"Sorry, she's not my type" smacks of a preoccupation with your own orgasm. When I got started, I didn't decline invitations because the lady was not "my type". I attended, performed, people liked what they saw, and they referred me to others. Now, my only problem is finding the time to respond to all the people who want to play. "
I think maybe your being a bit unfair here. Myself, I cannot have sex with someone I do not find reasonably attractive and neither will my wife.
If you can then you truly are a gifted man and may have found your calling. I have met men throughout my life who could fuck anything but I never could. This should be fun, not a job. If it isn't fun for all it should not be happening.
Rob
I think maybe your being a bit unfair here. Myself, I cannot have sex with someone I do not find reasonably attractive and neither will my wife.
If you can then you truly are a gifted man and may have found your calling. I have met men throughout my life who could fuck anything but I never could. This should be fun, not a job. If it isn't fun for all it should not be happening.
Rob
a person can certainly participate, at least on a social level (conversation, etc)with anyone, even if there is no attraction, and regardless of "who's type" they are.......
Anything beyond that, I do believe that a certain measure of attraction (NOT ATTRACTIVENESS) should exist... The participants would enjoy it more if the feelings are mutual.... otherwise one or the other or both could end up feeling like they were just being used.......
After all, none of us are machines, nor should we be expected to perform as such.... We are humans (most of us anyway), with human emotions and desires, and should be accepted as such, and expected to act as such, with all our imperfections.....
JC69
Anything beyond that, I do believe that a certain measure of attraction (NOT ATTRACTIVENESS) should exist... The participants would enjoy it more if the feelings are mutual.... otherwise one or the other or both could end up feeling like they were just being used.......
After all, none of us are machines, nor should we be expected to perform as such.... We are humans (most of us anyway), with human emotions and desires, and should be accepted as such, and expected to act as such, with all our imperfections.....
JC69
You also have to figure in the "chicken out" quotient. A lot of single guys never get past the talk about it part. If these guys are under 30 forget it. Guaranteed no shows.
We allow single males and i have encountered both ends of the spectrum,, never met a rude one, but definitly meet ones that are more talk then action, very disappointing experiences,, wish a few more were like you here in tampa, fl
I HAVE NEVER SAID THAT ME AND TESS ARE NOT TO GEATHER AND MORE AND EVERY ONE THINGS WE ARE A CLP STILL AND JUST HAVNT HAD THE MONEY TO GET A KNOW ACCT. BUT FEEL FREE TO DROP ME A LINE SOME TIME IF U WANNA PLAY ANY ONE
Awwww ^^^ Totally adorable. I love you guys. :P
I have for many years how much hocus-pocus and pre-formed ridicule a single male is to be subjected to before he can be accepted by those who have become worthy and desirable through marriage or partnerships. It doesn't matter if a single male is looking for a couple to get to know or just a partner (to be better accepted) he doesn't get the time of day because of another single male's selfish actions. Take for example the option to block single males, can anyone say that there is no connection between that and the singe male who poses as a couple? I for one do not wish to employ deceit and therefore I will not change my profile but I have to say that I have had NO contacts other than what I have prompted and I might add with no desirable result.
All people are different and "that's what makes the world go round". All are intitled to specify what they want and where aggressive males have made a bad scene I would like to say that maybe some males are truly in the lifestyle and not selfish. So you have the scenario where a single guy wants to meet a single woman in the lifestyle who could be a true partner as friends or to marry but the option to block them is an option as well. Indeed the single females can be accepted by couples and other single fems as well.
To admit, I could go on and on but I want to just shed some light on the fact that there is no real test nor acceptance for single males just an option to squash them out!
To end, I think that using "IDIOT" males to judge other males is unfair.
All people are different and "that's what makes the world go round". All are intitled to specify what they want and where aggressive males have made a bad scene I would like to say that maybe some males are truly in the lifestyle and not selfish. So you have the scenario where a single guy wants to meet a single woman in the lifestyle who could be a true partner as friends or to marry but the option to block them is an option as well. Indeed the single females can be accepted by couples and other single fems as well.
