I Love giving the man I'm playing with pleasure. But It seems like they are doing more to me than I do to them. I give hand jobs, I give blowjobs, then I climb on.
My question: Men--- What else do ya'll like to have done to you during play time???
Thanks
---L---
My question: Men--- What else do ya'll like to have done to you during play time???
Thanks
---L---
Unleash the Tiger and let it roar, smother me with your wildest passion.
Men just like women have different fantasies. Be unique, ask your partner what he likes and dislikes, ask your partner if there is anything different he would like to try.
It's the EYES and the passion in them! Look at me with a burning desire in your eyes. In the heat of foreplay say, " Fuck me."
This might shock some by I love having my balls sucked and chewed on. Other than that just be forthrigh and tell me what you want to do to me.
Have fun outside the bedroom. Maybe outside of the house. Be imaginative and look for opportunities to turn your guy on. you know how easy that is?!?!?!?
Have fun outside the bedroom. Maybe outside of the house. Be imaginative and look for opportunities to turn your guy on. you know how easy that is?!?!?!?
I know it sounds artificial and I'm not saying to lie, but when I have a woman giving me a blow job, it is really hot when she talks dirty and is uninhibited. Not to the point of being fake sounding, but if she tells me that she wants me to cum all over her face or wants to swallow it all and gives me that dirty little vixen look, it really makes it awesome. Just knowing that it is just as hot for her as me makes it great. By the way, Thanks For Asking Too...!!!!
Have to agree with cooltech, love the nasty talk but be real about it, maybe if you saw some one today who really turned you on, how you thought about sucking them or the last time you were out with the girls how you flirted and maybe did some dirty dancing but just be real about it.
I would also have to agree with the Dirty talk... if she tells me her fantasy's while where having sex it drive's me over the edge crazy! Makes me want to fulfill every little detail. Usually gets me so excited that I orgasm instantly. Also when receiving oral I love it when she takes care of the "whole" package and not just the tip. (not talking about DT either)... hope this isnt TMI lol
Think about what you like... I like have my nipples licked. I like being kissed all over. I like a little tongue all around down there, and back there...
I for one am more of a giver than a taker of pleasure. I would want a women to lay back and let me be able to touch and massage every inch of her body. That is what gets me hot.
I dun know about all that "inside the anus' talk...but that soft spot just underneath the balls is a great spot to play with...
Personally, I love to have a woman take charge. There is nothing, to me, more sexy then a woman that knows what she wants, and takes it without asking. I am also not one for the "traditonal" lingerie - a nice, white bra and thong will do it for me. Screw the bustier and fishnet stockings.
I'm not to hard to please, I suppose.
A&K (This is the male half, of course...)
Personally, I love to have a woman take charge. There is nothing, to me, more sexy then a woman that knows what she wants, and takes it without asking. I am also not one for the "traditonal" lingerie - a nice, white bra and thong will do it for me. Screw the bustier and fishnet stockings.
I'm not to hard to please, I suppose.
A&K (This is the male half, of course...)
a good back massage is a wonderful thing after a hard days work.
-scott
-scott
WOw where to begin. :-) Love having long nails lightly down my back. Love the same nails lightly dragged across the testicles. Also like the nipples played with gently. Play around the anus is fine but like the taint being played with. The taint is the area between the balls and anus. Called that cuz it taint butt and taint balls. LOL
Generally soft strokes and touches all over. Dragging the nails down the crease between the legs and hips.
HMM notice a trend of nails being involved? LOL
Generally soft strokes and touches all over. Dragging the nails down the crease between the legs and hips.
HMM notice a trend of nails being involved? LOL
WOW!!! Thanks so much... I love trying new things and everything will be put to good use 
Also.... Please continue sharing... It's great!!!
Well for me, it is very pleasureful to be a giver..but I guess as long as she's active, doesnt just lay there like a fish.
