I know at least two couples and a few single males who was stood up/cancelled on and sometimes more than once with Thislilmiss on a booty call. The profile is constantly on booty call. How many out there have experienced the same issue?
Several people on the site are playing games on people for kicks, and none of them are getting banned. What gives?
Not sure if being a flake is a violation of TOS but calling out someone by name might be. Her profile says she's a "naughty wife" so maybe she just can't sneak out easily or just as she's leaving her husband says, "Oi! Where you goin' dressed like a five pound strumpet?" And yes she could be playing games for kicks but again I'm not sure that rises to the level of something that would get one banned. There are LOTS of mean nasty things people could do (stalking, blackmail, giving your phone number to the Mormon missionaries) and DO do (hee hee...I said doo doo) that are worse than being a flake. I hate flakes as much as the next guy but if that was an actionable banning offense half of Swingular would be back on AFF. 
11MIKE wrote:
Why would a 25 year old single female have to put up a booty call would be my question
She's not single.
Mebbie there's a perfectly logical explanation for her perceived flakitude. Maybe she got up to the point of meeting and saw that the person she was meeting was devastatingly sexy and knew that she might not live up to their impossible standards of beauty and decided it was better not to put her ego on the line. Conversely, she could have seen the meetee and they looked about as much like their description and/or profile pics as I look like Ariana Grande (hint, that would be not at all). Orrrrr maybe she recognized you from her ward or stake roster or from the most wanted posters in the post office. Another quite plausible explanation might be alien abduction. Aliens seem to be inordinately interested in our reproductive functions and noting her extreme horniness in anticipation of meeting you they beamed her up to study her naughty bits. Or maybe she was on her way when she heard about a really good sale at Kohls. LOTS of plausible explanations out there. I know I've flaked on people when I remembered a promised meeting but was right in the middle of binge watching all nine seasons of Matlock.
RUSTIEZ wrote:11MIKE wrote:
Why would a 25 year old single female have to put up a booty call would be my question
She's not single.
why would a 25 married female have to put up a booty call would be my question like 11mike
LOTS of peeps skulking around Swingular (and other sites) these days...not who/what they say they are. Singles claiming to be married and vice versa. Cheaters, phonies, bait and switchers...yada yada. If we banned everybody that someone has a problem with for one reason or another it would be a ghost town here. I'm not saying people who flake aren't twatwaffles, just that it probably shouldn't rise to the level of a banning offense. Let's ban people who would do real harm to the community or to individual members. People who knowingly spread STI's. People who might cause or threaten physical harm or stalk or harass one or more of our members. Yes, having your time wasted is really annoying but the same thing can happen if you meet someone who in any way misrepresents themselves and upon meeting them you decide you wouldn't have met them if you knew their true...age, weight, hair color (or lack thereof), political views, etc.. Hell, I'll bet there are more than a few people here who would love to ban single males...just on principle. And for sure there are those who would love to ban me for...well, for any reason, pick one. Just sayin'....
I say we tie Evil to the train tracks without Dudley Do-Right anywhere in the vicinity, for defending a clearly untrustworthy member of a clearly not traditional website!
The name is Evil after all, so they must not be living up to the standards of this community! Judge Scalia won't even be able to save evil now!
The name is Evil after all, so they must not be living up to the standards of this community! Judge Scalia won't even be able to save evil now!
Only if you also tie Ms. PAIRPLAYERS to me...nekkid. Oh, and if you could make it some old defunct railway tracks too that would be great, m-kay?
C'mon, Mr. PAIRPLAYERS, fess up. YOU'RE the one keeping THISLILMISS from meeting all those people she agreed to meet by tempting her with your tantalizing trouser trout, aren't you?
C'mon, Mr. PAIRPLAYERS, fess up. YOU'RE the one keeping THISLILMISS from meeting all those people she agreed to meet by tempting her with your tantalizing trouser trout, aren't you?
Yea, what's up with all the couples wanting to date? I am a fan of making new friends and hanging out and all that. But I thought the purpose of this sight was not only to meet people in the lifestyle but to actually engage in the lifestyle not just talk about it and pretend we do. 
I am now prepared for the rash of floggings I shall receive.
I am now prepared for the rash of floggings I shall receive.CHEFFETTE wrote:SHRED wrote:
Does anyone just hook up and fuck anymore?
Yarp.
