Swingers Forum - Full bush, trimmed, shaved? Also has anyone gotten laser hair re

Shaved

I agree, complete removal, but NOT shaved. Either waxed or lasered. The problems with shaving, even ignoring how often it has to be done, are skin irritation, possibly even cuts, for many itchimess as it grows back in, and scratchiness for the partner as soon as theree's any stubble. And that scratchiness can happen before it's really long enouhg to shave again.

With waxing, there are obviously no cuts or razor burn and, as long as the esthetician knows what she's doing, very little or no skin irritation after. Waxing lasts 4 to 6 weeks for most people. And when it starts to grow back in, no itchiness and no scratchy stubble. Each hair is a new hair, not the end of the existibng hair which was cut off at its thickest point. So they grow back soft and fine. Also, between waxings only a third of the hairs will start to grow back in. That's why some say their first waxing was painful. All the hairs were being removed at one time, and once you start regular waxing only a third as many are being removed each time. The biggest problem with waxing is finding an esthetician who knows how to and will wax men. Most just don't do it, and there are so few that do that it can be hard to get an appointment, especially one for just when you want it.

With lasers, it's a permanent removal. But the disadvantage is that it's a lot more expensive and you need several treatments before the hair stops growing back in.

TMACA wrote:

I agree, complete removal, but NOT shaved. Either waxed or lasered. The problems with shaving, even ignoring how often it has to be done, are skin irritation, possibly even cuts, for many itchimess as it grows back in, and scratchiness for the partner as soon as theree's any stubble. And that scratchiness can happen before it's really long enouhg to shave again.

With waxing, there are obviously no cuts or razor burn and, as long as the esthetician knows what she's doing, very little or no skin irritation after. Waxing lasts 4 to 6 weeks for most people. And when it starts to grow back in, no itchiness and no scratchy stubble. Each hair is a new hair, not the end of the existibng hair which was cut off at its thickest point. So they grow back soft and fine. Also, between waxings only a third of the hairs will start to grow back in. That's why some say their first waxing was painful. All the hairs were being removed at one time, and once you start regular waxing only a third as many are being removed each time. The biggest problem with waxing is finding an esthetician who knows how to and will wax men. Most just don't do it, and there are so few that do that it can be hard to get an appointment, especially one for just when you want it.

With lasers, it's a permanent removal. But the disadvantage is that it's a lot more expensive and you need several treatments before the hair stops growing back in.

I know what you mean because we've been dealing with this dilemma as well. I love waxing but have been thinking about laser hair removal as well. My husband has very sensitive skin so he can't even shave (only trim really short) he can't even wax, so we've thought about doing laser for both of us. I looked into it recently at Ideal Image and it is very costly! Even at their 70% off discount for St Patrick's Day was like $2,000-2,600 for 5 treatments and 4 touch ups. So we haven't made that plunge yet. He did his back before for like 6 treatments and it still didn't get rid of it all just thinned it out. Good luck though, let me know if you find a better deal!

Natural for sure.....especially on women because the vaja ja can be hiding more than usual....which adds to the surprises....for me, showering at the club would be a no

Yep....with ya on that DEFFMAN.....the mystery & surprises that beckon beneath makes my blood boil....as a teen, female friends would share, that larger breasts, and a thicker, larger bush were equally envied, and those w/ larger mats had secretive locker room nicknames.....ahhhh, youth

If oral is involved we prefer saved or trimmed. If it is only sex then I really don't care either way. Is long as you are comfortable with yourself, that's all that really matters to me.

Shaved don't want to hike thru the forest to get to the picnic

My wife and I are both shaved, makes oral sex more enjoyable...but there is something to seeing a naked lady with a bush that adds to the sexiness of it, or when you slide your hand down her panties and feel the bush. When there is no bush in that area it's no longer part of the vagina, just more skin leading to the vagina...but the area around the pussy lips always needs to be shaven, unless it looks like 3 vaginas in 1, in that case cover it up with the overgrown pubic hairs.

use to love shaved...like her trimmed tightly now...

Definitely laser! Got mine done 2 years ago and still love it (I shave maybe once a month just cuz, hubby doesn't notice, and I won hairiest legs in High School). Did mine at Skin Science Institute in SLC for $300- full leg, underarms AND Brazilian for 18 months unlimited! Yes I went religiously every 4 weeks for 18 months straight! They are having a similar deal right now on Living Social, best deal around hands down. I wax my kids and they love it, I'll buy them laser when they are older for sure! Laser is the way to go, best money I ever spent! Oh and oral feels much better! Message me if you want the deal info.

Late to the game but...
There are DIY laser hair removal kits available.

We're both lasered all the way around. It's a slippery ride.

SMOOOOTH

Shaved for both of us, to us it shows cleanliness and we don't want to have a strand of hair possibly getting into our mouths while going south..

clean shaven and lickable!!!!

shaved smooooooth ~ or ~ nicely trimmed

What's so bad about a little hairy Bush?