)
Live and let live yourself there, Mr. Arbiter Of What Can Be Made Fun Of; everything can be made fun of in the course of being examined closely, especially in the LS. Seeking to understand, empathize and expose is vital; otherwise we're all bopping along not caring what we do to whom or why and that way lies unhappiness.
ETA: Just read Evil's post; while I wasn't offended, exactly, my concern is the idea of 'age appropriate' in the first place; it seems to be an implicit guarantee of a good time, that you meet people who are just like you. But there are not only no guarantees whatsoever, how do you know stepping out of your typical parameters wouldn't be even better? Why not take a chance, are you afraid to learn you have the best orgasms w/ someone whose picture you wouldn't post on your Facebook to boast you nailed? This isn't that game, friendo. Enjoyable, authentic sex lives don't use that currency; it's about the moment, not the bragging rights to the jock or the cheerleader.
CHEFFETTE wrote:BIKE_CPL4FUN wrote:
can't you just let em meet up without all the Bullshit comments and pics throwing digs????????? this blows me away that you (you know who you are) are actually offended, if you weren't, then why would you give them shit about wanting to hook up with peeps their own age???? wtf live and let live.. (now watch all as they defend their childish behavior as in jest...)
Live and let live yourself there, Mr. Arbiter Of What Can Be Made Fun Of; everything can be made fun of in the course of being examined closely, especially in the LS. Seeking to understand, empathize and expose is vital; otherwise we're all bopping along not caring what we do to whom or why and that way lies unhappiness.
ETA: Just read Evil's post; while I wasn't offended, exactly, my concern is the idea of 'age appropriate' in the first place; it seems to be an implicit guarantee of a good time, that you meet people who are just like you. But there are not only no guarantees whatsoever, how do you know stepping out of your typical parameters wouldn't be even better? Why not take a chance, are you afraid to learn you have the best orgasms w/ someone whose picture you wouldn't post on your Facebook to boast you nailed? This isn't that game, friendo. Enjoyable, authentic sex lives don't use that currency; it's about the moment, not the bragging rights to the jock or the cheerleader.
WELL SAID!!!!
by fit, do you mean 6-packs, fit into one seat on a plane ect? cuz I have a 6 pack in the fridge and I fly a lot and only have to buy 1 seat, oh and I fit in my pants. young? sorry if we met you would think I am 18-24. I have been around the world and seen a lot, I have had to travel "outside" my comfort zone, just remember before you know it, you may be fit but you will be old.. just sayn.....have a great night just remember if you go "old" you will NOT get mold. LMAO
A good point FUN4US02. I'm guessing when most folks say fit they mean body image and not physical prowess. Granted, generally the slender people are more capable than the chubbies, but there are quite a few exceptions to the rule. One girl was technically obese, she could run 4 miles in 30 minutes. Another girl was within the BMI range, and she could only run one mile. and it took her ten minutes. And these are far from the only exceptions. So yes, Fit should be defined if the OP wants to achieve their desired results. I'm not asking much, just for specifically defined standards, and communicating them to others.
Fwiw I'd be willing to wager a considerable amount of money that when most people request that potential play partners be "fit" they are referring more to a normal to lean physique rather than racketball prowess or how quickly someone can or cannot run a mile. But I could be wrong.
ps- I know a guy who can do 100 consecutive situps (well, to be fair, what HE considers situps...he can't quite get all the way to the upright position due to his large omentum) but can't quite fit into a standard airline seat. I'm betting he might not actually fall into the category of "fit".
ps- I know a guy who can do 100 consecutive situps (well, to be fair, what HE considers situps...he can't quite get all the way to the upright position due to his large omentum) but can't quite fit into a standard airline seat. I'm betting he might not actually fall into the category of "fit".
EVILDOERS wrote:
Fwiw I'd be willing to wager a considerable amount of money that when most people request that potential play partners be "fit" they are referring more to a normal to lean physique rather than racketball prowess or how quickly someone can or cannot run a mile.
