We belong to three sites. Although this is not the worst. The only people that contact us are over 200 miles away. We have never made one contact that led to a meeting. Anyone experiencing the same?
Have to say we have never met anyone from this site - ever. It's not the worst by far. On some other sites the only members close enough to meet are the ones we're not interested in - single males.
Well sorry for your bad luck everyone, maybe it is the area you are in and the fact that the site hasn't caught on there yet. We have met more people than we can keep track of, and make it a point to at least get together for drinks with anyone that expresses the desire to get together.
Must be the mid-atlantic.... of the three we belong to this is the worst and we have failed to meet anyone from this site. Have met several other charming and playful couples from other sites.
What can be done to liven things up. It is a nice web site just plain boring
We like this site, so we won't talk bad about it. But, we have to agree that it seems to be very difficult to actually meet anyone from it. We did meet a great couple a couple of weeks ago from here, but they were our first in a year. Can't put my finger on the reason, but the couples on here that live close enough to us very seldom will even answer a message. It does seem that Utah or Florida are the places to be on this particular site. Looks like the folks from those two states got it going on here. Anyway, we like the forum here, and there are some really hot people to look at. We can dream, can't we? NC, SC, VA, GA, or anywhere else close--- cum on, let's do the wild thing!
We live in Michigan and are having the same problem meeting people, I thought it was are age or something.Been trying to find some pictures to put on but we just moved here from Florida
You all just need to move to Utah where all the action is at! :z My wife and I have only been on for three weeks and have already met 12 to 15 couples and had some awesome experiences too. We're on four different sites and so far this one has provided the best contacts. The people I've met on other sites (that's assuming I've met anyone at all because some I have not) are constantly giving us the run around and there are also a lot of fakes. I think it all really depends on your area and what those people use. For example I know that if you live in Colorado that a lot of those people use lifestyle lounge. So I guess it wall depends. We have definately been pleasantly surprised to find so many attractive and awesome people in the lifestyle here in Utah. Maybe at the very least a vacation needs to be planned. And don't mind all the Mormons, they're really all closet freaks!
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You all just need to move to Utah where all the action is at! :z My wife and I have only been on for three weeks and have already met 12 to 15 couples and had some awesome experiences too. We're on four different sites and so far this one has provided the best contacts. The people I've met on other sites (that's assuming I've met anyone at all because some I have not) are constantly giving us the run around and there are also a lot of fakes. I think it all really depends on your area and what those people use. For example I know that if you live in Colorado that a lot of those people use lifestyle lounge. So I guess it wall depends. We have definately been pleasantly surprised to find so many attractive and awesome people in the lifestyle here in Utah. Maybe at the very least a vacation needs to be planned. And don't mind all the Mormons, they're really all closet freaks!
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We have met in person only two cpls from this site both were in Tn. we got to play with one cpl the other cpl we only met with socially over dinner. Its not the site its like any of the others you have to realize its nothing but a big numbers game you have to contact many before you find one that your scheds meet or the distant isn't too far away there are manywe would like to meet but its the distant problem that gets us. Most of the cpls who live close to us I guess we just don't seem to fit thier mold lol or our scheds just have not met with thiers yet.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
95% of the people we find to play with or even just be friends with are from other sites.
Have met some really great people here and made some lifelong friends, some with benefits. As a single guy you have to spread it out over several sites and here in Utah we seem to spread out. All in all, it's been good.
I have to say it's not the worst. I have not been with anyone in a sexual way, but I have met on couple and we became good friends because of it.
EVERYONE IS TO FAR FROM US........
Wow
I thought everybody was hooking up.
I (male) love this site. My better half couldn't care less...just tell her were the parties are and she'll be happy.
We don't play a lot because of personal circumstances, but for us this site has worked well.
And yes, I do think it favors couples... sorry single guys
I thought everybody was hooking up.
I (male) love this site. My better half couldn't care less...just tell her were the parties are and she'll be happy.
We don't play a lot because of personal circumstances, but for us this site has worked well.
And yes, I do think it favors couples... sorry single guys
I love this site, of all that i've been on , this one is my fave! It's more user friendly than most, the webchat is alot easier to use, and I just love the forums! I have chatted with and met several nice people from here. I realize that the Utah & Florida have alot more members and I think it may have gotten that way from referrals. I've referred a few people myself, and it seems like membership is growing by the day. Naturally being a single female, I get contacted by many and I can honestly say that my "hook-up" ratio (lol) is as good here as any of the other sites I'm on. So all I can really say is be patient and stick with it.
Good luck & Great sex!
~WW
Good luck & Great sex!
~WWi wish i could say yes, but we have not had much luck, it a great site!!! i wish i knew what we are doing worng!!!!
we havent met anyone from this either....but i love reading the forum .
Being in texas there arent many people close enough that want to play with us from this site
so i read the forum and put in my 2 cents whether it is wanted or not.
Being in texas there arent many people close enough that want to play with us from this site
so i read the forum and put in my 2 cents whether it is wanted or not.
Please understand, we are not talking bad about this site. Its great soft ware but the Administrators/owners of this site have to ask themselves "why is no one meeting?" We would never recommend this site to anyone for that reason. Can't meet anyone. Any suggestions to the administration to help them spice it up????? I hope administration is reading this thread.
we need a better chat mechanism. You see people on your friends list and can't contact them. Video chat seems to be the same players
One other thing we joined this site because we ski. Looking for information on places to dine dance and dalley(no necessarily in that order) when we get out there. The extra benefit has been to make contacts with a number of hot couples in FL.
