Swingers Forum - Fuckin' "A"

Every single woman I have ever known except 2, have absolutely hated anal penetration. The 2 tolerated it because they wanted to be be naughty, but I am quite certain they didn't "enjoy" the sensation. So my question is, are there any women who truly enjoy anal penetration? Or is there anyone who knows for certain that some woman enjoys anal sex? Because my theory is that it is NOT actually pleasurable to women, due to lack of prostates. Perhaps they capitulate because they want to turn on their partner or feel "naughty". But after enough years on this planet and after enough conversations with women about anal, I have just started to believe it's just not a "thing" for them. Can anyone refute this? I would LOVE someone to say it isn't so.

THINGSTHATMAKEYOUGOHMMMM wrote:

Wife loves it. Was complaining the other day that we don't do anal enough...so we did it that night. Has yet to orgasm from it, but that doesn't stop her from wanting it.

Bless you both! Haha. It is so good to hear that there is someone who enjoys the feeling.

MAVENX wrote:

I've met plenty of women (and men!) that love anal. Anal needs to be done slower and more tenderly than anything else. Most men miss that point.

Mav

Wife and I have practiced anal for years. There have been times that she had an orgasm and times that she had to call red light. What I've learned is that it definitely needs to be done slower, like way slower. There have been times that it took us several minutes between initial penetration and full insertion. At least at first until she gets relaxed into it then you can go to town. We've also found it to be a lot more pleasurable for her if she has a vaginal orgasm first before moving to anal because she's a lot more relaxed at that point. Also position and angle have an effect on her enjoyment, same as vaginal sex. I recommend exploring it if you're curious, take it slow, relax, and don't forget the lube, lots and lots of lube

My wife loves Anal as long as the timing is just right. Since if she's tender and you do it to her anyways expect to get your dick almost ripped off. When the male in our 3 sums attempt and makes her hurt by just slamming it in that's the end of that 3 sum with that extra male. That's why my wife prefers DVP.

I had cancer in my twenties, cervical. My puss was pretty much not interested for nearly a year. I relied on anal to keep me satisfied and my husband learned to let me take control. I found several tricks that work for me- like using Lamaze breathing to relax muscles and woman on top when I'm taking a new partner. Typically, I've found that too often, uninitiated partners are way too eager to Go Deep when a gentle slow pressure is needed. Additionally, at least for me, saying "ow" doesn't mean pull out, it means hold still and let me relax. If you pull out, you never get back in.

For the most part, any reticence I exhibit in proceeding with anal fun is due to my knowledge of things like my most recent "movement" and whether I need to walk straight for the rest of the day. I actually cum harder and feel more satiated after an anal encounter.

Also....anal with partners other than my husband is STILL a condom- only event. STD's don't care what hole you pick. This means that lube is essential to avoid tearing....and I find spit to be the absolutely least erotic of fluids available for that. >two cents<

Not a big draw for either of us...other than the 'forbidden' aspect of it. For Ms. Evil it just isn't all that comfortable (or outright hurts) and for me it doesn't feel anywhere near as good as vaginal or oral sex. When you think about it, the only real friction on the penis is the round little 'donut' of the anal sphincter. Sorta like getting a hand job by someone who only has a thumb and forefinger.

Having said that we knew a couple where that was the only way she could cum...and then only after a LONG period of hard thrusting by her husband (whose penis was on the large side). Different strokes...literally.

Mrs. Whooty loves it she even tells me to do it! But we found most guys are too eager and feel that all girls are anal porn stars so they go balls deep right away and hard which has on more than one occasion ruined the night so she dosen't really let other guys play the back 9 now! But if done right and with time you can "train" to do anal and its pretty nice
PS took me close to a year to get it to where it is now so patience time and work is key to the kingdom of bum

HORSEGIRL9502 wrote:

My partner and I are playing with a vibrating toy that starts small and gets larger as it goes deeper. I love it up to about the 2nd bump and have the most intense orgasms with citoral or vaginal stimulation with it. We are hoping as we work up to it that I'll be able to and want to take his dick and it will be enjoyable.

