I have been in the lifestyle for 15 years. Started with a girlfriend of mine, I have met a handful of single males that I have stayed in contact with and have FWB relationships with in the past. Now move to tonight, I think between getting a picture of some guys balls and a cock pic after I sent a face pic that means I have let you a bit into my world and space, seems a bit cheap.
I have him as a friend on here. Well, not for long. Whatever happened to respect in this lifestyle? A face pic for a face pic, pussy for a dick pic, etc people. I have met and had encounters with guys who stay in touch to play again; then again I have the ones that are fine for a booty call. I just want to know that there are some people that have respect for others, because I am not seeing enough of it. I reply to everyone that messages me, unless you did not read my profile (50 & older...sorry, mates. It's on my profile. Don't have daddy issues).
I'm not a Barbie/Ken chaser but if a picture of your cock is all you got...I feel sorry for you in this lifestyle. If you can't use it or show respect for a single female/couple...then you need to start reading the home pages more. "Single males". I know I am going to get an uproar of Single men saying they are respective. The ones that have sent the pictures of them nude or just their cocks...well, they know who they are. Show some respect, that's one reason couples or single women don't reply. Someone had to say it, might as well be me tonight.
I have him as a friend on here. Well, not for long. Whatever happened to respect in this lifestyle? A face pic for a face pic, pussy for a dick pic, etc people. I have met and had encounters with guys who stay in touch to play again; then again I have the ones that are fine for a booty call. I just want to know that there are some people that have respect for others, because I am not seeing enough of it. I reply to everyone that messages me, unless you did not read my profile (50 & older...sorry, mates. It's on my profile. Don't have daddy issues).
I'm not a Barbie/Ken chaser but if a picture of your cock is all you got...I feel sorry for you in this lifestyle. If you can't use it or show respect for a single female/couple...then you need to start reading the home pages more. "Single males". I know I am going to get an uproar of Single men saying they are respective. The ones that have sent the pictures of them nude or just their cocks...well, they know who they are. Show some respect, that's one reason couples or single women don't reply. Someone had to say it, might as well be me tonight.
Well as tacky as is may seem to promote myself in my head I am a decent guy. I am not pushy and I only contact women on here once and wait for a reply before going futher. Also I know to only email women or couples who say the are looking for single men. I do have nude pics but I keep them in my private album, seems to make sense to keep the privates in the private. All photos in my main album are face pics. Would love to meet woman on here and have fun but can fully accept the rareness of that happening.
Men are also not mind readers. If you want a face pic ask for a face pic; when you send a face pic it's you saying, "This is a personal thing I share w/ you hoping for your approval."; to them their cock and balls are also personal and they share pics of them hoping for your approval.
Now, if you asked for a face pic and they reply w/ anything but a face pic w/o explanation, they've saved you the trouble of figuring out whether they're jerkfaces. What a timesaver!
Respect them by being clear in your wants. There may be traditions or understandings in the LS but I see most of the younger single people simply haven't been in the LS for long at all. And even if they took the time to read the typo-ridden Wikis on the homepage it doesn't mean they remember every bit of it.
There are fantastic single guys on here; and they appreciate clear communication as much as anyone does. Respectful goes both ways when it's understood we're all equals.
Now, if you asked for a face pic and they reply w/ anything but a face pic w/o explanation, they've saved you the trouble of figuring out whether they're jerkfaces. What a timesaver!
Respect them by being clear in your wants. There may be traditions or understandings in the LS but I see most of the younger single people simply haven't been in the LS for long at all. And even if they took the time to read the typo-ridden Wikis on the homepage it doesn't mean they remember every bit of it.
There are fantastic single guys on here; and they appreciate clear communication as much as anyone does. Respectful goes both ways when it's understood we're all equals.
Could have been worse NIKITA. He could have sent you a pic of him wearing his garments...or stroking his weenus, in said dick pic, wearing his wedding ring. And we're all quite relieved that you don't have daddy issues.
EVILDOERS wrote:I would fucking LOVE IT if the married guys made a point of wearing a wedding band in their pictures; can't even tell you the amount of headaches that would save me in the long run.
Could have been worse NIKITA. He could have sent you a pic of him wearing his garments...or stroking his weenus, in said dick pic, wearing his wedding ring. And we're all quite relieved that you don't have daddy issues.
Look, I appreciate there's a romantic idea that people should innately know what they're to do when communicating w/ the 'right' people so it works out as Fate or some other BS unseen force intends. That's not real life. We live in meatspace where we have to use our honest words w/ clear intentions and then figure things out as we go lie everyone else. There's no shortcuts through this struggle or we wouldn't still need sites like these thousands of years after the introduction of movable type.
Meatspace? Then where do the vegans live? 
EVILDOERS wrote:
Meatspace? Then where do the vegans live?
Down here in Las Vegan?
GOODFUN2 wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
Meatspace? Then where do the vegans live?