I like kissing......around my neck.....like to have my nipples sucked.....bitten....teased.......I agree with the person(s) who say its in the eyes......I like the look of lust and passion in my partners eyes......that wanting...I like when the woman just does.....to please rather than have me tell her everything.....its in the wanting that makes it that much more exciting.
Also happen to like when the wife is down there orally and she takes a testicle in her mouth and gently rolls it back and forth over her tongue.
Generally anything she does is alright with me. :-)
Generally anything she does is alright with me. :-)
OH BABY JUST RUN YOUR HANDS OVER ME WHILE WE KISS AND IF ITS YOUR TURN TO PLAY WITH ME.:z KISS YOUR WAY ALL OVER ME AND LET YOUR HANDS ROAM WHERE EVER THEY WANT....bUT YES I LIKE MY BALLS LICKED AND SUCKED GENTLY AND RUN A HAND BETWEEN MY LEGS AND UP MY ASS AND BACK DOWN WHILE YOUR SUCKING ME MMMMMMMMMMMMM BUT DONT FORGET MY TURN TO DO YOU NEXT.
OK I NEED A COLD SHOWER NOW ,LOL :z
OK I NEED A COLD SHOWER NOW ,LOL
:zWhen I get a blow job I like my ass played with and sometimes fingered that gets me off
So...you think just giving a blowjob isn't enough?
Ok, let's (for a few seconds) accept the idea that giving a man a blowjob isn't enough.
You want to give a memorable blowjob? The kind he'll never forget?
It has nothing to do with technique, fingers up things, balls in things, or anything like that.
Two things that will ALWAYS work that I've read in this thread so far are:
1) Eyes; Have that look in your eyes like you want to eat him alive. Let your eyes tell him that you are going to give him one of the best blowjobs he has ever had, and it will BECOME one of the best he's ever had.
2) Dirty talk; Tell him what that look in your eyes means in words. Confirm for him that the look he's getting is exactly the look he hoped it was. And yes, keep it real.
The one other thing that I didn't see mentioned here that is THE MOST IMPORTANT is:
3) Timing; Ladies...do you want to give your man a blowjob he'll NEVER forget? Find the most random time possible and give him a blowjob. That's it. RANDOM. Are the two of you on your way home from a bit of shopping at the mall? Maybe you stopped for lunch somewhere? Pull into a random parking garage, find an empty parking level, park and blow him just for the sake of doing it. Or maybe in the bathroom at a bar, or behind the Starbucks. The though of you not being able to wait until you get somewhere "appropriate" to suck his cock will drive him mad furious with lustful desire (this is the stuff men fantasize about).
Simply put...if you combine parts 1,2 and 3 above you will get the results you want. You will get the "How could I EVER repay THAT favor" look.
I hope this helps some lucky guy get the blowjob of his life. My work here is done. :P
Ok, let's (for a few seconds) accept the idea that giving a man a blowjob isn't enough.
You want to give a memorable blowjob? The kind he'll never forget?
It has nothing to do with technique, fingers up things, balls in things, or anything like that.
Two things that will ALWAYS work that I've read in this thread so far are:
1) Eyes; Have that look in your eyes like you want to eat him alive. Let your eyes tell him that you are going to give him one of the best blowjobs he has ever had, and it will BECOME one of the best he's ever had.
2) Dirty talk; Tell him what that look in your eyes means in words. Confirm for him that the look he's getting is exactly the look he hoped it was. And yes, keep it real.
The one other thing that I didn't see mentioned here that is THE MOST IMPORTANT is:
3) Timing; Ladies...do you want to give your man a blowjob he'll NEVER forget? Find the most random time possible and give him a blowjob. That's it. RANDOM. Are the two of you on your way home from a bit of shopping at the mall? Maybe you stopped for lunch somewhere? Pull into a random parking garage, find an empty parking level, park and blow him just for the sake of doing it. Or maybe in the bathroom at a bar, or behind the Starbucks. The though of you not being able to wait until you get somewhere "appropriate" to suck his cock will drive him mad furious with lustful desire (this is the stuff men fantasize about).
