Swingers Forum - any pointers for setting up a gang bang

Yeah, invite us.

I'd like to help.

Mr. 907

Ask more men then you want to actually show. Half will cancel on the day of. And you can ask me.

LustInSaltLake wrote:

I've been to several GB's. My advice is invite 50 guys, 10 will actually show up.

Bring extra bottled water. Get extra towels from the hotel desk. Have a bowl of condoms for those that only brought two.

Get a big room so everyone isn't cramped all together. A suite with several rooms is nice, plenty of seating while waiting your turn. People talking while you fuck is a bit distracting so have another room where guys can sit and talk, away from the fuck beds to re-cooperate, ( to reestablish function in the male genitals after intercourse, so they can go for round 2,3,4...

Jane:" Are you ready for another round?" Joe:"Hold on I just have to recooperate"

Have a nice big bathroom to clean up or use, while waiting.

Have her take a cpl of showers in-between guys so she is fresh. I don't mind being 5th, 9th, 16th, 23rd, or dp, dvp, but.......

Tell everyone to show up promptly. A 30 minute window. Nothing worse than having the wife on her hands and knees and having someone knock on the door while i'm working my style of fucking. Have a 2 or 3 hour time limit and the GB is over.

Explain rules in the 30 minutes while you visit and wait for stragglers. Yes anal, no anal. Etc. Have a safe word. Let her have fun.

Do you mean recuperate?

Invite me ;-)

Yes I meant recuperate.... auto spell correct on the smart phone.

EVILDOERS wrote:

BEENCURIOUS61 wrote:

Craigslist, this site is a joke.

Code for "I'm not gettin' my fair share of free married tail."

Do single guys get married tail on this site?

Perma-Bachelor wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

[quote=BEENCURIOUS61]Craigslist, this site is a joke.

Code for "I'm not gettin' my fair share of free married tail."

Do single guys get married tail on this site? [/quote]


They do if they play their cards right, are respectful of rules and are honest about what they want.

[quote=LOOKINGFORFOUR]looking at setting something up for the wife anyone have some pointers for me[/quote

My only pointer would be to make sure she doesn't see this post. If it was me all of these posts would scare the shit out of me. Personally, the times I have been involved in this, everyone knew each other. I would think we weren't hoping as optimistically as Lust. Someone else stated to invite more to make sure you have enough. Am still laughing at the thought of 50 guys indeed showing. You would need a bigger bowl. The thought the men going four times is as optimistic as the number of men. Plenty of seating, time to move it to the ballroom, forget the suite. I can certainly understand the guys trying to get an invite, 50 is a big number. The bi guy saying you should invite bi guys because they are comfortable with both sexes, I guess options when you are in the extra seating. But the best, have her shower to keep fresh. I hope only the best for your event. I really do think your wife should have a voice in this, which might already be the case. Have fun!
The best single make entry was the guy who had a forum topic the other day asking couples to post pictures of pregnant wives in action. Stay Classy SanDiego.

FLJIM wrote:

The most reliable way to set up a gang bang is to go to an on-premise club that allows single guys. You will have your pick of the litter, trust me on that.

Choose a club that normally has a respectful group of guys. I've seen this sort of thing play out very well at the Red Rooster in Vegas, at Fun 4 Two in Holland & at the now defunct Club Chameleon in Phoenix.

Beg to differ, the most reliable way to set up a gang bang is to tell your friends that you swing with what you want, you will have your pick of your litter, trust me on that. I have been to the rooster, it is an awfully dirty place, if you want to enjoy something like this, trust in the people you know. Not the single men hanging out at the rooster. respectful group of guys at the rooster is an oxymoron. I would trust Trapeze much more than the Rooster, living in West Palm you should recognize that Trapeze is a better club. I would only go to a club for this if the couple, the original couple that brought this topic up is void of friends in the lifestyle, by judging from her profile picture I wouldn't imagine being the case.