The answer for us is "ROAD TRIP"
MARCUS n rose
The view from the otherside :h
The answer for us is "ROAD TRIP"
MARCUS n rose
The view from the otherside :h
I have to say it does seem we need to move to Florida or Utah and there are not many in Illinois. But we have plans to meet another couple listed on here that is close. :-)
We haven't met anyone from this site either. Anybody interested in getting together let us know. Kim and John
We have to say not much action on this site in NC either. Maybe they need to sponsor some meet and greets in this and other areas, that seems to be where word of a site spreads. Similiar sites in the area have something going about every weekend and they are thriving.
What a great topic for Robert the Admin owner to view. We have met several from the site and enjoy this site as well as two others we belong to. We feel it helps to get out to some local Clubs and meet and greets also promoting the site as a member can help us all. If you get out to a local event and get others in your area on the site and they do the same eventualy the #s will grow and the percentage of compatable people for you will increase.
We push Club Tastebuds in Orlando its the Club we go to most often and thats how we meet others from this site and others. We also started a group for the Club here on Swingular and note we are not great friends with all on or in the group and are not compaable with all even just as friends but it is a comon bond and a place for them to see whats up and get out also.
Remeber this is for fun and enjoyment of the life. We think it helps to just get out for fun if you click with a cpl or a single for a sexual romp in the hay well great but just look to enjoy the freedom and escape the reality of your every day life.
Also plan a trip with others what a great way to meet those far away from you. If you plan a trip and do the trip or cruise once a year you catch up on and with old friends and befor you know it people will take long weekends to see each other.
We have posted the info for Hedo II in June with Hayden Travel his link is on the main page . Also Swingular is going to Desire their are posts on that trip as well. What a great way to meet others that you normaly would not get to and might not think you had any thing incomon with.
Thanks for this topic and we will add drop us a note WE ARE TRACI AND PAT OR JOIN US IN HEDO II JUNE 8TH TO THE 15TH
We push Club Tastebuds in Orlando its the Club we go to most often and thats how we meet others from this site and others. We also started a group for the Club here on Swingular and note we are not great friends with all on or in the group and are not compaable with all even just as friends but it is a comon bond and a place for them to see whats up and get out also.
Remeber this is for fun and enjoyment of the life. We think it helps to just get out for fun if you click with a cpl or a single for a sexual romp in the hay well great but just look to enjoy the freedom and escape the reality of your every day life.
Also plan a trip with others what a great way to meet those far away from you. If you plan a trip and do the trip or cruise once a year you catch up on and with old friends and befor you know it people will take long weekends to see each other.
We have posted the info for Hedo II in June with Hayden Travel his link is on the main page . Also Swingular is going to Desire their are posts on that trip as well. What a great way to meet others that you normaly would not get to and might not think you had any thing incomon with.
Thanks for this topic and we will add drop us a note WE ARE TRACI AND PAT OR JOIN US IN HEDO II JUNE 8TH TO THE 15TH
we havent met anyone that is on this site much less anyone from here.
we are on a few other sites too but there is only one site that we have met ppl from
and it is a free site not these sites that ya gotta pay for and never meet anyone.
and we too only get mail from ppl over 100 miles away.
we are on a few other sites too but there is only one site that we have met ppl from
and it is a free site not these sites that ya gotta pay for and never meet anyone.
and we too only get mail from ppl over 100 miles away.
we also enjoy this site, but also havn't met anyone from this site, only
get added to friends list like that means anything.
I enjoy the reading & looking at others adds.
get added to friends list like that means anything.
I enjoy the reading & looking at others adds.
we haven't met any one from this site this site is fun but no one seems to want to get together
Im going to have to reply to this some more, yes we are on 2 other sites to. It seems to me when we frist started on this one, we had people write us from Kansas and met a few of them. And then i think everyone noticed that you all are from Utah or Florida. So now they moved to this other site, which is fine because ive noticed alot of Kansas people are stuck on them selfs. Ive actually enjoyed this site alot more lately, even though i cant met any of you guys,its still nice to be noticed, and actually met some friends on here
I have a few that i write to now, I say one of these days ill met but if i dont i have a friend at least.
I have a few that i write to now, I say one of these days ill met but if i dont i have a friend at least.I havn't met anyone from here either, but have enjoyed chatting with a few people and love the forums. There just doesn't seem to be that many in Texas on this site (and even less that have any interest in single guys).
From what I've seen there seems to be a lot of sites that are specific to certain areas of the country, I'm on another site that is really best for those in Texas, this seems to be best for those in UT, and I know of others that are best for those in FL or CA, but of them all, this one definately has the best cost and forums!
-Peter
From what I've seen there seems to be a lot of sites that are specific to certain areas of the country, I'm on another site that is really best for those in Texas, this seems to be best for those in UT, and I know of others that are best for those in FL or CA, but of them all, this one definately has the best cost and forums!
-Peter
I've met 3 couples from this site. One of those couples, I have become good friends with even though I am a single male. From my point of view, it has been successful but then again, I live in Florida.