Simply put...if you combine parts 1,2 and 3 above you will get the results you want. You will get the "How could I EVER repay THAT favor" look.
I hope this helps some lucky guy get the blowjob of his life. My work here is done. :P
I will tell you something that is kinda different. Donna will put ice in her mouth and give one..
and tease around
very nice.
Brian
and tease around
very nice.Brian
Yes... I agree with imperfect.....Sounds just great....I love it when my woman takes me unexpectedly... It's just getting her to do that... & when she does- IT"S GREAT! When we are in bed & playing , I find I get my woman so turned on telling her about my past sexual x-periences before her & I met... & a lot of them I just make up (she knows that... lol) As I get into detail of when I screwed an old girl friend or when she sucked my hard wet cock....my woman just goes nuts...Then I use a very nice tingley love oil on her already wet pussy & ask her to massage her own pussy while I watch & tell her my story.....After a bit she is frantically bringing her self off to an orgasam ....at this time I cuddle up next to her & hold her tight for a few minutes as she is cumming off her high.... As she reaches for my cock & feels it hard and pre cum dripping from the head...she will slide down, as I roll back onto my back... & then she takes my cock into her beautiful mouth & watch out cause she is hot as hell right now....
She is working my cock & balls every which way she can & when I sence I am about to x-plode & litterly have to pull her off me...as I wish to give her a fucking that will make her x-plode with me....Some time I just let her finish me on off... cant stop...LOL.& she loves that as well ... I can tell that by the look in those beautiful eyes as she looks up at me with my hot cum dripping off her chin & with that quirky seductive smile on her face.... YES!!
The best thing you can do for your man is give him your sexy mind. If you think sexy, and are not afraid to talk dirty to him that alone will do a lot. I once had a girlfriend who wrote me dirty notes( at work!) about what she wanted to do to me and what she wanted from me, and talked dirty when we had sex. That woman set me on fire with desire for her and I will never forget her. She told me once, "to me, sucking cock is an art form". and she meant it! God I miss her!
I think a lot of us, as men, hold off maybe a little too long when it comes to the 'SAATISFYING PART". I think we are so concerned with the question of whether oor not our female partner is "satisfied" or not tht we hold off until we have an answer. What Ive found is that many females are satisfied with making thier male partners cum or satisfied enough that they, too, are "waiting". Then, the whole situation is screwed up. The very most important thing Ive found in ANY sexual situation is to determine, up front, what satisfies yor partner. If she, in my world, is satisfied by making or watching you cum, then satisfy her that way. If she wants you to cum first, then your on the stage. If its a mattter of mutual orgasm, then go for it. No matter WHAT the circumstance, KNOW WHAT IS EXPETED BEFORE the critical mooent and all will be well. I just dont understand some of these questions that deal with what is expected of mututal sexual partners when take care of everything BEFORE its time to say to yourself "oh, fuck, do i cum or not?" LOL LOL LOL I guess I just think that most people miss the WHOLE POINT OF SWINGING when they dont bother to find out what people need or expect before they hop inot bed. Thats NOT A TRUE SWINGER, thaTS JUST A PSOT NOTCHER.
IMPERFECT, You are perfect!
Imperfect--- You are absolutely right... When I have gave the look of "baby You're gonna love this" It's been intense for them.
I love trying new things especially when pleasing the man I am playing with.
Oh and the ice thing... is AWESOME!~!
I love trying new things especially when pleasing the man I am playing with.
Oh and the ice thing... is AWESOME!~!
::giggles::
Glad I have some folks who agree. :z
Glad I have some folks who agree. :z
I have extremely sensitive nipples and love to have the played with and sucked.
I will often get the lady who is blowing me to rub them or i will rub them myself to highten the pleasure.
Maybe it's my "feminine" side coming out..I wonder how many of the "macho" guys will admit to doing that.
I will often get the lady who is blowing me to rub them or i will rub them myself to highten the pleasure.
Maybe it's my "feminine" side coming out..I wonder how many of the "macho" guys will admit to doing that.