So.....you said almost exactly what I said in sentence #2 of my post to critique it? GREAT POINT! Brilliant analysis! GO EVIL GO!
CHEFFETTE wrote:
ETA: Just read Evil's post; while I wasn't offended, exactly, my concern is the idea of 'age appropriate' in the first place; it seems to be an implicit guarantee of a good time, that you meet people who are just like you. But there are not only no guarantees whatsoever, how do you know stepping out of your typical parameters wouldn't be even better? Why not take a chance, are you afraid to learn you have the best orgasms w/ someone whose picture you wouldn't post on your Facebook to boast you nailed? This isn't that game, friendo. Enjoyable, authentic sex lives don't use that currency; it's about the moment, not the bragging rights to the jock or the cheerleader.
We apologize again that this has come off as offensive, that we prefer to be couples within 5-10 years of our age (in both directions) and that we are sexually attracted to fit.
Fit means frequent exercise/time in the gym, on the lower side of body fat and nice muscular curves. This is who we are and what we are attracted to and our interests in the lifestyle. Doesn't matter if someone has the best technique in the world, if we are not aroused, it won't be enjoyable.
And why would you assume this is about bragging?! In fact, all of us meeting up are ultra-sensitive about discretion. I guarantee you there won't be any bragging but lots of hot naked bodies and orgasms.
If you need more of an image to fit our description of what this group is looking for, here you go. Some may be more fit. Some less. But fit requires activity and healthy eating. A 6 pack of beer is a nice bonus
Yeah, JEFFSMITH, go me! And sorry you can't have a pic of your mad dessert making skilz for your profile pic. That was kinda my fault. Sorry, brah.
And fwiw that guy in your (FULLOFPASSIN06) pic above looks exACTLY like my friend who can do a hundred situps...except that he is morbidly obese and has stretch marks all over his massive gut. One of them looks JUST like a graphic relief map of the Volga river as it meanders lazily through the pristine countryside of Volgograd.
And fwiw that guy in your (FULLOFPASSIN06) pic above looks exACTLY like my friend who can do a hundred situps...except that he is morbidly obese and has stretch marks all over his massive gut. One of them looks JUST like a graphic relief map of the Volga river as it meanders lazily through the pristine countryside of Volgograd.
FULLOFPASSINO6 wrote:CHEFFETTE wrote:
ETA: Just read Evil's post; while I wasn't offended, exactly, my concern is the idea of 'age appropriate' in the first place; it seems to be an implicit guarantee of a good time, that you meet people who are just like you. But there are not only no guarantees whatsoever, how do you know stepping out of your typical parameters wouldn't be even better? Why not take a chance, are you afraid to learn you have the best orgasms w/ someone whose picture you wouldn't post on your Facebook to boast you nailed? This isn't that game, friendo. Enjoyable, authentic sex lives don't use that currency; it's about the moment, not the bragging rights to the jock or the cheerleader.
We apologize again that this has come off as offensive, that we prefer to be couples within 5-10 years of our age (in both directions) and that we are sexually attracted to fit.
Fit means frequent exercise/time in the gym, on the lower side of body fat and nice muscular curves. This is who we are and what we are attracted to and our interests in the lifestyle. Doesn't matter if someone has the best technique in the world, if we are not aroused, it won't be enjoyable.
And why would you assume this is about bragging?! In fact, all of us meeting up are ultra-sensitive about discretion. I guarantee you there won't be any bragging but lots of hot naked bodies and orgasms.
If you need more of an image to fit our description of what this group is looking for, here you go. Some may be more fit. Some less. But fit requires activity and healthy eating. A 6 pack of beer is a nice bonus
Thanks for making it crystal clear you're too brainwashed to listen. Enjoy your light-skinned, Photoshopped, heteronormative people.