Maybe sticking a vibrating butt plug up your ass is like the fountain of youth cuz you look AMAZING for a 95 year old. My mom is almost 80 and she looks WAY worse than you do. #analsexmakesyouyounger

http://xhamster.com/movies/1879412/deep_in_her_ass.html?from=video_related

this looks so intensive and love how she vocalizes it

EVILDOERS wrote:

HORSEGIRL9502 wrote:

My partner and I are playing with a vibrating toy that starts small and gets larger as it goes deeper. I love it up to about the 2nd bump and have the most intense orgasms with citoral or vaginal stimulation with it. We are hoping as we work up to it that I'll be able to and want to take his dick and it will be enjoyable.

Maybe sticking a vibrating butt plug up your ass is like the fountain of youth cuz you look AMAZING for a 95 year old. My mom is almost 80 and she looks WAY worse than you do. #analsexmakesyouyounger

haha...oops I just corrected that.....36...not quite 95, but I am half Japanese so it's not out of the realm of possibility!

EVILDOERS wrote:

Not a big draw for either of us...other than the 'forbidden' aspect of it. For Ms. Evil it just isn't all that comfortable (or outright hurts) and for me it doesn't feel anywhere near as good as vaginal or oral sex. When you think about it, the only real friction on the penis is the round little 'donut' of the anal sphincter. Sorta like getting a hand job by someone who only has a thumb and forefinger.

Having said that we knew a couple where that was the only way she could cum...and then only after a LONG period of hard thrusting by her husband (whose penis was on the large side). Different strokes...literally.

Totally agree with the EVILS. If she isn't into it than it isn't any fun at all. Much rather do things we are both into!!!

Anal sex can be amazing if she does the following:

Rinse Out

An internal rinse is not necessary for anal hygiene, but many people find they can relax more during anal sex after taking this step. An internal rinse can help you feel “cleaner” which for many people is a positive step towards receiving pleasurable anal touch.

Use a simple bulb enema with plain warm water to rinse out internally. Never use an enema with vinegar or other harsh ingredients. Simple bulb enemas can be found at any drugstore or ordered online. We don’t recommend using large enema bags, as they tend to cause more problems than they solve!

To use a small bulb enema, fill it with warm water (not hot!) and gently insert the tip, using lube if needed. Then squeeze the water into the rectum and immediately let it pass into the toilet. Repeat this process until the water flushes clean.

Remember, poop is not stored in the rectum, it merely passes through during an active bowel movement. So you are simply flushing out the trace amounts that may remain behind.

Lube Up for More Pleasurable Anal Play

Another essential tool for anal hygiene is lubricant. Water-based lubricants are now readily found in every major drugstore and even many supermarkets. Silicone-based lubricants are a great choice for anal play, as they will stay slick and not dry out like water based lubricants. See our complete guide to choosing a lube for complete information.
Use plenty of lube, reapplying when needed. External and internal anal massage can be highly arousing, without a moment of discomfort. If you experience any pain at any point in the massage, slow down or stop. There is no need to endure anything.
Preparing for anal play can make this intimate exchange more pleasurable and allow you to relax deeper into the experience. Thorough cleansing prior to the sexual encounter will take your worries away, and proper hygiene including gloves and lubricant will make the experience more enjoyable for both you and your partner.

POET_RAYL wrote:

If done wrongly

I have often said to my girl, if I am asking you to do it, I must be willing too. She used a "feeldo". She put it on and went "balls deep". I dropped to my knees and shuddered in pain. It needs to go slow and easy. Or OUCH, OUCH!

Natural lube is best from your own spit or cum since most man made lubes end up as sand in the cavity. ERASEDPANTS, that's why I stated if done wrongly not all guys can do it correctly and they keep pounding tell you pass out n bleed 95% of the males only know how to do it based of watching porn.
If you was hosting a 5 male bang maybe you would find 1 who knew how to do it without making you pass out or bleed. The most difficult I've assisted in was DAP and it was done properly she didn't pass out and she didn't bleed.
poet

You want us to stop talking about anal sex but I thought this forum was about fuckin' "A". So assuming "A" = Anal or did i get the Forum wrong?

poet

DEEPMOAN wrote:

ERASEDPANTS wrote:

[quote=POET_RAYL]If done wrongly

I have often said to my girl, if I am asking you to do it, I must be willing too. She used a "feeldo". She put it on and went "balls deep". I dropped to my knees and shuddered in pain. It needs to go slow and easy. Or OUCH, OUCH!

