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Who has a slut and who wants a slut? Define slut. I can but I want to know your definition of a slut.
For me it's just a horny girl that loves sex (says mr glen). Yes a do have a slut and I love her very much. New sluts are always welcome to join in the fun. I am not sure what her definition is however.
If a redneck is "a glorious absence of sophistication" then a Slut should demonstrate "a glorious absence of inhibition"
I have a slut, and basically she loves to have sex with a variety of people, she loves to give herself to all kinds of pleasure
For a guy a slut is a chick who fucks everyone. A bitch is a chick that fucks everyone but him.
BCK wrote:

I do not have myself a slut unfortunately. I would not mind having myself a slut. I prefer to provide my definition in personal message, if that is alright with you?


I would love a personal message as to your definition of a slut. And yes everyone should have one or more sluts to entertain. This is the place to find one I would think.
PUMPKINPIE500 wrote:

For a guy a slut is a chick who fucks everyone. A bitch is a chick that fucks everyone but him.
Well I can tell you from personal experience in no way it this lady a bitch to anyone for any reason, now what kind of slut she is if your really really LUCKY you might find out, I have HAHA
Hey there, I have a slut, in a very good way. She is not the slut as in definition but in fun she is. She and I love to have fun. She loves to get out and have fun as a couple and we love her being "slutty". She loves to be a "slut" in many fun ways. She is a good and submissive slut.
I would define "Slut" as a person who enjoys sex and eagerly pursues it. Not to be confused with "Whore", a person who only engages in sexual activity if he/she sees some ulterior gain, e.g. money, catching a mate/date, status, entrance to a concert, free night on the town, etc.

Most men I know would define themselves as sluts, enjoying and pursuing sexual pleasure, because they enjoy it. I would think highly of any woman who, using the above criteria, would classify herself as a slut.
Here's an opinion of a slut. My main focus is to satisfy his needs. To provide him what ever is asked of me with an unwavering trust. And he inturn satiates my never ending hunger.
Ryche2882 you are a hot slut.
I think we're gettin' slut and sub mixed up a little bit here.
CURIOUS_KITTEN71 wrote:

Here's an opinion of a slut. My main focus is to satisfy his needs. To provide him what ever is asked of me with an unwavering trust. And he inturn satiates my never ending hunger.



Curious Kitten nailed it!
Virani: love your def: If a redneck is "a glorious absence of sophistication" then a Slut should demonstrate "a glorious absence of inhibition"
and another thumbs up for curious_kitten71
To provide him what ever is asked of me with an unwavering trust. And he inturn satiates my never ending hunger.
CURIOUS_KITTEN71 wrote:

Here's an opinion of a slut. My main focus is to satisfy his needs. To provide him what ever is asked of me with an unwavering trust. And he inturn satiates my never ending hunger.
Yup that is the slut of this post I know but you shouldn't have told her she provides everything I ask and go to her head and take mine away.
EVILDOERS wrote:

I think we're gettin' slut and sub mixed up a little bit here.
No No don't tell her about the sub part she hasen't figured that part out yet. Someone stop this post.
Admittedly yes, I do whatever my guys want me to do. Whether that makes me a sub or a slut, or even a little of both, for me the point is irrelevant. I have fun doing that and I am a totally free agent to do whatever with whomever I please. I recently had someone make a poor attempt at an insult by telling me to go suck a dick. Like that's a bad thing?
OK girl it's time to tell you what kind of SLUT you really are since you gave yourself to me as my personal slut and no one else.

SLUT (last time I ever call you that or you can do that kicking thing on me one night and get away with it)

You have turned into a close friend and during our time together grew and learned a lot. You are now your own person that someday will meet some lucky guy that will get more than he could ask for and you will make sure you get your needs when you take that chance. No one will ever take advantage of you again. Sorry it took so long to tell you and don't be mad at me or scared. I am not going anywhere you know how to find me if you EVER need me.

So if you don't throw me out what do we do now. Umm how about being a tease, you wanna find out what one is with me? XOXOXOXOXO

Now erase your profile and think of me. Tell me who you are and and what your interested in. It doesn't matter if FWB, fuck buddie, long term or something MORE. I DON'T KNOW don't work now be the person you are....
Different strokes......I would never think of her as a slut and would expect to have my face slapped if I referred to her as one. I would not want to spend time with somebody that I considered to be a slut either.

Personally it is one of those words that I find repulsive. I also prefer to open doors for ladies and pull the chair out for them.

Like I said........different strokes
POUNDCAKE wrote:

Different strokes......I would never think of her as a slut and would expect to have my face slapped if I referred to her as one. I would not want to spend time with somebody that I considered to be a slut either.

Personally it is one of those words that I find repulsive. I also prefer to open doors for ladies and pull the chair out for them.

