We have noticed that just because someone's profile says she is Bi, it doesn't mean she will eat pussy, but often times she wants another woman to eat her's. So what is the deal with this? Is there an aversion to licking the kitty? If so, is it really bisexuality? It's kind of like a hair stylist who says "I will brush hair, but I won't cut it". Nobody would go to that stylist. Ya know?
Do unto other's as they do to you
We couldn't agree more!!
Lol! So here is what I get from it! Amy speaking from experience.
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
AMYNBOB wrote:
Lol! So here is what I get from it! Amy speaking from experience.
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
Funny..and acurate!
AMYNBOB wrote:
Lol! So here is what I get from it! Amy speaking from experience.
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
Nailed it.
So I can tell a man who calls himself straight that he's not straight if he won't go down on me?
I have a couple of interesting conversations in my near future.
I have a couple of interesting conversations in my near future.
FUN4ALL208 wrote:
As a bi guy I have no intention on being a top..does that make me less bi?
Am I bi b/c I touch my own body in the shower? I don't mean to but they haven't invented a shower head you put soap into yet - have they? Maybe that's the answer to gay therapy - soap-filled shower heads.
CHEFFETTE wrote:
So I can tell a man who calls himself straight that he's not straight if he won't go down on me?
I have a couple of interesting conversations in my near future.
No but you can tell him he's a selfish prick and/or possibly a germaphobe.
AMYNBOB wrote:
Lol! So here is what I get from it! Amy speaking from experience.
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
Well put!
- Mrs. Gingers
I (Mrs. AandR) love the feel and taste another woman but what I really enjoy most is driving the guys crazy when us ladies are going at it. I love to tease 
AMYNBOB wrote:
Lol! So here is what I get from it! Amy speaking from experience.
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
Been trying to get the wife to do the hot why not for year it never happens
I agree with Amy, well said. I think a lot of women find the idea of another women erotic and decide to classifiy themselves as bisexual without embrasing the entire consept of what it means to be sexual with a member of the same sex. Mrs Going
POET_RAYL wrote:AMYNBOB wrote:
Lol! So here is what I get from it! Amy speaking from experience.
Bisexual means you know you love being with other women and have no problem being with one alone and having sex with her regardless if there is a dick in the room.
Bicurious means you think you may like burrying your face into another beaver given you had some outs if it doesn't turn out as awesome as you thought it would be. Thank god your hubby can take over for you and you get great points for trying!
Bicomfortable means you are willing to let some poor girl waste her time trying to get you off since your hubby thinks that is hot, so why not!
Been trying to get the wife to do the hot why not for year it never happens
Why would you keep asking her after she said no the first time?
Yep Mrs here, Poets been trying to get me to try the Bi-comfortable thing and it will never happen with me since its not a turn on but as a male its his fantasy.
AANDR wrote:
I (Mrs. AandR) love the feel and taste another woman but what I really enjoy most is driving the guys crazy when us ladies are going at it. I love to tease
Key word there... tease.
You might be able to save yourself a lot of confusion by just... you know... asking... =)
Example: Our Mrs. is labeled as "bi-comfortable" for lack of a better selection. She's perfectly happy playing "above the waist" with other girls. Loves boobs. Loves kissing other girls. But at the end of the night, she really just wants a dick inside her.
If you want a girl who will go down on you, that seems like a simple question to ask up-front. =)
Example: Our Mrs. is labeled as "bi-comfortable" for lack of a better selection. She's perfectly happy playing "above the waist" with other girls. Loves boobs. Loves kissing other girls. But at the end of the night, she really just wants a dick inside her.
If you want a girl who will go down on you, that seems like a simple question to ask up-front. =)
BMSHELL wrote:
You might be able to save yourself a lot of confusion by just... you know... asking... =)
Example: Our Mrs. is labeled as "bi-comfortable" for lack of a better selection. She's perfectly happy playing "above the waist" with other girls. Loves boobs. Loves kissing other girls. But at the end of the night, she really just wants a dick inside her.
