Wow... We are hosting our first big party in April , www.secretsturnmeon.com. We have decided to only allow couples and single women. This is where it fires up! We have had tons of emails from single guys (and some couples) saying that we are making a big mistake by not allowing the single man to cum? We have already asked this before and we felt comfortable that it was in the best interest to leave out the loner guys......HELP ..... should we let them come or not? We really need your help....(please singe men, no more emails!)
My wife said if they all looked like attached picture...then it would be o.k.?!?
My wife said if they all looked like attached picture...then it would be o.k.?!?
well i have met several couples and alot of them have had bad experiances with single men being rude. i think you should limit sinlges males by invitation only so if a couple has a single male they have met and want to invite them they can.
So if this offends any single men then you are a pussy and need to grow up. i am a single male and i think this is how i would throw a swinger party if i was to have one.
So if this offends any single men then you are a pussy and need to grow up. i am a single male and i think this is how i would throw a swinger party if i was to have one.
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Lets be real here, YOU are throwing a party. You have a pretty good idea of what your guests like and you have an idea of the direction you would like to see the party go.
Emails from single guys crying that they aren't invited.... Ignore them.
Emails coming from Couples asking that some singles be included... Contemplate it.
You may look at a compromise situation where you would allow escorted singles males.... That way if a couple wishes a single male toy for the night.. They bring their own...
Just my 2cents... From a single guy that ain't gonna cry about not getting an invite...
Lets be real here, YOU are throwing a party. You have a pretty good idea of what your guests like and you have an idea of the direction you would like to see the party go.
Emails from single guys crying that they aren't invited.... Ignore them.
Emails coming from Couples asking that some singles be included... Contemplate it.
You may look at a compromise situation where you would allow escorted singles males.... That way if a couple wishes a single male toy for the night.. They bring their own...
Just my 2cents... From a single guy that ain't gonna cry about not getting an invite...
I entered the lifestyle as a couple so I know how immensely irritating single males can be. My ex and I did entertain single males but very rarely.
I agree with the idea of allowing couples to bring their own single. That way you almost know that the single is not a complete jerk cause someone obviously likes him. Its also better for the single because he isn't sitting in the corner nursing his beer like so many do.
sidenote:
I am also a believer in mixer dances to get people comfortable with eachother.
I agree with the idea of allowing couples to bring their own single. That way you almost know that the single is not a complete jerk cause someone obviously likes him. Its also better for the single because he isn't sitting in the corner nursing his beer like so many do.
sidenote:
I am also a believer in mixer dances to get people comfortable with eachother.
As a couple who would LOVE to entertain some single men...We can tell you this...IF we get a recommendation from a couple for a single man, we DEFINITELY contact him...Usually this means he is respectful, caring, understanding, and a decent lay...lets be honest...that is why we are all here...
Now...Back to YOUR party...the key word ere is YOUR party....Our experience is this...IF you have certifying couples...invite them and/or allow them to come...as long as some of the couples want them...Better than half of them will not show..IF you are lucky, you will invite 5 and 1 will actually show...Just our experience...BUT you gotta go with your desires, because it is YOUR party.
our 2 cents...no change and no thanks needed...LOL
Now...Back to YOUR party...the key word ere is YOUR party....Our experience is this...IF you have certifying couples...invite them and/or allow them to come...as long as some of the couples want them...Better than half of them will not show..IF you are lucky, you will invite 5 and 1 will actually show...Just our experience...BUT you gotta go with your desires, because it is YOUR party.
our 2 cents...no change and no thanks needed...LOL