ETA - but never from a booty call, they've all but one turned out to be people looking to get off on sexting rather than actually meeting and were complete wastes of time. The anomaly was a guy who became quite the delightful partner on many occasions but his booty call itself wasn't consummated, I guess would be the word.
Ok, so I am one of the people who talked with and set something up with this individual (Thislilmiss). I have had a couple of friends who had tried to meet up with her previously and she flaked on their appointments as well. So they asked if I would reply to her booty call to see if I could meet her because they were starting to wonder if she was real. I did reply to her booty call and I got a quick response from her. We set something up and the following day she did not respond to any of my messages. I still have not heard anything back from her. I only give you these details to let you know that the Original Poster is not making this up. I still have all the texts and emails. She asked for pictures, details, etc. But then she completely went dark. I understand that sometimes things come up and you have to cancel. And some people are just flakey. But it is very suspicious to be so interested in meeting and then totally silent. And if I were the only person this had happened to it would be a different story. But I know of at least three people/couples who have had this happen to them. So that is why it was brought up? We were just curious if anyone had actually met this person. If asking that question is ground for getting banned, then I guess we are guilty of asking questions. Sorry.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
It's clear. She is a vampire or maybe a werewolf.
Ha ha... Well then I am kind of glad she flaked. I think we should add that to one of the questions on the profile. "Are you a vampire or werewolf?" I am neither of those by the way.
SHRED wrote:
Does anyone just hook up and fuck anymore?
Umm hello.. we do..
As do we!
We do, just to far away from anyone to have any fun.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
It's clear. She is a vampire or maybe a werewolf.
Too funny. Vampires are in this season I hear!
I cannot confirm nor deny that ANY of you people are having sex often. So therefore you are all in a state of having sex and not having sex at the same time. If you wish to get out of this quantum state you may send me pictures of said sex timestamped and remove yourself from this state of perpetual sex/no sex.
Thank you for your time.
Thank you for your time.
I do but not with anyone on this site, because I don't know hardly anyone on here into that haha! 
RUSTIEZ wrote:
I cannot confirm nor deny that ANY of you people are having sex often. So therefore you are all in a state of having sex and not having sex at the same time. If you wish to get out of this quantum state you may send me pictures of said sex timestamped and remove yourself from this state of perpetual sex/no sex.
Thank you for your time.
Ah yes...Schrodinger's Pussy
maybe we all should email her and flood her mailbox so she can't get anymore emails that she will set up with a no show...
Leave it to a single male to come up with the idea of 'flooding her box'. 
We've been known to do a little boot knockin'.....
ROYALTIESCM wrote:
I know at least two couples and a few single males who was stood up/cancelled on and sometimes more than once with Thislilmiss on a booty call. The profile is constantly on booty call. How many out there have experienced the same issue?
Can you provide any proof that there was ever suppose to be a meet up or that they talked?
GOTITALL wrote:
Add me to the list of people stood up (multiple times) by Thislismiss. If the moderators are reading this I say ban her. I think she (he?) is getting her kicks by baiting people and wasting their time.
Can you provide any proof that there was ever suppose to be a meet up or that they talked?
AANDR wrote:
As do we!
We want to.
Shes a fake, set something up with us the other night and kept telling us she was waiting for her husband to let her know if she was allowed to come or not.
Ya i just cant seem to find a woman on here to join us really whats up with this
BIGDADDY6874 wrote:
Ya i just cant seem to find a woman on here to join us really whats up with this
Pictures in a profile do help entice people to get to know you more often.
Yeah guy
We do too!!! We are real and very down to play
Thislilmiss was verified on September 24th 2014 by video chat.
And, btw, I got called out pretty heavy once for doing this exact thing... if you don't think someone is real, I was told, the etiquette is basically to fuck off and leave them alone.
Not sure what the correct thing to do really.
Not sure what the correct thing to do really.
WETANDHARDUTCPL wrote:SHRED wrote:
Does anyone just hook up and fuck anymore?
Umm hello.. we do..
Y'all are blocking single males but your profile says you are looking for them... so common I've learned from switching from couple profile to SM.
Umm...of the only harm she's done is stand ppl up, wth is she being called out like this? If you're not into wasting your time, don't meet someone who's stood you up before duh. I think it's shitty if we are going to point out people when no one knows why she didn't show & you agreed to meet again. Unless she's actually done something to cause problems for you, like calling you out in a negative way in the forums, just let it go.