Nothing beats a great Massage. While the hottie who gives me mine every other week does a great job, it should would be more fun with a partner.
Istan
Istan
i'm an older guy..62..so let me add..i read a book written
by a butch lesbian, on how she would please her lovers.
what an eye opener!
i followed suit. making a woman cum sooooooooo
much, over & over, by just using your fingers and
tongue can make my cock bigger than any blue pill! lol
making them cum to exhaustion. that's the sign of a
good lover. what she does to me afterwards doesn't
matter. i know she'll be back for more. [wink]
thanx/biggsteve--[in ga now/was ft lauderdale]
by a butch lesbian, on how she would please her lovers.
what an eye opener!
i followed suit. making a woman cum sooooooooo
much, over & over, by just using your fingers and
tongue can make my cock bigger than any blue pill! lol
making them cum to exhaustion. that's the sign of a
good lover. what she does to me afterwards doesn't
matter. i know she'll be back for more. [wink]
thanx/biggsteve--[in ga now/was ft lauderdale]
Talking Dirty during sex is a real turn on for me. When a woman is verbally aggressive that is what separates the Great from the Good.
ME personally (male typing), I get more pleasure from pleasuring a woman than I do from my own orgasm...It is ALWAYS easy for me to orgasm...My gal ALWAYS pleasures me...I sooooooo enjoy pleasuring a woman, it is better than my pleasure....If a woman is hellbent on pleasuring me...I have no qualms letting her....I enjoy being pleasured also...but I LOVE ot pleasure her...Besides...Men are ugly...we need to make up for you being with us
Well, for me it's when a woman really takes the initiative and that can be anywhere, from public to private. Also, sexy kissing is a real turn on along with dirty talking and vocal action. I am a very visual male, but also like the auditory stimulation as well. From there it usually gets turned around and it quickly turns into me pleasuring her, which I love. I wish more women were agressive and really take control, you know we, as men, tend to be in control all day, it is so nice to have a woman take control and be agressive, I'm ready women, find me in Florida....Mav
i have to agree with Sinful. It is such a turn to know that she enjoys it as much as i do. Half the pleasure is in the mind so knowing your best friend, and life partner is having fun as you are is the most erotic sensation there is.
I think it's more about enjoying what you are doing than what is being donw to whom. I personally think that if a woman is really enjoying what she is doing I just couldn't aske for more... There's just not that much beyond what you are doing. So long as you really enjoy doing it then heaven is right there....
I'm surprised no one mentioned Altoids or Cough Drops. :~) The ice is great too - but MAN, the 'mint sensation' is to DIE FOR. I (the female) LOVE it. My husband is quite fond of it as well. You just pop one in your mouth, suck on it a little while, while it's still in your mouth, go down on your guy (or lady) - it's quite different!
I keep a bag of Halls in my nightstand drawer. *giggle giggle*
Any other ideas men?
I keep a bag of Halls in my nightstand drawer.
*giggle giggle*Any other ideas men?
Ok..Mr2 here.
I really like to know when Ive done something right. Let me know by moaning, or even just say it "I like that!"
I like to have a woman who will be active. Not just lay there and hope I'm good. It really keeps me going to see that she wants to have an active role in the evening. Of course, if youve read our profile, you'd know I'm kinda shy that way!...lol These things really turn me on! I love to see her getting excited, horny, feeling good and cumming.
As for me...kiss me, play with my nipples, talk dirty to me, get my mind aroused as much as my unit....lol
hope that helps ya.
I really like to know when Ive done something right. Let me know by moaning, or even just say it "I like that!"
I like to have a woman who will be active. Not just lay there and hope I'm good. It really keeps me going to see that she wants to have an active role in the evening. Of course, if youve read our profile, you'd know I'm kinda shy that way!...lol These things really turn me on! I love to see her getting excited, horny, feeling good and cumming.
As for me...kiss me, play with my nipples, talk dirty to me, get my mind aroused as much as my unit....lol
hope that helps ya.