POET_RAYL wrote:

Natural lube is best from your own spit or cum since most man made lubes end up as sand in the cavity. ERASEDPANTS, that's why I stated if done wrongly not all guys can do it correctly and they keep pounding tell you pass out n bleed 95% of the males only know how to do it based of watching porn.
If you was hosting a 5 male bang maybe you would find 1 who knew how to do it without making you pass out or bleed. The most difficult I've assisted in was DAP and it was done properly she didn't pass out and she didn't bleed.
poet

You two need to stop![/quote]

Why would that be? I am pretty sure these forums are filled with people with all types of proclivities. It is usually a pretty safe place free from shaming. Different strokes for different folks. If you aren't comfortable with the thread, you can stop reading any time. Nobody is forcing you. I am not sure if you were joking or if you found something I wrote offensive. But there are some people who may have done or wanted to do the same things and can get something from others being open and honest. Just my two cents.

Mind you I do understand the term "balls deep" is kind of vulgar when taken at face value. However it was a saying in the early 2000's that meant full committed. So in hindsight(again, no pun intended) I was indeed talking about something similar to the literal meaning. So if that was offensive, my bad.

I have to say,you must have the funniest picture library by now! Can you imagine how perplexed the NSA is at your hard drive? Hahahaha!

ERASEDPANTS wrote:

I have to say,you must have the funniest picture library by now! Can you imagine how perplexed the NSA is at your hard drive? Hahahaha!

Oh they've seen my "hard drive" alright. Oh you meant my computer hard drive? Yeah I'm pretty sure they have an EXTENSIVE file on me. I like to go into some really hard core, batshit crazy conspiracy theory sites sometimes and post REALLY off the wall shit. I also go into a website called Celeb Jihad that posts bad celebrity fake pics and then comments on them from a radical Islamist point of view (and yes it's entirely parody) but I guarantee that a bunch of the fake shit on that site triggers NSA red flags depending on the algorithms they're using. LOL

ILLUSTRATOR wrote:

That's just wrong, Evil.

No it's not. It's 100% true.

So my most recent addition to my man collection cannot keep his dick out of my ass. The difference is with him for some reason it doesn't hurt me going in. Once in I'm fine but sometimes it just doesn't work. So if you can get it in there without hurting me, go for it. Almost every time we fuck he ends there. And I actually quite like it. So guys if you can figure out how to get in and not hurt her, how I have no idea, but if you can, she will probably let you do it. Unless your dick is too fat, fat dick and ass are a bad mix. That's one woman's opinion.

my wife loves it, but she has to be in the right mood, and it wasn't always like that. Like the rest of sex, it took some learning and some experimentation, but now she loves it and will ask for it on a fairly regular basis.

I always let her ask for it cause she knows better than I do if she's "ready", there are some aspects of anal that don't exist in vaginal sex if you know what I mean.

it helps that my penis is distressingly average, so doesn't hurt her too bad, and we have to take it super super slow at first as she loosens up. She can orgasm from anal alone without any digital clitoral stimulation. I am pretty sure the head of my penis is pushing on her Gspot through the anal/vaginal wall, and that's how she cums.

She also prefers anal stimulation and penetration when doing normal stuff like sex or oral, she cums much faster and harder if my thumb is up her ass when I blow her, and if I don't play with it, she will play with her ass herself if I'm addressing her elsewhere.

but like I said, you have to take your time, she has to be very very wet, I have to make sure my fingernails are perfect, I tend to bite my nails and if I do, I have to literally sand them down or she'll yelp when I finger her and I'll know I missed a spot, but she really does like anal penetration.