To admit, I could go on and on but I want to just shed some light on the fact that there is no real test nor acceptance for single males just an option to squash them out!
To end, I think that using "IDIOT" males to judge other males is unfair.
Maybe if they had a pic or better understanding of what she looked like before hand. To think someone new would jump in and play is a bit much also if she is not his type. To many factors to play in front of others and add in no attraction is not a good combo.
If you are going to a gang bang you know what is going to happen and should be ready to join in. I have seen others go and watch becasue she was not the type they are looking for. It was not fun for her to know they came to fuck but once they saw her said no. I agree everyone has the right to say NO, so don't get me wrong on that point. That is why an understanding of what people look like or even a pic before helps!
My 2 cents!
R
If you are going to a gang bang you know what is going to happen and should be ready to join in. I have seen others go and watch becasue she was not the type they are looking for. It was not fun for her to know they came to fuck but once they saw her said no. I agree everyone has the right to say NO, so don't get me wrong on that point. That is why an understanding of what people look like or even a pic before helps!
My 2 cents!
R
Amy here,
I can definitely say, that as a female, who would love to be the center of attention for a GB or my own personal bukkake party, I would want to know for certain that the men coming to play with me had SOME sort of attraction to me. And vice versa. Now, never having been involved with planning such a thing, I don't know if thats feasible but its certainly what I would prefer.
Never having been a "barbie type" (I mean really, who wants to be 12" tall and have MATEL stamped on your ass???) I always try and make sure that those I play with know full well what to expect. Granted, if you are a single male and want to build a reputation as a "good time" thats great, but I would rather you be attracted to me too. Otherwise, it just doesn't work for me.
I am sure the majority of men do not find me attractive, and thats ok. There are a majority of men and women that I don't find attractive. To each their own. Just because I give great head and tend to be a bit more wild than most women I know, doesn't mean that there's gonna be a wait list to get into a GB for me lol...and I completely know that. Greg and I are just getting to the point to where we may start looking for some single males...and its nice knowing that there are more than likely some out there that would want to come play with us. But we also know that that there will be some that won't, due to my size, my personality, my looks or whatever ...and we're cool with it. Does it mean they are out for just themselves??? No....just means we don't click. No harm, no foul. As long as you aren't rude about it...no worries.
Variety is the Spice of Life. Whether it be size, race, age, gender, whatever...we all have our preferences. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't give something NEW a chance...who knows, you might just find a new flavor you like!!!
I can definitely say, that as a female, who would love to be the center of attention for a GB or my own personal bukkake party, I would want to know for certain that the men coming to play with me had SOME sort of attraction to me. And vice versa. Now, never having been involved with planning such a thing, I don't know if thats feasible but its certainly what I would prefer.
Never having been a "barbie type" (I mean really, who wants to be 12" tall and have MATEL stamped on your ass???) I always try and make sure that those I play with know full well what to expect. Granted, if you are a single male and want to build a reputation as a "good time" thats great, but I would rather you be attracted to me too. Otherwise, it just doesn't work for me.
I am sure the majority of men do not find me attractive, and thats ok. There are a majority of men and women that I don't find attractive. To each their own. Just because I give great head and tend to be a bit more wild than most women I know, doesn't mean that there's gonna be a wait list to get into a GB for me lol...and I completely know that. Greg and I are just getting to the point to where we may start looking for some single males...and its nice knowing that there are more than likely some out there that would want to come play with us. But we also know that that there will be some that won't, due to my size, my personality, my looks or whatever ...and we're cool with it. Does it mean they are out for just themselves??? No....just means we don't click. No harm, no foul. As long as you aren't rude about it...no worries.
Variety is the Spice of Life. Whether it be size, race, age, gender, whatever...we all have our preferences. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't give something NEW a chance...who knows, you might just find a new flavor you like!!!