We looked through the list of people who have us on their friends lists and thought perhaps we would drop them a note.
Guess what?We got no response from any of them.Not even a "not interested or no thanks" note.
I don't know..Are there any real swingers on this site?We don't get these problems elsewhere.
Guess what?We got no response from any of them.Not even a "not interested or no thanks" note.
I don't know..Are there any real swingers on this site?We don't get these problems elsewhere.
We haven't had a problem meeting people we add or add us so I don't know what to tell you, sorry. Maybe it's the area you are in?
We belong to three sites. Although this is not the worst. The only people that contact us are over 200 miles away. We have never made one contact that led to a meeting. Anyone experiencing the same?
We have met many couples all from other sites.Our gripe here really is the fact that people add us to their friends lists then ignore us when we say hi.
We have also met couples through people we have met on sites.
I don't know why we have little luck on this one.We use the same photos and write similar stuff into the profile.
We have also met couples through people we have met on sites.
I don't know why we have little luck on this one.We use the same photos and write similar stuff into the profile.
Hi everybody... I think that this site started up in Utah, and is just gaining popularity in Florida. My guess is that the Tampa crowd will pick up on it very soon.
It maybe that the Tampa groups do not need a website to meet up. There are so many swingers in your area. I've always enjoyed my times in Tampa/St. Pete. Don't lose faith, but if you become impatient, you are always welcome to Jax. We've got a good thing going on up here.
It maybe that the Tampa groups do not need a website to meet up. There are so many swingers in your area. I've always enjoyed my times in Tampa/St. Pete. Don't lose faith, but if you become impatient, you are always welcome to Jax. We've got a good thing going on up here.
Couple163,
Some people are on here just to gain access to your private pictures. Usually every few weeks, I clean out my friends list and get rid of the people who arent serious.
Taino,
You have the best party backyard I have seen on here.
Some people are on here just to gain access to your private pictures. Usually every few weeks, I clean out my friends list and get rid of the people who arent serious.
Taino,
You have the best party backyard I have seen on here.
We receive 2 to 3 requests a week to be added to someones friend list. There never is a message from them, only the site administration. Frankly, I think its only the male half of the couples wanting to see more pics. From now on if there is no message from the actual sender
its gets deleted.
its gets deleted.
We also have sent out over 50 emails and personalized each one to the person we were sending them too. we have had 3 responses and not one of them has led to a actual meeting. Not sure why we should continue to look.
question how do I fine the list of people who have addded us to there friends list?
We have been in the lifestyle for over 5 years and all the sites have ups and downs. We just joined this one based on a recommendation of friends. We have been to parties and know that thare people who are REAL! The admin does a lot of work on it and sometimes people are just afraid to take the first step in meeting people. We are all in this to have fun. Relax and remember, everyone has ups and downs. It could also be the area. Different states have different trends.
Maybe all swingers should move to utah hell poligamy seems to be leagal....LOL and we rebel towards th establishment personally? who would think. what a party that would be!!!
if you move your cursor over the mailbox button it will show you 'manage friends', there you can remove people from your list.....hopefully this will help
We have made some contacts from this site, some close and some far away. We wish we could travel at will and I am sure we could meet many more of our friends. We made some of the friends on our list becasuse they contacted us first, and some we met while in the chatroom, or seeing a forum entry that they posted which interested us. Most contacts in our area have been made when attending functions or parties put on by the groups we belong to, or clubs we have gone to. We like a lot of the features on this site like the forums and the chatroom, and we enjoy having made friends across the country, even though we may never meet face to face. But you never know!
We've had similar experiences;receiving the "someone likes you" message with no follow-on message. As we're fairly new to the lifestyle, we didn't know what the proper "protocol" was in this situation. So, we elected to not respond to those who don't send a "personal" note and respond to those who do. Not sure if it is the "proper" way to handle it but, based on some of the previous postings, it doesn't seem to be wrong.
Hey Surfer69 - your comment about "a good thing going in Jax" intrigued me - we got bored with the clubs in Jax & now head to Tampa to Pleasure Palace. Love it there! Is there something going on in Jax that's comparable?