Like I said........different strokes


Agreed, very well said!
Oh i have one
Aren't sluts women who want to fuck a lot but also want free birth control? That's what I heard some old guy on the radio say anyway.
EVILDOERS wrote:

Aren't sluts women who want to fuck a lot but also want free birth control? That's what I heard some old guy on the radio say anyway.
Look, Garrison Keillor hasn't been himself for a little while, best not to take anything he says too seriously.*

Unless it's brought to you by the Ketchup Board or Powdermilk Biscuits.
Is that his name? Wasn't sure since I don't really listen to the radio. He seems like such a calm rational guy, that's for sure. I don't know what he looks like (he's on the radio, duh!) but judging by his voice I'd say he looks like a cross between Rosie O'Donnell...if she was bitten by a rabid zombie wildebeest, Steve Buscemi after a year or two of really intense chemotherapy and a rotting walrus carcass I saw on the beach one time. Am I close? What does he look like? And is he a manslut?


That was mean. I'm sure he's extremely fit and attractive and would make a wonderful addition to any orgy, bukkake or gang bang. In fact I'll bet he looks like a slightly older Channing Tatum? But I'll still bet he's a total manslut.
Hey a man slut sounds good what is it?
I am slutty in the bedroom but am discrete about it with the world. I love sex and enjoy it. Now if only people understood why so many people loved it as much as I do.
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:

Hey a man slut sounds good what is it?


I thought most men were sluts.....wanting to do it with anybody, anytime and anywhere.
Yup. Most men are sluts. Always ready and willing to have sex, and usually with anyone who isn't in some way disgusting. The funny thing about it, though, is that it's perfectly OK for men to be sluts, but if a girl is a slut, in the vanilla world at least, she's also seen as a whore and other bad things. In fact, in that world slut is a dirty word when applied to a girl. And, to a lesser extent, it even happens in the swing world. A fair amount of people (not everyone, thankfully) see something wrong with a girl, either single or one who is married and who plays alone, going to events or parties and screwing different men all the time. Honestly, I just don't get it. If it's always OK for us men, why the Hell isn't it always OK for girls?

And another thing. Lots of men, especially in the vanilla world, dream of meeting a slut, but would never have an actual relationship with one. What the Fuck?
CHEFFETTE wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

Aren't sluts women who want to fuck a lot but also want free birth control? That's what I heard some old guy on the radio say anyway.
Look, Garrison Keillor hasn't been himself for a little while, best not to take anything he says too seriously.*

Unless it's brought to you by the Ketchup Board or Powdermilk Biscuits.


I've wondered for years if powdermilk buscuits were a real thing.. But somehow I've never tried checking on it, as simple as it would be. Maybe 'cause I think I'd be terrribly disappointed to find a Wiki description saying powdermilk buscuite were a Prarie Home Companion invention, just like the Ketchup Board.
TMACA wrote:

Yup. Most men are sluts. Always ready and willing to have sex, and usually with anyone who isn't in some way disgusting. The funny thing about it, though, is that it's perfectly OK for men to be sluts, but if a girl is a slut, in the vanilla world at least, she's also seen as a whore and other bad things. In fact, in that world slut is a dirty word when applied to a girl. And, to a lesser extent, it even happens in the swing world. A fair amount of people (not everyone, thankfully) see something wrong with a girl, either single or one who is married and who plays alone, going to events or parties and screwing different men all the time. Honestly, I just don't get it. If it's always OK for us men, why the Hell isn't it always OK for girls?

And another thing. Lots of men, especially in the vanilla world, dream of meeting a slut, but would never have an actual relationship with one. What the Fuck?
B/c a slut is a woman who enjoys sex for her own reasons instead of hating sex for 'natural' and 'good (religious)' reasons unless it's part of her wifely duties; so she's less than a woman person and more of a thing. It's ok to be bad to a thing, you see. It's not a person. That's why mainstream thinking says the assault and murder of prostitutes isn't considered a priority to prevent or prosecute; they're not people, like taxpayers are, they're easy-pussy delivery devices.
I agree with Cheffette. A slut is a woman (And a man, lets be honest here) who has their own reasons for sex and wishes to pursue it as often or freely as she wishes.

With that said, I do not currently have a slut, and being new to this site (but not new to the lifestyle) I am still in the process of finding one.
I don't believe for a MINUTE that prostitutes aren't people. The SCOTUS said that "corporation are people too, my friend", and most of them are the biggest whores on the planet. And I know for a fact that a lot of them don't pay taxes. 'Specially the ones with "Church of..." in their company names. Wait, what were we talking about?
SKICOUPLE wrote:

UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:

Hey a man slut sounds good what is it?


I thought most men were sluts.....wanting to do it with anybody, anytime and anywhere.

Ya wife agrees, so is that bad or good? She said we don't care as long as we get some.
She is a good person then UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY a very good person indeed.
Then maybe they should pay taxes as "Persons" ?
BCK wrote:

Corporations are 'Persons', not people.. two entirely different terminologies in law..
[quote=BCK]Corporations are 'Persons', not people.. two entirely different terminologies in law..[/quote

My bad. Blame Mitt. I just get all flustered when I'm around him and see his jaunty good looks and eternally dark hair with just a hint of distinguished grey at the temples. That yummy hunk of man flesh could even turn Putin gay. Oh wait....

http://www.quickmeme.com/img/e5/e519f3b0adb4baccaa58871d7985130fb55156f904a04b332e0cff58ad77bb7b.jpg
LAURAN wrote:

She is a good person then UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY a very good person indeed.
Maybe you might find out.
I may, I do still need to meet people from here. Just wish that the system would accept my CC so I could get full access.