If you want a girl who will go down on you, that seems like a simple question to ask up-front. =)
But why have 3 classifications if they all mean the same thing? I suppose we could always ask "does the Mrs. Eat pussy?" But it kind of feels redundant if they have already said they are bisexual versus bi-curious or bi comfortable. In the end it's not a big deal. But I kind of agree with Amy above.
Wishful thinking of a fantasy mite come true
I consider myself fully bi... I love the privilege of being permitted to ssuck and lick and touch every inch of her. However my reason for preferring a couples' setting is insecurity. I have a difficult time reading women's reactions and worry I'm doing it wrong. Im multi orgasmic and have a built-in easy button. Consequently, a woman who needs a long slow buildup frustrates me. Having her partner involved makes me less concerned that I'm going to be a bad encounter because I have a partner who's goal is also to get her off.
I classified as bi-comfortable as I enjoy a woman (breasts, pussy; you name it, its all fantastic) however my first preference would be to include a penis along with all this feminine bounty. This tells me I'm past bicurious because I know I love the whole woman but I'm not quite bisexual because I typically still want the penis!
Also, if you've gotten to or thinking about play, use that lovely voice to ask for what you want.. IE I prefer to have full kitty contact and play. This usually includes sucking on me. How about you??? Seriously, there's something sexy about someone who knows what they want and aren't afraid to go for it.
Also, if you've gotten to or thinking about play, use that lovely voice to ask for what you want.. IE I prefer to have full kitty contact and play. This usually includes sucking on me. How about you??? Seriously, there's something sexy about someone who knows what they want and aren't afraid to go for it.
POET_RAYL wrote:
Wishful thinking of a fantasy mite come true
I see; your wishful thinking is more important than her decisions about what she does with her body during a vulnerable time, and you have pressed her for years getting the same answer.
ERASEDPANTS wrote:BMSHELL wrote:
You might be able to save yourself a lot of confusion by just... you know... asking... =)
Example: Our Mrs. is labeled as "bi-comfortable" for lack of a better selection. She's perfectly happy playing "above the waist" with other girls. Loves boobs. Loves kissing other girls. But at the end of the night, she really just wants a dick inside her.
If you want a girl who will go down on you, that seems like a simple question to ask up-front. =)
But why have 3 classifications if they all mean the same thing? I suppose we could always ask "does the Mrs. Eat pussy?" But it kind of feels redundant if they have already said they are bisexual versus bi-curious or bi comfortable. In the end it's not a big deal. But I kind of agree with Amy above.
We see it this way:
Bi-Curious - Little to no experience with the same gender, but interested in exploring to see if there is more to it.
Bi-Comfortable - Been with the same gender and enjoys it, but prefers opposite gender.
Bi-Sexual - Open to and enjoys both genders equally.
We would probably classify Mrs. BMSHELL as straight, but maybe in their notes have something that says okay with kissing and breast play. That's just us though
Wonderfully said, Deliciouslywet. This is exactly how I feel, I hate to be tied to a label as my sexuality is so fluid and changes depending on so many factors!
I know a woman who calls herself bi. I have watched her have some incredible sex with other ladies ie: kissing fingering body kisses and licking, and some really hot strap-on sex, she just hasn't eaten pussy yet. She and one woman fucked each other mercillessly with a strap-on! I definetely would call her bi even though she doesn't eat pussy. She does talk about the possibility in the future, but hasn't found the right situation for her yet.
ERASEDPANTS wrote:BMSHELL wrote:
You might be able to save yourself a lot of confusion by just... you know... asking... =)
Example: Our Mrs. is labeled as "bi-comfortable" for lack of a better selection. She's perfectly happy playing "above the waist" with other girls. Loves boobs. Loves kissing other girls. But at the end of the night, she really just wants a dick inside her.
If you want a girl who will go down on you, that seems like a simple question to ask up-front. =)
But why have 3 classifications if they all mean the same thing? I suppose we could always ask "does the Mrs. Eat pussy?" But it kind of feels redundant if they have already said they are bisexual versus bi-curious or bi comfortable. In the end it's not a big deal. But I kind of agree with Amy above.
