How different would the swinging experience be? Would it be for the better or worse?
Well if you're meaning if prostitution was legal everywhere. Don't think you would see very many single men on a swingers site since some of the husbands would charge them to help fuck there wives.
An the experience would probably go back to the way it was back in the 60's and 70's of just couple swapping there wives.
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An the experience would probably go back to the way it was back in the 60's and 70's of just couple swapping there wives.
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Personally I don't think it would be demonstrably different. Yes there might be fewer single men but still plenty imo (Why buy the milk if you can get it for free?...to paraphrase the old adage). And beyond not wanting to 'pay' for sex I still think that many single guys get off on the idea of fucking another man's wife (I've spoken at length here many times the ways some single guys assume a cuckold factor in couples swinging.).
Legalizing prostitution might, however, change somewhat the entry experience for some couples in that it might become the preferred method that some couples utilize to test the waters so to speak. Additionally I could envision those couples who are not looking for another couple but instead 'their unicorn' eventually seeking out a professional both out of frustration in not easily finding a willing and/or attractive third as well as coming to the conclusion that simply paying someone makes it far easier to be able to set the tone and agenda as well as avoiding any kind of entanglements after the act. But I could be wrong.
ps- Yes, a few husbands WOULD probably attempt to pimp out their wives to single guys but I think that would be, by far, the exception rather than the rule and few single guys would likely see the advantage of doing that over hiring a hooker...unless, perhaps, they thought paying might give them an authentic cuckold/hotwife/bull fantasy. One thing I DO think would very likely happen (since it does to some degree already) is single guys hiring escorts to accompany them to couples only events and venues.
Legalizing prostitution might, however, change somewhat the entry experience for some couples in that it might become the preferred method that some couples utilize to test the waters so to speak. Additionally I could envision those couples who are not looking for another couple but instead 'their unicorn' eventually seeking out a professional both out of frustration in not easily finding a willing and/or attractive third as well as coming to the conclusion that simply paying someone makes it far easier to be able to set the tone and agenda as well as avoiding any kind of entanglements after the act. But I could be wrong.
ps- Yes, a few husbands WOULD probably attempt to pimp out their wives to single guys but I think that would be, by far, the exception rather than the rule and few single guys would likely see the advantage of doing that over hiring a hooker...unless, perhaps, they thought paying might give them an authentic cuckold/hotwife/bull fantasy. One thing I DO think would very likely happen (since it does to some degree already) is single guys hiring escorts to accompany them to couples only events and venues.
LOL..i know one thing for sure is I would b rich
The common thing I see in the responses from couples so far seems to represent that the community feel of swinging would be stronger than it is now as the strictly sexual aspect of it would be diminished; would that be accurate?
Are you, perhaps, considering a career change? I don't know if you know this or not but many 'working girls' are represented by a 'manager' of sorts and I would be happy to help you out with that aspect of your new business. You could contact some of the other girls I represent. Bambi, Lace, Diamond and Chastity. They will tell you how I take very good care of them and never make them work more than 6 nights in a row. Give me a jingle when you're ready to make some real (tax free) cash!
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Are you, perhaps, considering a career change? I don't know if you know this or not but many 'working girls' are represented by a 'manager' of sorts and I would be happy to help you out with that aspect of your new business. You could contact some of the other girls I represent. Bambi, Lace, Diamond and Chastity. They will tell you how I take very good care of them and never make them work more than 6 nights in a row. Give me a jingle when you're ready to make some real (tax free) cash!
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No, I'm simply trying to keep a conversation going; swinging isn't limited to the US, I wonder how it's different in places where sex work is legal.
Cool. Maybe hit up some peeps in Elko and Ely? 
But fwiw we've had the opportunity to swing in quite a few countries and at least half the states and from our experience it's pretty much the same everywhere. Couple A meets couple B and they proceed to 'couple'.
But at clubs in areas where prostitution is legal we do see more old fat guys with hookers as their 'partner'. But we've seen that here in the states as well.
But fwiw we've had the opportunity to swing in quite a few countries and at least half the states and from our experience it's pretty much the same everywhere. Couple A meets couple B and they proceed to 'couple'.
But at clubs in areas where prostitution is legal we do see more old fat guys with hookers as their 'partner'. But we've seen that here in the states as well.