Rather than just complaining we thought we offer a word about what many swinging couples might mean when they say yes to single men in their profile. This is mostly for all the new single guys, that really are single guys, that recently joined the site and the ones that have been here a while and still fail to prosper.
"Hot Wife" is often used synonymous with the term Cuckold, but it is NOT how most swinger couples view “Hot Wife Play” so don't come off like the jerks in the porn you may be watching.
Hot Wife Play for most of the swingers we know in Salt Lake is where the husband feels he has the hottest woman in the world, and wants to share her, and the wife enjoys all the erotic attention his devotion and fantasy creates for her. When in the mood, swinger couples are not looking for a sexual replacement for the husband, but rather a sex life enhancement adventure to share that includes a single man. The single man lucky enough to be a part of this sort of thing must be very respectful. The stuff of fantasy! Not all men measure up. Our wives don't want to be with physically or emotionally mediocre men. Husbands don't want to watch their wives with mediocre men. Cheaters, as in married men, playing without their wives should not prosper. Polite, respectful, attractive, intelligent and good humored single men can, and will do well in the swing community. We know some great guys. Maybe they should teach lessons.
Single men need to take the emphasis off of "Hot Wife" as a singular fixation or lifestyle for couples that say “yes” to single men in their profile. Single men should consider it more of a fantasy and a pleasure for couples to make a reality, when that is what they desire, and they as single men can be part of that reality, if they are what the couple wants. Couples swing in other realms and often prefer couples hook ups most of the time. In other words, let's not consider it any more than what it is, a fantasy, and a possible reality that couples can use to hopefully enhance their relationship and single men can use to have sex with an incredibly passionate and orgasmic woman. Swinger couples, like us, sometimes wish to focus our attention on our hot wife's sexual fulfillment. She is so sexy that watching her in passion's full embrace, with another man can be extremely rewarding and erotic. As for me I watch until I can no longer wait to join in and ravish her. Sharing keeps a couple on their toes and their sex life exciting. Swinging couples usually try and stay sexy, attractive and interesting not just for any new lovers but for each other. The introduction of a sexy, new and different man in the equation is what ads all the spice in Hot Wife Play. Just because a guy is horny and he has a dick does not ad up to sexy or spice up the relationship. If a single guy wants to live the fantasy he needs to first become the fantasy.
When a woman is just so sexually hot, that she is a gift to the world, and her passions and her orgasms cross over into the realm of the sacred, then encouraging the chosen, to join in such divine pussy worship is in reality a total fucking blast!! That is why we check yes to single men in our profiles and not because some guys have a dick and want to use it.
Additional tips:
Look good
Smell good
Have a sense of humor
Be respectful
Be patient
Be honest
Be healthy
Be confident
Be willing to host
Good luck to all and have fun!
"Hot Wife" is often used synonymous with the term Cuckold, but it is NOT how most swinger couples view “Hot Wife Play” so don't come off like the jerks in the porn you may be watching.
Hot Wife Play for most of the swingers we know in Salt Lake is where the husband feels he has the hottest woman in the world, and wants to share her, and the wife enjoys all the erotic attention his devotion and fantasy creates for her. When in the mood, swinger couples are not looking for a sexual replacement for the husband, but rather a sex life enhancement adventure to share that includes a single man. The single man lucky enough to be a part of this sort of thing must be very respectful. The stuff of fantasy! Not all men measure up. Our wives don't want to be with physically or emotionally mediocre men. Husbands don't want to watch their wives with mediocre men. Cheaters, as in married men, playing without their wives should not prosper. Polite, respectful, attractive, intelligent and good humored single men can, and will do well in the swing community. We know some great guys. Maybe they should teach lessons.
Single men need to take the emphasis off of "Hot Wife" as a singular fixation or lifestyle for couples that say “yes” to single men in their profile. Single men should consider it more of a fantasy and a pleasure for couples to make a reality, when that is what they desire, and they as single men can be part of that reality, if they are what the couple wants. Couples swing in other realms and often prefer couples hook ups most of the time. In other words, let's not consider it any more than what it is, a fantasy, and a possible reality that couples can use to hopefully enhance their relationship and single men can use to have sex with an incredibly passionate and orgasmic woman. Swinger couples, like us, sometimes wish to focus our attention on our hot wife's sexual fulfillment. She is so sexy that watching her in passion's full embrace, with another man can be extremely rewarding and erotic. As for me I watch until I can no longer wait to join in and ravish her. Sharing keeps a couple on their toes and their sex life exciting. Swinging couples usually try and stay sexy, attractive and interesting not just for any new lovers but for each other. The introduction of a sexy, new and different man in the equation is what ads all the spice in Hot Wife Play. Just because a guy is horny and he has a dick does not ad up to sexy or spice up the relationship. If a single guy wants to live the fantasy he needs to first become the fantasy.
When a woman is just so sexually hot, that she is a gift to the world, and her passions and her orgasms cross over into the realm of the sacred, then encouraging the chosen, to join in such divine pussy worship is in reality a total fucking blast!! That is why we check yes to single men in our profiles and not because some guys have a dick and want to use it.
