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So couples, when inviting a Unicorn to your "House Party" Do you want/expect her to come solo? Whats the etiquette being invited to a private party? Obviously every host maybe different, but in general I wondered.
Perhaps it is whatever makes that person being invited comfortable. I was recently invited to a house party, which I am excited to go to and expected to go alone. I mostly prefer to fly solo, so much easier! However I have never personally met anyone going so maybe it would be more comfortable taking a friend with?
Well am sure everyone is different. For us if we invite a single and sometimes we have invited single males and single females we are inviting a person. If either had someone they wanted to bring along our expectation would be that they run them by us first for approval and an OK. Because of the nature of an adult party for us we do filter out people who we do not believe will work well in that type of situation.

The main concern for us would quite honestly be the unknown person who is not familiar with and willing to live within the expectations that most lifestyle people know about and accept. The loose cannon type person.
We usually don't expect a single girl to bring a date. However we do most often require it of single guys. And quite frankly, it's not because the girls are generally better behaved but rather, only because if you don't require a single guy to bring a date, your party can often become way more guys than girls...making the ladies most uncomfortable. Not because of the guys manners, because of their numbers. Most of the single guys we've met have actually been pretty respectful. While I have no idea whose party you're going to, I would still think you should not be uncomfortable going alone.
I think that single ladies should have the option to bring a friend just so they have the comfort of having someone they know with them as long as they are respectful. But that is the same requirements of all guests.
We have three summer house parties a year. We do nvite some single females that we have not met. As such they are always free to bring a date and do not need to run it by U.S. First. We are just watchful of those we invite. If there are problems we invite them to leave and never extend a second invite.

We view our parties as ways to meet new folks, both for us and those we invite.


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We frequently host private house parties (generally every other month, or so) and when we invite a single female (or Unicorn, as you put it), we are inviting them because we want to have them here and we never require or even ask them to bring a date, but if they do ask to bring someone, we rarely have an issue with it. Just like SIMPLEPLEASURES stated, we invite the people we invite because we know them or would like to get to know them and because we think they would be a good addition to the party so they can get to know other people and other people can get to know them.