We admit that we are not very experienced with being involved with other people.
The few experinces that we have had, have been with someone that is just coming out of a long term marriage and wanted to experiment with a couple.
We can apprecitate the use of condoms during penetration, but what about oral?
We both enjoy oral, giving and receiving, but how does one do that safely as we began to venture out?
Condoms on a man, ok, we understand that.
But what about going down on a female friend, rubber damns or whatever? How sexy is that?
Help please??
The few experinces that we have had, have been with someone that is just coming out of a long term marriage and wanted to experiment with a couple.
We can apprecitate the use of condoms during penetration, but what about oral?
We both enjoy oral, giving and receiving, but how does one do that safely as we began to venture out?
Condoms on a man, ok, we understand that.
But what about going down on a female friend, rubber damns or whatever? How sexy is that?
Help please??
oh man that's a bee's nest, don't be whacking at it with a stick!
Amen Extacy. We never jumped into bed with strangers and don't intend to start now. Think Fatal Attraction. :-) We find if you make friends first and don't jump into bed at the drop of a hat you get a chance to find out what kind of person the other folks are. Besides the friendship make the sexual fun much better. At least that is our opinion. It is a matter of building trust and knowing the person you are hooking up with.
ANd if you make and exception on an occaission do so carefully. Like say for example if the Hunts were in town we might jump into fun activities at a moments notice. :-D.
That is why we like to chat and get to know folks.
We go for quality and not quantity.
:-)
ANd if you make and exception on an occaission do so carefully. Like say for example if the Hunts were in town we might jump into fun activities at a moments notice. :-D.
That is why we like to chat and get to know folks.
We go for quality and not quantity.
:-)
Good Afternoon! This one is truly a difficult subject because the "experts" are all over the chart. We suggest that knowing the couple you are going to engage in sex with is the best defense. We are extremely selective as a result of this. While we have engaged in sex on the first meeting, (that is an aberation than the norm) usually he goes to meet with the other couple or partner prior to our first date. If he or either of us has any hesitation we just write it off to a nice evening and usually leave it at that.
Not us, the only thing we turn down is our collar. :-)
OK you got us there FLfun. We would probably not turn you guys down either. :-) But as we said it is the exception rather than the rule.
As far as oral sex, it is very unlikely to catch a disease. Due to your mouth has enzyme in your saliva to stop any viral infections. But that doesn't mean every STD is safe, gosh no. I mean I agree you got to go with your instincts here, if the couple or single your with isn't all that into personal hygene then I'd say heck no. Being a nurse I get asked that question alot, and when we play oral isn't much of a discusion or a problem. Anyone think the same way??
How about testing? We have had our most exciting fun with couples who we got tested together with. Until the testing is done there are safe things to do that are very fun. Unprotected oral with untested partners is risky. Don't kid yourself. Tested partners = better safer sex. Want to look real sexy and fun when you meet that next couple? Have a copy of your S.T.D. tests for them and ask for the same. Drake
Probably the best thing to do is find some folks/friends and start a realationship based on trust with them, and hope they will be honest with you about their activities outside of your relationship.
At our age, about the only thing we could catch from the couples we play with is Alzheimers!
If you choose not to uses condoms or dental dams as safer sex methods it is an informed descision and it's a crap shoot at best. Statistics for STD's via oral are way up.. With HIV in the discussion stages.. The virus mutates and thus the method of transmission may include oral.. Right now the jury is still out within the medical community. New resistant strains of STD's are cropping up and some are quite drug resistant... The following is a snippet from a STD awareness program by Terri Warren.. Which is; ".....After all, our former president told us oral sex is not sex. However, oral sex can certainly transmit STDs, including herpes, HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, and hepatitis, and genital warts." I'm not sure that I agree with all that but Slick Willy (a title as well as nicName LOL) did get that definition....In my research on STD's I hav cum across conflicting info on orally transmited STD's... So pick your poison..
Here are some other statistics about STD's in the lifestyle....I am not an authority but simply reporting what I have read. There have been no reported cases of HIV within the lifestyle as of 1996 and again in 2002. The most likely disease one catches within the lifestyle is the comon cold and the FLu. Chlamydia, HSV and Gonorrhea are not unknow withi the lifestyle but Gonorrhea is almost unknown. Don't like the taste of LAtex... Ladies use flavored condoms. They are un lubed and no Monoxl 9. Gents Plastic wraps will work as good as any lates dam and are more sensitive thatlatex for both parties... The lady will not know you are using it if you don't show her. If you like the raw touch of eating pussy.... You takes your chances...what ever they may be.
Here are some other statistics about STD's in the lifestyle....I am not an authority but simply reporting what I have read. There have been no reported cases of HIV within the lifestyle as of 1996 and again in 2002. The most likely disease one catches within the lifestyle is the comon cold and the FLu. Chlamydia, HSV and Gonorrhea are not unknow withi the lifestyle but Gonorrhea is almost unknown. Don't like the taste of LAtex... Ladies use flavored condoms. They are un lubed and no Monoxl 9. Gents Plastic wraps will work as good as any lates dam and are more sensitive thatlatex for both parties... The lady will not know you are using it if you don't show her. If you like the raw touch of eating pussy.... You takes your chances...what ever they may be.
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