Probably not the right one to comment being divorced, seems the talk is about swapping couples, but I think it is clear by the responses that the three terms do not all mean the same thing. What I really don't understand is if you and your wife would actually ask if the mrs. Eats pussy? Seriously, sounds like a romantic and erotic part of the night. "We see by your profile responses that you listed bisexual, let's be clear before we start anything, what can I expect, feel free to tell my husband and he will relay your comments to me, he actually knows what I want. Am with Amy.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
[quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]For some people, their sexuality, including gender preference is perhaps a bit more fluid or dynamic than it is for most of us. In the midst of living our lives, if we are introspective and open minded, some of us discover that we are not all that centered, after all, and we change and we evolve. Once you realize that, you may recognize that self defining is only really accurate for today, is different than your past and may not apply to your future. Once you recognize and embrace the mystery in yourself, you recognize how impossible it is to define the people around you.
For some of us our sexuality or sexual preference may be almost written in stone. There is nothing wrong with that if that is what feels right for you. For others it may be more a matter of circumstances than something so deep seated as it is in others. We have met a couple of women, who self defined as straight, who spontaneously chose to initiate sexually, full on and enthusiastically with Mrs. Delicious. The husbands both seemed a bit surprised and yes they enjoyed it. It wasn't forced or coerced.
All we can do is be honest about who we are and how we feel in the moment. How we feel and who we are, and how we want to behave, sexually, is pretty dynamic irregardless of our sexual preference. Some people you will desire sexually and others you won't. If we are around someone, a bit more fluid in their sexual preference just let them be who they are and recognize that is not fixed in stone but a reaction to the people and the circumstances around them. No expectations no disappointments. Let's try to not paint each other or ourselves into a sexual corner.
I should have waited a moment, perfectly put again, am lucky that I am quite aware what my female partners enjoy. If it is someone I have never been with, which is fairly rare, would approach our play with excitement and lust, not trying to ask questions like "what am I going to get out of this." From kissing to sex, one thing I have not experienced is a girl friends only motive to having sex with me is to tease her husband without me knowing.
CHEFFETTE wrote:POET_RAYL wrote:
Wishful thinking of a fantasy mite come true
I see; your wishful thinking is more important than her decisions about what she does with her body during a vulnerable time, and you have pressed her for years getting the same answer.
The Perfect Point, bet he doesn't understand.
Basically to the hubbys! We are not lesbians like you and don't have as much experience in the beaver field as you and do it with a cock audience so give us all a break and chalax! Us women are like teenagers with hormones when it comes to girl on girl! Give us a break if we look like two monkeys fucking a football when we try! Lol.
AMYNBOB wrote:
Basically to the hubbys! We are not lesbians like you and don't have as much experience in the beaver field as you and do it with a cock audience so give us all a break and chalax! Us women are like teenagers with hormones when it comes to girl on girl! Give us a break if we look like two monkeys fucking a football when we try! Lol.
Two monkeys fucking a football! Lmao! That has to be the best word picture ever!!
AMYNBOB wrote:
Basically to the hubbys! We are not lesbians like you and don't have as much experience in the beaver field as you and do it with a cock audience so give us all a break and chalax! Us women are like teenagers with hormones when it comes to girl on girl! Give us a break if we look like two monkeys fucking a football when we try! Lol.
Husbands are lesbians. That's a new one.
AANDR wrote:
I (Mrs. AandR) love the feel and taste another woman but what I really enjoy most is driving the guys crazy when us ladies are going at it. I love to tease
Keep talking .....We find what your saying to be soooo dreamy.
AANDR wrote:
I (Mrs. AandR) love the feel and taste another woman but what I really enjoy most is driving the guys crazy when us ladies are going at it. I love to tease
Now that is a site I would love to see. Over and over again.lol
I love when a woman wants me to be bi and she's bi too
I've always dreamed of being married to a bi woman
I've always dreamed of being married to a bi woman
Nancy is bisexual and likes to eat pussy and certainly does like it when the woman in the other couple returns the favor because it is just the polite thing to do, but this is not always the case, as the author of this post has pointed out. Live and learn, I guess.
there's something very hot and special about being bi for a bi girl
she and I can relate and enjoy it together
she and I can relate and enjoy it together