We would love to join
Really. Age is just a number. There can, and will be creepers at all ages. A individual that is 25 will of course think that 35 is to old. They feel this way because the they think when they turn 35 they'll be old and watched up, so why fuck someone that's 35. When you're 25, turning 35 is scary. Please people don't rob yourself's from the great sex you can have from someone older than you just because they are
older. If the older person is in shape and turns you on, fuck that older person and enjoy that person.
older. If the older person is in shape and turns you on, fuck that older person and enjoy that person.
So, I have to say even though some people are making weird comments, this thread is still on the main page, so people are still seeing it. And I bet you've gotten at least a dozen messages sent straight to you because of it.
We would like to join!
JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:
So, I have to say even though some people are making weird comments, this thread is still on the main page, so people are still seeing it. And I bet you've gotten at least a dozen messages sent straight to you because of it.
Evils lucky, no one sends me messages...
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:
So, I have to say even though some people are making weird comments, this thread is still on the main page, so people are still seeing it. And I bet you've gotten at least a dozen messages sent straight to you because of it.
Evils lucky, no one sends me messages...
I think he actually meant the OP and not me but fwiw I don't consider hate mail, death threats, and Amway solicitations to be true "messages".
We had an okay time
The guy with the underwear on is doing it wrong.
We typically go to Sky on Thursdays for the EDM and also think Habits can be a bit creepy, even though we are part of that "older" crowd. We see no problem with stating what it is you are looking for and actively seeking it. Everyone has a type and some people branch out, some don't. Who cares? It is silly that people get offended if you aren't interested in them. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who was not interested in me or taking one for the team, so honesty is always the best policy in any situation. I wonder if anyone would complain if a group was setup for the old, fat, out of shape people? Would the skinny, in shape people be like, "WTF? You are rude for excluding us". Doubt it. Or what about if a group of Mormons wanted to start a group? Should I be offended? Nope, I'm not. I want to be around people who like to be around me and have similar interests and goals. If there are arbitrary criteria such as age, height, weight, cock size, eye color, number of teeth, etc, so be it. We have our criteria and if everyone is being honest, so do they. I don't see many on here lining up for the 95+, wheelchair bound, diaper wearing couples, so I assume they don't fit into most people's fantasy. Does that make us or you shallow? Nope. People who are fit and active typically work hard to look good and want to be around others with similar goals. It is healthy, unless obsessive, and if you take offense to that, maybe you need to get of your soap box.
Anyway, best of luck to you young, fit, sexy people. Hope it works out well. If we happen to be at Sky on a Saturday, we will try, a little, not to be creepy. No promises.
The Mr.
PS. I agree with Evil. Underwear on? Come on guys, represent a bit. If the women are all naked and you have your briefs on, we might need to have a talk about the benefits of condoms over polyester.
Anyway, best of luck to you young, fit, sexy people. Hope it works out well. If we happen to be at Sky on a Saturday, we will try, a little, not to be creepy.
No promises. The Mr.
PS. I agree with Evil. Underwear on? Come on guys, represent a bit. If the women are all naked and you have your briefs on, we might need to have a talk about the benefits of condoms over polyester.
Sounds like a great idea! It's always good to have options when we want to get out.
lol annnnndddd this is why i don't go to events when i'm back in utah.
Bailey wrote:
Keep us informed 😘
Was the 3 year waiting killing you? Lol
Man.... somebody went WAY back through the forums.... Habits doesn't even exist anymore.
We miss Habits. What a fun club.
And another one "Rides The Bus"
Dang, saw this topic was active and got super pumped to meet a similarly-aged LS group! Shameless plug: we made a Swingular group called "Millennial Swingers" for couples/single women in their 20s-30s. If there's enough interest I'll get around to making a Kik group or something for outing coordination.
Sorry single guys, we really envisioned the group for couples/single women only.
For interested 20s-30s couples/single women out there: there's a Swingular group called "Millennial Swingers" - apply to join and once there's quorum I'll set up a Kik.
For interested 20s-30s couples/single women out there: there's a Swingular group called "Millennial Swingers" - apply to join and once there's quorum I'll set up a Kik
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