FUN2INFL
Go to mailbox..Manage friends...Look under your list of friends and it will say."People who have me on their friends list"or something like that anyway.
Go to mailbox..Manage friends...Look under your list of friends and it will say."People who have me on their friends list"or something like that anyway.
70 couples have added us to their friends list, we have met (2) of them. Some have e-mailed and said it was just a way to bookmark our profile and meant nothing else.
So that means we have 68 couples who are meaningless friends. :-(
TGIF.
(PS: This site began in Florida, not out west, but we love Utah, arn't you the folks that have the BIG saltwater lake without the damn BIG sharks?
So that means we have 68 couples who are meaningless friends. :-(
TGIF.
(PS: This site began in Florida, not out west, but we love Utah, arn't you the folks that have the BIG saltwater lake without the damn BIG sharks?
thanks all & thanks COUPLE163 I found it now.
We have people adding us to their friends list. And when we look at there profile and pics they have taken us off it that quick because we cant view their private pics. or they put us on the friends list and have no pics at all. I think they hope we will just automaticly add them to ours so they can see our private pics. We think they are just picture colectors. if they can copy them they can send them all over the net. so be careful.We usuly only add people to our friends list after we have met them at a party or something just feels right after chatting with them on yahoo.
for what its worth
for what its worth
That whole right click disabled thing is a false security!! I use FireFox and when I right click in a photo it tells me
To inform NAWTY FUN and anyone else who may not be aware that pictures can be copied from your album, it happened to us. A single male on this site posted a couple of pics from our public album, in his public album as if they were his. A freind of ours informed us of this when he discovered them while browsing profiles, and reported it to Admin. Our pics disapeared the next day from his site, and we had never even gotten a wink from this guy.
I think you have it right BNJFLORIDA, we handle emails the same way. We never put anyone on our friends list unless we send them a typed message also, unless we meet them in the chat room on cam.
I think you have it right BNJFLORIDA, we handle emails the same way. We never put anyone on our friends list unless we send them a typed message also, unless we meet them in the chat room on cam.
This seems very common. We guess that most on here are just looky loos or picture collectors. Very few are actually into meeting. Much the same on many other sites.
ok.. yes
The great salt lake has NO SHARKS.... brine shrimp and sea gulls are the ticket there.. and of course there is the "lake stink" that happens every once in a while!
Now on to bragging about our LAKE.. NO SHARKS!...lol
We have been added / Friend listed by quite a few people with nothing else attached.. Mar here... when I add someone I make sure to send a note along with it!.. not sure about mr. Don.. lol... no. he doesn't just scope out the pics!
Distance for us really (most of the time) does not become a factor.. we travel alot.. or we "import" drag people down here to the lake for a party.. (sometimes ends up being a work on the boat....nekkid party!) woohoo
I will let Don clean out the "Friends List" that have not responded since THEY added us!...
The great salt lake has NO SHARKS.... brine shrimp and sea gulls are the ticket there.. and of course there is the "lake stink" that happens every once in a while!
Now on to bragging about our LAKE.. NO SHARKS!...lol
We have been added / Friend listed by quite a few people with nothing else attached.. Mar here... when I add someone I make sure to send a note along with it!.. not sure about mr. Don.. lol... no. he doesn't just scope out the pics!
Distance for us really (most of the time) does not become a factor.. we travel alot.. or we "import" drag people down here to the lake for a party.. (sometimes ends up being a work on the boat....nekkid party!) woohoo
I will let Don clean out the "Friends List" that have not responded since THEY added us!...
Good Post. Although we have not been on alot lately, we have appriciate everyone on our friends list. We are terribly busy people and find time whenever we can. We do hope to get to know them better and etc, but we are patient. It really depends on what you use that list for. We use it mostly for people we hope to meet, even though we do have others on the list that are further away, but that is just a nice bonus 
Peace, love & music to all you very sexy people on our list, and to all. - Us
Peace, love & music to all you very sexy people on our list, and to all. - UsFirst I don't just click on anyone just to think that I can gain access just by clicking, I am more interested in knowing if someone is interested in looking at me after I have sent an interest.