Just curious how often is to often to have sex ???
For myself, as long as both involved dont feel pressured, as often as possible. Both ppl in a relationship should feel desired n loved from their other half. And return the same. If your partner gets a craving for fun, satify it openly n honest n with must enthusiasm.
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People should be able to have sex as often as they like. The far more important question is how do we prevent certain people from procreating. 
CPLINTOOELE wrote:
Just curious how often is to often to have sex ???
I would think if you are asking others this question, it is not often enough.
I would love to have it at least 4 or 5 times a week. If more than that wouldn't put up a fight ;-)
That depends. When you first start out with someone new, 3, 4, 5 times a day. When the newness wears off you can get some rest and only do it 3-5 times a week! lolol
Wait, how many people need to be involved for it to count?
"An orgasm a day keeps the shrink away" Dr. Ruth
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:GOODFUN2 wrote:
Wait, how many people need to be involved for it to count?
"The more the merrier" Or maybe for the poly sorts "The more to marry her"
Ha! Awesome!
I'm confused. You can have enough sex?
Love the answers here I knew it would stir allot of fun responses ..
Depends on the individuals involved. If it's consensual, have sex all you want, as often as you want.
KENNEDY0408 wrote:
I would like to have enough non-marital sex that the Westboro Church decides to picket my funeral.
And we have a winner!!!! Ding ding ding!! That was great Kennedy.
We have sex on average every morning when we wake up and every night before we go to sleep. On kid free weekends we on occasion add on other time or two.
If we're lucky and have a visitor over during the week that would be additional.
So on average for messed up evenings 15 times per week. We are down from say 17 when we were first married 7 years ago.
We have been curious if we were low or average with other happily married couples.
If we're lucky and have a visitor over during the week that would be additional.
So on average for messed up evenings 15 times per week. We are down from say 17 when we were first married 7 years ago.
We have been curious if we were low or average with other happily married couples.
We're prob on par with Simple except for the days I'm at the fire station.
Bob
Bob
There is never too often!
Ideally I think at least 1-2 times a day!! More on some days.
KENNEDY0408 wrote:
I would like to have enough non-marital sex that the Westboro Church decides to picket my funeral.
Pretty sure they would picket your funeral if you were monogamous and married but just really liked sex.
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
We have sex on average every morning when we wake up and every night before we go to sleep. On kid free weekends we on occasion add on other time or two.
If we're lucky and have a visitor over during the week that would be additional.
So on average for messed up evenings 15 times per week. We are down from say 17 when we were first married 7 years ago.
We have been curious if we were low or average with other happily married couples.
Most "happily married" couples have sex 3 times a week if they are lucky...
How long does each play time last. For us we usually play about 40-70 min. Sometimes takes that long for both to get off.
WILDNEWCPLE wrote:SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
How long does each play time last. For us we usually play about 40-70 min. Sometimes takes that long for both to get off.
So you have sex 15-17 times a week for 40-70 minutes at a time? That's 15-20 hours a week having sex...I'm hoping thats above average because we are not even close to that with jobs, family, hobbies, etc.
Maybe we are way under average but we have no way near that kind of free time in a week....never mind that much time for sex alone. We try to have some type of fun once a day, whether sex, foreplay, or just a fun make out session before bed. There are ways to be intimate without intercourse (might be a blasphemous statement here!). And we also find quickies can be just as fun and intimate depending on the situation. #hopewedo(nt)getcaught
Just our two cents.
While married my sex time was down, not while dating but certainly plunged quickly after married, I had been swinging before marriage and tried to get him into the fold, but unfortunately he couldn't wrap his mind around the concept, marriage didn't last long for many reasons including this one.
would agree with the above, it is all good, all have a place and a time from a quickie to a much longer time, if I am on a date with a couple, much longer than the 40-70 time frame. also agree there are many ways to be intimate or have a great time with out intercourse, especially with women/women time. as they stated with all the obligations of a married couple, if they are both working, kids?,family can make having that time hard. pun intended.
I chose to be single, am very comfortable in my skin, I just have my work. work can occupy all my time so I don't get the mandated two sex acts a day, but at the same time when work is completed and am able to partake in something I enjoy very much that 2 number can have many multipliers. not to mention visiting vegas with a couple for that express purpose of having a lost weekend.
fortunately for this community I think they actually talk about what is enjoyable for them, unlike couples that use it for bargaining, debt repayment or keeping the spouse off their back literally.
if the couple or single is happy and communicating, it's all good, I think it has to be 1> to be considered having sex, lastly if it isn't consensual it isn't sex,
Your amount of sex should be as much as you and your partner desire, as long as it will not interfere with the other important things in life, like but not limited to( kids-job-health) If you are to busy getting laid so it makes it hard to keep a good job maybe, just maybe you have a little problem.
the first full year after our wedding the mrs set a personal goal among her new year resolutions of 10 orgasms/day. after 3-4 months i (the mr) began looking for excuses to work late and distant business trips. after which i was reminded that being away does not discharge the husband obligations. we eventually had a discussion and altered the goal to '10 combined his 'n hers orgasms/day.' by around june i was terrified to sneeze or roll over in bed at night fearing i might have to do it again. at that time we were also regulars at the gym expending considerable time and energy in clothed exercise. another discussion ensued where i was forced to admit 'i just can't keep it up' (pun intended.) negotiations again ensued. after a couple vibrators and a g/f were acquired the resolution was fulfilled.
we now rarely miss a day, have the occasional 3-4/day day, have added a couple dozen different vibrators and g/fs to the mix and sneer at the more is always better POV.
moral of the story; there is a point beyond which even the greatest experience becomes more of a labor than a love.
we now rarely miss a day, have the occasional 3-4/day day, have added a couple dozen different vibrators and g/fs to the mix and sneer at the more is always better POV.
moral of the story; there is a point beyond which even the greatest experience becomes more of a labor than a love.
Hold on I will respond in about 30 minutes I gotta go do something........
This is a good question? But I am in agreement with everyone else here as long as everyone is consenting etc etc.... For my own personal being I would like it 2-3 times a day but living in small areas and being a sf, since safety is an issue doesn't really work out that way!