Down here in Las Vegan?
Home of the 'All You Can Stuff Into Your Colon Meat Buffet'? Tell me again which hotel has an all vegan cuisine? Oh wait, Sam's Town is vegan, right?
P.S No animals were harmed in the typing of this post.
And no, I'm not vegan.
When Ms. Evil gets an email/IM that says that she'll usually respond with a reply something along the lines of "Sweet! And I want to ass rape you with the largest strap on that Dr. John's sells. What time do you want to meet?" More often than not that seems to stop any further communication for some strange reason.
As for my 2 bits I do not seek out women to message as well most real gentlemen do not. Instead and rather I wait for time and context as that is what a gentleman does.
I do not have any genital pics in my profile (as you may check out to find out) and do not send any pics unless directly requested and verified that the request is real. As well, I do not send those pictures unless I have met the lady in person. For me that is important as I do not feel that anyone should view me unless I like them that way in return, which I can only find out in person.
I do hope some of the real gentlemen here do post as well (Single males I am talking about of course) and not the pretenders who say they are and then their actions prove otherwise.
At the end of the day, it is the actions not the words that hold out as to whether you are what you say you are or whether you are false.
I do not have any genital pics in my profile (as you may check out to find out) and do not send any pics unless directly requested and verified that the request is real. As well, I do not send those pictures unless I have met the lady in person. For me that is important as I do not feel that anyone should view me unless I like them that way in return, which I can only find out in person.
I do hope some of the real gentlemen here do post as well (Single males I am talking about of course) and not the pretenders who say they are and then their actions prove otherwise.
At the end of the day, it is the actions not the words that hold out as to whether you are what you say you are or whether you are false.
CHEFFETTE wrote:
Men are also not mind readers. If you want a face pic ask for a face pic; when you send a face pic it's you saying, "This is a personal thing I share w/ you hoping for your approval."; to them their cock and balls are also personal and they share pics of them hoping for your approval.
Now, if you asked for a face pic and they reply w/ anything but a face pic w/o explanation, they've saved you the trouble of figuring out whether they're jerkfaces. What a timesaver!
Respect them by being clear in your wants. There may be traditions or understandings in the LS but I see most of the younger single people simply haven't been in the LS for long at all. And even if they took the time to read the typo-ridden Wikis on the homepage it doesn't mean they remember every bit of it.
There are fantastic single guys on here; and they appreciate clear communication as much as anyone does. Respectful goes both ways when it's understood we're all equals.
I have to reference this as well. One of the reasons I never message directly unless there is context for it, is exactly as above. I am not a mind reader and as well I do not wish to bother or harass. If I am wanted then I will say hello if I am unwanted then I will stay away.
There are some very nice and respectful men out there to meet but it seems about every generation it gets a little bit less, and remember just because a man gets a women to say I do.not a gentleman of him will it maketh of he.lol A married man has a women to kick him in the knee when he is out of line and she will try and keep his some what polished. But I do know a few women that are the crazy one at the party if you know what I meen, so how well would she polish a man.
around the flowers the weeds do grow.
around the flowers the weeds do grow.
Swinging like life is like a box of raisin. You must sift thru the flakes to find the goodies. And every year they put fewer goodies in the box.
There may indeed be a time and a place for sending a dick pic but it seems to us like in our instant gratification, Snapchat society a lot of the niceties have been exchanged for superficial Tinder-esque interactions. The art of verbal foreplay, flirting, and...well let's just admit it, forming a cogent sentence is seemingly lost to the "Hey baby, let's fuck." hookup culture. Don't get me wrong, sometimes in this busy crazy world all one has time for is a quick dtf booty call but I would argue that we're missing out on half the fun.
If a guy or girl doesn't engage us at least a little bit intellectually beforehand they will not be engaging us physically later. It's just the way we're wired. Especially Mr. Evil. Show us your sparkling wit and verbal repartee' however, and watch our collective panties/boxer briefs drop like the proverbial naturally occurring solid aggregate of one or more minerals or mineraloids.
If a guy or girl doesn't engage us at least a little bit intellectually beforehand they will not be engaging us physically later. It's just the way we're wired. Especially Mr. Evil. Show us your sparkling wit and verbal repartee' however, and watch our collective panties/boxer briefs drop like the proverbial naturally occurring solid aggregate of one or more minerals or mineraloids.
Is it every Spring when we revisit this issue again? Funny how quickly a year goes by....
I always use this to know that it's time to fertilize the lawn.
I always use this to know that it's time to fertilize the lawn.
UTAHBADBOY wrote:
Is it every Spring when we revisit this issue again, funny how quickly a year goes by....
Hmmmm, I wonder WHY this is a recurring theme? I blame global warming, high fructose corn syrup and an insidious plot by Muslim extremists to prevent single guys from getting their fair and equitable share of NSA (no, not National Security Agency) sex.
