People on Swingular are DTF. That's why most of us are here. (It's certainly why I'm here. I like sex an awful lot and I like an awful lot of sex, though not a lot of awful sex.)
This doesn't make us indiscriminate; if anything we have to be MORE discriminating since we don't have a foundation to base a sexual relationship (or whatever you choose to call it) on. Profiles are for learning if a person may be interested in seeing genitals that look like yours and other particulars. People are allowed to have things they like that may not reflect your own qualities; this robs you of nothing. No one's wrong in this instance but the jerk who tries to negotiate the desires of another human after they've stated them clearly.
If you wouldn't walk up to a stranger at a party and start fucking them dry then don't send a message w/o reading a profile. FFS, you're ON the profile already! Cognition is your friend!
This doesn't make us indiscriminate; if anything we have to be MORE discriminating since we don't have a foundation to base a sexual relationship (or whatever you choose to call it) on. Profiles are for learning if a person may be interested in seeing genitals that look like yours and other particulars. People are allowed to have things they like that may not reflect your own qualities; this robs you of nothing. No one's wrong in this instance but the jerk who tries to negotiate the desires of another human after they've stated them clearly.
If you wouldn't walk up to a stranger at a party and start fucking them dry then don't send a message w/o reading a profile. FFS, you're ON the profile already! Cognition is your friend!
So what you're saying is...it's dine in only? 
I agree, Cheffette.
EVILDOERS wrote:
So what you're saying is...it's dine in only?
Oh my, no - there's plenty of eating out.
BIKE_CPL4fun, why don't you delete all the info from your profile since it doesn't matter?
Or is your problem that I pointed something out that doesn't bug you so you don't care if it bugs others?
BIKE_CPL4FUN wrote:CHEFFETTE wrote:
People on Swingular are DTF. That's why most of us are here. (It's certainly why I'm here. I like sex an awful lot and I like an awful lot of sex, though not a lot of awful sex.)
This doesn't make us indiscriminate; if anything we have to be MORE discriminating since we don't have a foundation to base a sexual relationship (or whatever you choose to call it) on. Profiles are for learning if a person may be interested in seeing genitals that look like yours and other particulars. People are allowed to have things they like that may not reflect your own qualities; this robs you of nothing. No one's wrong in this instance but the jerk who tries to negotiate the desires of another human after they've stated them clearly.
If you wouldn't walk up to a stranger at a party and start fucking them dry then don't send a message w/o reading a profile. FFS, you're ON the profile already! Cognition is your friend!
Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah.......... Some peeps just thrive on the opportunity to tell others how it's all supposed to be, there are many forum trolls here,they are not hard to spot, buyer beware....
The thing is, she's right, and since someone or other puts something similar up every once in a while, it's obviously an ongoing thing, and what's wrong with someone pointing it out?
This site is most certainly not a sex delivery service for single men, at least not in my area. I have much better luck just meeting people in person. But, for some reason, I still stop back here to poke around once in a while.
FLJIM wrote:
This site is most certainly not a sex delivery service for single men, at least not in my area. I have much better luck just meeting people in person. But, for some reason, I still stop back here to poke around once in a while.
Nothing wrong with poking...
that's why it's good to be bisexual.. you get double the chances
ORALLYBI4CPL wrote:
that's why it's good to be bisexual.. you get double the chances
Great! Immaterial to the conversation in every way, but good on you.
You expect to post a thread and have it maintain its integrity? What's next, all single males expecting sex from this site at least once every 2 hours?
On the bright side, I had the oil changed in my car today :P
WAKEBOARDING wrote:
wow... we got so lost.... somebody help us out on this one???
Well done on the vehicle maintenance, there, POSSIBITITYS.
The gist is this - this site is filled w/ humans pursuing sex w/ other humans. If they wanted a sex toy that didn't talk they'd go by one. If they wanted to be treated like a sex toy that doesn't talk they wouldn't join up where other humans belong. They certainly wouldn't fill out their profile w/ likes and dislikes, as though they wanted those things to be considered by the other humans. Their profile would simply read 'AVAILABLE FUK TOY 4 U' w/ a phone # where said fuck toy can be easily obtained.
And if you're a fuck boy looking on here for nothing more challenging than a fuck toy don't get your BVDs in a wad when you're called out on it. It'll confuse your mom when she goes to wash them.
Jeff, I wouldn't slow my pace down for the integrity of a thread, don't be silly. (Also, just cooked up several pounds of cinnamon-pear preserves.)
Seriously? There is always always someone who gets offended or gets their panties bunched.. Relax.. Just to b alive makes it all worth it.. And to b a swinger makes it even better!!!
CANDJ23 wrote:
Seriously? There is always always someone who gets offended or gets their panties bunched.. Relax.. Just to b alive makes it all worth it.. And to b a swinger makes it even better!!!
Yes, seriously dude. But hey, if you don't agree w/ me go ahead and delete that long, carefully-crafted profile of yours and just b alive, man...
THEGMAN wrote:CHEFFETTE wrote:
Jeff, I wouldn't slow my pace down for the integrity of a thread, don't be silly. (Also, just cooked up several pounds of cinnamon-pear preserves.)
Cheffette- Those cinnamon pear preserves are amazing. I have still saved them.Trying not to finish them in one sitting is a bit challenging though.
It's also not a preserved fruit delivery service. PICKUP ONLY
I understand the laissez-faire attitude comes from a lack of empathy and there's almost no kind way to force a person to empathize. It's frustrating to try and work around in one's sex life; I'm here for more than the friction and that seems to be unforgivable to a number of Swingular members (mostly males).