Additional tips:
Look good
Smell good
Have a sense of humor
Be respectful
Be patient
Be honest
Be healthy
Be confident
Be willing to host
Good luck to all and have fun!
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
Rather than just complaining we thought we offer a word about what many swinging couples might mean when they say yes to single men in their profile. This is mostly for all the new single guys, that really are single guys, that recently joined the site and the ones that have been here a while and still fail to prosper.
"Hot Wife" is often used synonymous with the term Cuckold, but it is NOT how most swinger couples view “Hot Wife Play” so don't come off like the jerks in the porn you may be watching.
Hot Wife Play for most of the swingers we know in Salt Lake is where the husband feels he has the hottest woman in the world, and wants to share her, and the wife enjoys all the erotic attention his devotion and fantasy creates for her. When in the mood, swinger couples are not looking for a sexual replacement for the husband, but rather a sex life enhancement adventure to share that includes a single man. The single man lucky enough to be a part of this sort of thing must be very respectful. The stuff of fantasy! Not all men measure up. Our wives don't want to be with physically or emotionally mediocre men. Husbands don't want to watch their wives with mediocre men. Cheaters, as in married men, playing without their wives should not prosper. Polite, respectful, attractive, intelligent and good humored single men can, and will do well in the swing community. We know some great guys. Maybe they should teach lessons.
Single men need to take the emphasis off of "Hot Wife" as a singular fixation or lifestyle for couples that say “yes” to single men in their profile. Single men should consider it more of a fantasy and a pleasure for couples to make a reality, when that is what they desire, and they as single men can be part of that reality, if they are what the couple wants. Couples swing in other realms and often prefer couples hook ups most of the time. In other words, let's not consider it any more than what it is, a fantasy, and a possible reality that couples can use to hopefully enhance their relationship and single men can use to have sex with an incredibly passionate and orgasmic woman. Swinger couples, like us, sometimes wish to focus our attention on our hot wife's sexual fulfillment. She is so sexy that watching her in passion's full embrace, with another man can be extremely rewarding and erotic. As for me I watch until I can no longer wait to join in and ravish her. Sharing keeps a couple on their toes and their sex life exciting. Swinging couples usually try and stay sexy, attractive and interesting not just for any new lovers but for each other. The introduction of a sexy, new and different man in the equation is what ads all the spice in Hot Wife Play. Just because a guy is horny and he has a dick does not ad up to sexy or spice up the relationship. If a single guy wants to live the fantasy he needs to first become the fantasy.
When a woman is just so sexually hot, that she is a gift to the world, and her passions and her orgasms cross over into the realm of the sacred, then encouraging the chosen, to join in such divine pussy worship is in reality a total fucking blast!! That is why we check yes to single men in our profiles and not because some guys have a dick and want to use it.
Additional tips:
Look good
Smell good
Have a sense of humor
Be respectful
Be patient
Be honest
Be healthy
Be confident
Be willing to host
Good luck to all and have fun!
CAN I GET AN AMEN FROM THE CONGREGATION!
Perfectly voiced!
Amen!
Amen!
Amen! Follow this and my beautiful wife just might send you an invite.
AMEN!
Amen
Amen
Hallelujah! 
Amen and a hallelujah!
Sounds like me being described by DELICIOUSLYWET. Nice! Like all of you couples, I require mutual respect and appreciate for my qualities and attributes, as I will for yours. It's about the experience. Experience is everything. And that includes both parties experiencing what they desire and consider to be amazing.
What you listed isn't an issue at all for me. It does goes to show, there must be some real silly ass men out there without a clue. Oh well, their lost on having great experiences with awesome and cool people.
What you listed isn't an issue at all for me. It does goes to show, there must be some real silly ass men out there without a clue. Oh well, their lost on having great experiences with awesome and cool people.
The congregation has spoken! We love y'all!
Great post!! Thanks!! 
Agreed and amen!
Awesome post dont ruin it for the single men out there guys. I've been on both sides as a couple and single, Be respectfull and have a great time.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
Look good
Smell good
Have a sense of humor
Be respectful
Be patient
Be honest
Be healthy
Be confident
Be willing to host
Good luck to all and have fun!
Sounds like we should make this the new Boy Scout Law, Start training the next generation.
NAILED IT!!!!!
AMEN!
Amen
This is right on the money!!! Well said.... Amen
Nailed it!
We have put together a new group named “Hot Wife Play in Salt Lake City.” There are currently two members. The two of us and a superb single male. To join you either need to be a couple or a single man with a recommendation from a couple. You also have to live in or near Salt Lake City. Single males unless you are applying along side a couple that can recommend you, then you won’t get approval. Couples and single males verified "Real" or "VIP" are preferred. If you are not verified "Real" or "VIP" and you have no comments from any members that are "Real" or "VIP" and no other verified "Real" or "VIP" member can endorse you, then you will not get approval. This will hopefully, prevent anyone from creating a bogus profile so that they can endorse themselves. No guest members allowed. If we see any problems right up front we will just change the policy to "Real" or "VIP" members only and only lifetime members. One advantage is that the couples, within the group, could post booty calls, within the group, that only recommended single males could see and vice versa.
