I like others playing with me, giving me attention, touching me. But I'd rather do as little as possible to others... What's wrong with me? This goes for my husband and anyone else. Sure, I like pleasuring my husband, i love seeing him happy in every way. But, it's still true that I prefer sex over giving oral or a hand job... Why? Why can't I love giving head? What's wrong with me?
How would it be playing with others..? When I don't really WANT to do anything past touching them, and having them pleasure me...
How can I get over myself and start enjoying others pleasure more?
I feel like it would be unfair to expect someone to give us oral, but I/we don't give any back... So that makes me feel that pressure of getting into it... But how?!? Why? Just to be fair? To be unselfish.....?
I don't want it to be like this.....
How would it be playing with others..? When I don't really WANT to do anything past touching them, and having them pleasure me...
How can I get over myself and start enjoying others pleasure more?
I feel like it would be unfair to expect someone to give us oral, but I/we don't give any back... So that makes me feel that pressure of getting into it... But how?!? Why? Just to be fair? To be unselfish.....?
I don't want it to be like this.....
Based on what Olga says it all mental and she must be right. She can cum while giving a blow job. She thinks about having one of her best organisms while giving a blow job. Active participation and good foreplay are the doorway for sexual excitement for some. Others just get turned on by getting naked. Perhaps questioning your motive interferes with your enjoyment. Hopefully not being concerned about it and telling someone what you want and letting them tell you what they want will help.
Do you feel the same way about going down and pleasuring women as you do men?
You are here to fulfill your fantasy and that is whats important, the only thing we would see wrong with your deal is if you kept it to your self untill after you received what you wanted and then said thanks and see ya.
If you share how you feel and explain it to someone and gave them tthe chance to walk away then its not a problem.I would venture to say that a few people on here would still love a chance to fulfill your desires even if it left them with little or no reciprocation from you. But up front communications in the most important part. Just our .02
If you share how you feel and explain it to someone and gave them tthe chance to walk away then its not a problem.I would venture to say that a few people on here would still love a chance to fulfill your desires even if it left them with little or no reciprocation from you. But up front communications in the most important part. Just our .02
Yup, just tell 'em aHEAD of time, "Just a HEADs up, you aren't getting any HEAD." 
Hey, there is absolutely nothing "wrong" with you. You like what you like, and there is absolutely no reason to stress over not liking what other people like, not even if it seems like it's something that 98% of everyone else loves doing. What you're really SUPPOSED to be doing is whatever you like doing, as long as whatever that is doesn't harm someone else. ~ Terry
Thank you for sharing this Norwenglish. It is interesting to hear. I must make an odd personal confession. I do not love receiving oral. I like it ok, and if the person is really good at it, I like it a lot. But I am not sure why, but I have not found a lot of women who are amazing at it. And that is just fine. As a result, I much prefer giving a woman oral pleasure than receiving it. Instead, I tend to prefer intercourse rather than receiving oral. The honest reason for this is teeth. Lol. I do not like feeling teeth on my penis. And I am yet to find a woman who has teeth in her vagina. So I prefer intercourse to receiving oral sex. Lol. So I think we all have our likes and our dislikes. You are not weird and nothing is wrong with you. Like they said being up front is probably the best policy... I know for myself if you told me that you did not like something, I would never want to have you or any woman feel like she had to return the favor if doing so meant she was not going to enjoy herself. Those are my thoughts on the matter. I hope this helps.
As long as you are honest up front with your potential partners and they know ahead of time what they can or cannot expect from you, it is their choice whether or not to engage in sexual activities with you. If they agree, then they must be okay with it and all is good.
Again blah with no interest ...lol
X2 fitnerd, I'd rather please than be pleased, but love it when a women enjoys doing it.