I rarely go to clubs anymore for pretty much what you just described. I might be totally wrong but I haven't met a woman or a wife that has asked for 20 men to fuck her. Like the original post a husband was behind it. Like I said, I could be wrong and certainly don't claim to know how all women think about this. From my experience there is a husband behind her saying that she would enjoy it. I am not blaming any husband or boyfriend but 20 men. I am sure she had her fill as you put it. Hopefully she heard your observation that she couldn't walk right after that as well. Which is my point. I believe no one could walk right after being fucked by 20 strangers. I will get back to that word in a second. There are many other things she will not be able to do right as well. While her husband was controlling the flow, am sure no one was concerned if at anytime during the 20 if she was torn, not lubricated or in pain. I am sure her husband was proud of her being the sexiest slut at the rooster that night. In my last post I favored men the women would know instead of strangers at the rooster. Hopefully friends would love to have sex with her but they would give a shit about their friend as well. I am sure if one of the strangers were in the middle of his time and could tell she was uncomfortable about anything would give a shit and certainly wouldn't stop. Maybe I am all wrong and there are women that want to be fucked by that many men, I just never have met one or even heard a female considering doing it.
I had been to the rooster twice, not recently, the overall vibe of the entire place but more importantly the cleanliness is off putting to me. It has that smell. Am not a big club goer anymore in Miami area anymore either. I did and do like the vibe of Trapeze as well and it is clean or much cleaner than Rooster, in Atlanta as well. Really the only club I get to anymore is club flirts in Miami. Very clean, great vibe, great dance floor and music, nice bar where they have byob. Lastly no single males. Just not a fan of them at clubs. All gfs have their single male bfs. Threesome with them, but I know everyone. That is important to me. I can be a wild child, never in my fantasies or in my reality would I ever get excited at the thought of 20 single men that I have never met until they are on top of me. Just my opinion about all of this. It is just an opinion.

DEEPMOAN wrote:

I might be totally wrong but I haven't met a woman or a wife that has asked for 20 men to fuck her.

It seems to be more common in the UK, where they are referred to as "greedy girls", but I have met a few women here in the US that also enjoy having more than just a few men in a single evening. Some of those women are married. Some are single by choice of lifestyle.

I do plan it in moab!!

I do plan it in moab!!

I have never tried a gang bang before so I would be game, let me know a date and time then I can take it off the bucket list. I meet 1 lady sometime a go who said she would only be with one guy a night..... think she would be good for a gang bang

A good way to do it is by going out to a bar. Where the ratio of men to women are like 3 in the house. Being friendly and, making eye contact helps. Be adventurous. Say hello to someone new. Maybe a group of men together. By the end of the night...ask them to come over....oh, they will!

If planning one on here. Never have a surprised gang bang. These are odd at best. Get to know some men on here that interest you. If you are married talk with your hubby and, find out ways it will work well. Let the men know you are wild and love some kinky fun. Be upfront they will also be upfront. Let them know a time and where. It will happen. Easy like Sunday Morning!!!

Have someone there to stage manage the thing. Someone who isn't going to be participating.

Terry

BIKE_CPL4FUN wrote:

CHEFFETTE wrote:

[quote=GRAYWOLF]Love to participate and will show up

I think piping up that you want to she-bang in the gang bang two days in a row is enough notice that you're interested.

wow.... sounds like the gray wolf must have done something to piss you off in order to be on the receiving end of your opinion.[/quote]
Agreed

CHEFFETTE wrote:

BIKE_CPL4FUN wrote:

[quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=GRAYWOLF]Love to participate and will show up

I think piping up that you want to she-bang in the gang bang two days in a row is enough notice that you're interested.

wow.... sounds like the gray wolf must have done something to piss you off in order to be on the receiving end of your opinion.[/quote]
I'm making light of someone anxiously trying to get in where they haven't been invited, twice. Or is it only couples who are allowed to roll their eyes at single males standing (however figuratively) near the action hoping for a chance to stick their dick in?[/quote]


Making light? Looked more like mocking to us. Isn't this site supposed to bring swinging people together? Single males, single females, couples in any combination we desire? Imagine for a second that the shoe is on the other foot, single men were sought after and single females were mostly shunned, if you saw a thread asking about a fantasy you had wouldn't you throw your hat in as available? Mocking others for trying to participate shows us that you've forgotten what it's like to be the outsider, to be judged for your desires. We thought this community would be more understanding and less cliquish than the vanilla world.

"We thought this community would be more understanding and less cliquish than the vanilla world."

You thought wrong. Swinging is far more cliquish and judgmental than the vanilla world. Why, you ask? I'm glad you asked. It's because in swinging we aren't necessarily looking for friends, relationships or life partners. We're looking for other people to fuck. In the vanilla world when we meet people it's not usually with the ultimate objective being to see them naked with our genitals connected. Can you see yet why there might be a vastly different dynamic at work in swinging?

The other problem, and yes it's been a problem since swinging began, is that not everyone is attracted to everyone else. There, I said it. Believe it or not there ARE people out there who don't understand the concept that if I smile and say, "Hello.", to you at a party I don't necessarily want to fuck you. Yes, Virginia, there are those in our little community who think that by virtue of the fact that we all share this little hobby we should all be DTF pretty much anyone, anytime, anywhere regardless of whether or not we find them attractive. Sad to say it really doesn't work that way. Additionally a small percentage of the aforementioned people also don't necessarily take "No" for an answer. This factor alone, IMHO, accounts for 90% of the rancor currently present in the lifestyle. Google it, it's seriously like 90%.