So maybe the group will allow couples, in or near Salt Lake City to find single men that have a proven track record. Single men might find couples, which enjoy hot wife play, that are more willing to meet them due to their playmate's glowing recommendations. Couples, that join, we ask that you only recommend single men you have actually played with. Whereas, we have other occupations, if you ask to be included, and we are a bit delayed in granting an approval status, know that we did not just ignore you. We will get to you. If the Swingular Group works out then maybe we can also start a KiK Chat group with the same rules but a different name, so that only the group members know where to find it. Anyone willing to be a moderator for that should send us an email. We don't think we are in KiK enough to be effective moderators. We won't be available tomorrow or very much on Sunday.
So maybe the group will allow couples, in or near Salt Lake City to find single men that have a proven track record. Single men might find couples, which enjoy hot wife play, that are more willing to meet them due to their playmate's glowing recommendations. Couples, that join, we ask that you only recommend single men you have actually played with. Whereas, we have other occupations, if you ask to be included, and we are a bit delayed in granting an approval status, know that we did not just ignore you. We will get to you. If the Swingular Group works out then maybe we can also start a KiK Chat group with the same rules but a different name, so that only the group members know where to find it. Anyone willing to be a moderator for that should send us an email. We don't think we are in KiK enough to be effective moderators. We won't be available tomorrow or very much on Sunday.
REDHEADDRAGON88 wrote:
I hope single guys really do read this and take this to heart. Some friends of mine would love to get another single guy involved besides me lol but almost every single guy they talk to are rude, or impatient, or disrespectful. They've thought about giving up the search because there are so many jackasses out there.
I've come across quite a few of them as of lateley......it's very frustrating and a turn off!!!!
You mean swinging isn't really like this?!!? 
EVILDOERS wrote:
You mean swinging isn't really like this?!!?
Maybe for some. Having sex with more than one "gentlemen" at a time is not so uncommon of a fantasy for a woman, as is having sex with "gentlemen" from a different ethnic background. Having sex with anyone of any color or back ground bearing a disrespectful thug mentality is pretty unappealing for us and we suspect for most.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:We finally took time to read this....couldn't agree more.
Rather than just complaining we thought we offer a word about what many swinging couples might mean when they say yes to single men in their profile. This is mostly for all the new single guys, that really are single guys, that recently joined the site and the ones that have been here a while and still fail to prosper.
"Hot Wife" is often used synonymous with the term Cuckold, but it is NOT how most swinger couples view “Hot Wife Play” so don't come off like the jerks in the porn you may be watching.
Hot Wife Play for most of the swingers we know in Salt Lake is where the husband feels he has the hottest woman in the world, and wants to share her, and the wife enjoys all the erotic attention his devotion and fantasy creates for her. When in the mood, swinger couples are not looking for a sexual replacement for the husband, but rather a sex life enhancement adventure to share that includes a single man. The single man lucky enough to be a part of this sort of thing must be very respectful. The stuff of fantasy! Not all men measure up. Our wives don't want to be with physically or emotionally mediocre men. Husbands don't want to watch their wives with mediocre men. Cheaters, as in married men, playing without their wives should not prosper. Polite, respectful, attractive, intelligent and good humored single men can, and will do well in the swing community. We know some great guys. Maybe they should teach lessons.
Single men need to take the emphasis off of "Hot Wife" as a singular fixation or lifestyle for couples that say “yes” to single men in their profile. Single men should consider it more of a fantasy and a pleasure for couples to make a reality, when that is what they desire, and they as single men can be part of that reality, if they are what the couple wants. Couples swing in other realms and often prefer couples hook ups most of the time. In other words, let's not consider it any more than what it is, a fantasy, and a possible reality that couples can use to hopefully enhance their relationship and single men can use to have sex with an incredibly passionate and orgasmic woman. Swinger couples, like us, sometimes wish to focus our attention on our hot wife's sexual fulfillment. She is so sexy that watching her in passion's full embrace, with another man can be extremely rewarding and erotic. As for me I watch until I can no longer wait to join in and ravish her. Sharing keeps a couple on their toes and their sex life exciting. Swinging couples usually try and stay sexy, attractive and interesting not just for any new lovers but for each other. The introduction of a sexy, new and different man in the equation is what ads all the spice in Hot Wife Play. Just because a guy is horny and he has a dick does not ad up to sexy or spice up the relationship. If a single guy wants to live the fantasy he needs to first become the fantasy.
When a woman is just so sexually hot, that she is a gift to the world, and her passions and her orgasms cross over into the realm of the sacred, then encouraging the chosen, to join in such divine pussy worship is in reality a total fucking blast!! That is why we check yes to single men in our profiles and not because some guys have a dick and want to use it.
Additional tips:
Look good
Smell good
Have a sense of humor
Be respectful
Be patient
Be honest
Be healthy
Be confident
Be willing to host
Good luck to all and have fun!
A-Women!
The few single men that I have met (that are allowed in at parties) have been respectful and on their best behavior. I would imagine that is why they are allowed in though.
Great advice for the newcomers! Please read and learn, maybe then all single guys might not get lumped into one big category of mostly undesirable heathens! Amen brothers and sisters, AMEN!