Hi we are looking to get into the lifestyle! everyone keeps flaking on us! but lets talk! we are mostly looking for people near our age but everyone feel free to message us! we are becoming anxious!
Welcome to the lifestyle and as always remember the following:
Anyone, including yourself, may say no at anytime, for any reason, without further explanation. If you're in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say so no but be polite, do not ruin your night. Never jeopardize your relationship, or the fun to be had with the life-style and never even consider doing anything against your will.
Do not submit to guilt or pressure. Swinging is meant to be fun. Keep it that way. Flirting is also fun, and if that's all you want to do, that's fine. Most importantly, be honest, and be up front about what you're into, your likes and dislikes. This should avoid any and all misunderstandings.
Mr. Uplift
Anyone, including yourself, may say no at anytime, for any reason, without further explanation. If you're in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say so no but be polite, do not ruin your night. Never jeopardize your relationship, or the fun to be had with the life-style and never even consider doing anything against your will.
Do not submit to guilt or pressure. Swinging is meant to be fun. Keep it that way. Flirting is also fun, and if that's all you want to do, that's fine. Most importantly, be honest, and be up front about what you're into, your likes and dislikes. This should avoid any and all misunderstandings.
Mr. Uplift
Welcome to the life style. Hope you find whatever your looking for. It's fun and great and it's what you make of it so welcome.
Welcome domsubcouple801 both of us know exactly how you feel
Welcome to the lifestyle. You will find a lot of good people, don't let the flakes get you down.
Welcome, all the of the advice given is great. Also remember that this is just like everything else in life. You will only get out of this what you put into it. Go to meet and greets, the Black Ring Society, Sinfuo Saturdays are both great groups and if they don't suit your fancy (im sure they will) there are others as well. Have a good time and remember that most of all, this is fun andent to make you stronger as a couple. Communicate always, be honest and respectful to all you come into contact with and each other. You'll love it!!
Welcome!! If you're a little patient and focus on just having fun you'll end up meeting some really great people 
Hello and welcome to both the lifestyle and this site. I hope you enjoy it here and find what you are seeking!
Welcome to the site and welcome to the lifestyle!! As I am sure you have already read here, just be patient and good things will come. Keep in mind, that you need to find the right couple (or single, if that is what you are looking for) that fits what you guys want. The last thing you need is to be in a hurry to "break your cherry" and have it result in a bad experience that sours your desire to continue in the lifestyle. One of the best ways to get to know people on this site is to get out from behind the computer and go to a Meet & Greet, or other social event, so you can meet people face to face and get a better sense of whether or not they are going to be a good fit for you.
Welcome to the life style and this site... It is slow to get into it full swing but well worth the time and effort. There are some amazing couples and just people in general on this site. The meet and greets are a great place to start. What exactly are you looking for in the life style ?
Welcome! Just keep at it. There are lots of great fun couples here and some amazing singles;male and female.
There are flakes out there too, we had that frustration when we first got in the lifestyle, but eventually we found some very fun people to play with.
There are flakes out there too, we had that frustration when we first got in the lifestyle, but eventually we found some very fun people to play with.
Welcome to swingular!!! When your new some times it can be frustrating meeting new people and lots of people will come and go but we recommend to just keep your head up. A great way to meet lots of fun couple is to attended some of the party's and meet and greets. Sinful Saturday, Thirsty Thursday or bowling meet and greet are great event to start off attending. Hope to see you guys around
Thanks for all the great tips and info! We are excited got quite a few messages to go through together so hopefully we at least find a few people we click with! 
Apologies to anyone if we are taking a little longer to reply than usual
Still getting used to it.. When and where are the events? How can I stay updated on them?
Apologies to anyone if we are taking a little longer to reply than usual
Still getting used to it.
. When and where are the events? How can I stay updated on them?DOMSUBCOUPLE801 wrote:
Thanks for all the great tips and info! We are excited got quite a few messages to go through together so hopefully we at least find a few people we click with!
Apologies to anyone if we are taking a little longer to reply than usual
Still getting used to it.
The events section on the main page and the local party section is where you will find most of the event information
You might want to try the chat room. And meet & greets. But stay away from Single Males. And also people without pics. People without pics are automatically evil.
JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:
You might want to try the chat room. And meet & greets. But stay away from Single Males. And also people without pics. People without pics are automatically evil.
So are single males
What's wrong with single males...
MATTYB335 wrote:
What's wrong with single males...
No boobs.
Well our impression and experience with most every couple we have met or chatted with that is somewhere around your age is that they are very open and friendly minded. They are very open and friendly communicators and looking at the bright side of life, love, sex and individuality. Just relax as best you can and seize the day when opportunity knocks and you two will most probably be greeted with open and friendly arms. Have so much fun you amaze yourselves and know you deserve it!
We get flaked on all the time, not much you can do about it. We aren't new but not seasoned vets either so we are still learning how this all works too. Check out a party like the eat drink and bowl, awesome people. Good luck.
Why is a single male saying stay away from single males????
Don't stay away from single males...we all aren't bad (even though we don't have boobs)
You look like an attractive and fun couple, I am sure you will have the lick of this in no time
welcome we are in the same boat and we too are still looking for that one couple or couples to hang with but we live in Syracuse so it's been more of a travel to find people and as far as flakes go sorry it happens more often than you want...
OSTAR21 wrote:
Why is a single male saying stay away from single males????
Perhaps you missed that he was being facetious? Can only Evil get away with that? Is there no end to the madness?
We have been really lucky I guess. We haven't had any flakes. That being said... just because we all met did not mean we were all compatible.
Welcome guys!! There's a lot of really awesome people on here that are super friendly and offer great advice and experience. Hopefully we will all have a wonderful experience and meet some really fun people!
I've been in the lifestyle for a few years but limited I find that most don't want to chat or meet to even see if we click. not sure why that is here in Utah, unlike KC area. what am I doing wrong? just a question.
Welcome welcome!!!! Be sure to play with naughty freaks like us on occasion! Sometimes it's good to just meet up with a couple that you know wants to just fuck!!!
Exactly WHAT is she licking off your finger, KINKYHARD? Beluga caviar? Creme fraiche? Vegemite?
Some of us are looking for single males. They get a bad rap in the lifestyle sometimes.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Exactly WHAT is she licking off your finger, KINKYHARD? Beluga caviar? Creme fraiche? Vegemite?
Maybe mascarpone?
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
Exactly WHAT is she licking off your finger, KINKYHARD? Beluga caviar? Creme fraiche? Vegemite?
Maybe mascarpone?
Maybe tapioca pudding?