If EVERYONE erred on the side of assuming everyone else DIDN'T automatically want to fuck them I guarantee people would be a lot friendlier, open and welcoming. Of course also throwing a little bit of ethanol (something pretty much requisite, unfortunately, in this scene) on the situation just makes all of this even worse. Well there you have it. That's my diatribe and I'm sticking to it!

POSSIBITITYS wrote:

It is truely disheartening to read that

Sorry that human nature sucks.






But when you think about it, it's better that it's human nature than people are just assholes and like to treat each other shitty.

POSSIBITITYS wrote:

CHEFFETTE wrote:

[quote=BIKE_CPL4FUN][quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=GRAYWOLF]Love to participate and will show up

I think piping up that you want to she-bang in the gang bang two days in a row is enough notice that you're interested.

wow.... sounds like the gray wolf must have done something to piss you off in order to be on the receiving end of your opinion.[/quote]
I'm making light of someone anxiously trying to get in where they haven't been invited, twice. Or is it only couples who are allowed to roll their eyes at single males standing (however figuratively) near the action hoping for a chance to stick their dick in?[/quote]


Making light? Looked more like mocking to us. Isn't this site supposed to bring swinging people together? Single males, single females, couples in any combination we desire? Imagine for a second that the shoe is on the other foot, single men were sought after and single females were mostly shunned, if you saw a thread asking about a fantasy you had wouldn't you throw your hat in as available? Mocking others for trying to participate shows us that you've forgotten what it's like to be the outsider, to be judged for your desires. We thought this community would be more understanding and less cliquish than the vanilla world. [/quote]
No, I wouldn't and when the situation's arisen, I haven't. My hillbilly momma raised me better. I don't stop at stranger's houses where it looks like a BBQ's going on and see if they've room for me; it's impolite. Throw sex into the mix and it's a whole creepier level of impolite. As Evil says, there are men in this lifestyle who think if a woman wants to fuck anyone she has to fuck everyone; when men act on that assumption it almost always comes off as (at the very least) impolite. If you think people called out on impolite behavior is cliquish, then I'm happy to be cliquish.

POSSIBITITYS wrote:

CHEFFETTE wrote:

[quote=POSSIBITITYS][quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=BIKE_CPL4FUN][quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=GRAYWOLF]Love to participate and will show up

I think piping up that you want to she-bang in the gang bang two days in a row is enough notice that you're interested.

wow.... sounds like the gray wolf must have done something to piss you off in order to be on the receiving end of your opinion.[/quote]
I'm making light of someone anxiously trying to get in where they haven't been invited, twice. Or is it only couples who are allowed to roll their eyes at single males standing (however figuratively) near the action hoping for a chance to stick their dick in?[/quote]


Making light? Looked more like mocking to us. Isn't this site supposed to bring swinging people together? Single males, single females, couples in any combination we desire? Imagine for a second that the shoe is on the other foot, single men were sought after and single females were mostly shunned, if you saw a thread asking about a fantasy you had wouldn't you throw your hat in as available? Mocking others for trying to participate shows us that you've forgotten what it's like to be the outsider, to be judged for your desires. We thought this community would be more understanding and less cliquish than the vanilla world. [/quote]
No, I wouldn't and when the situation's arisen, I haven't. My hillbilly momma raised me better. I don't stop at stranger's houses where it looks like a BBQ's going on and see if they've room for me; it's impolite. Throw sex into the mix and it's a whole creepier level of impolite. As Evil says, there are men in this lifestyle who think if a woman wants to fuck anyone she has to fuck everyone; when men act on that assumption it almost always comes off as (at the very least) impolite. If you think people called out on impolite behavior is cliquish, then I'm happy to be cliquish. [/quote]


You are exactly the kind of person we hope to avoid, and are glad to have come to this realization before having met you at a random party. We wish you the best of luck and happy hunting[/quote]
Well, that's me off to my fainting couch in a fit of vapors from disappointment.

TMACA wrote:

Have someone there to stage manage the thing. Someone who isn't going to be participating.

Terry

I would love to be the entire cock finder and game day coordinator

Amen Deepmoan. Suggest you invite single guys and guys from COUPLES you already know. Best if all the players know each other if you want it to be fun. Jeeeze, would you REALLY risk that any other way?