Does anyone have any advice for how to throw a successful event? Bonus points if it will work even with the handicaps expressed below.
I am from California originally, although living in Salt Lake atm. I have a friend from my hometown that has expressed tentative interest in trying an orgy. I'm planning to visit over the summer and was hoping to meet some lifestyle friends in California anyway, so I offered to potentially plan one.
Besides all the usual problems with event planning, I don't even know anyone in the scene around there, and won't be in the area we would like to plan this until a week or two before when we would like to make it happen.
I am from California originally, although living in Salt Lake atm. I have a friend from my hometown that has expressed tentative interest in trying an orgy. I'm planning to visit over the summer and was hoping to meet some lifestyle friends in California anyway, so I offered to potentially plan one.
Besides all the usual problems with event planning, I don't even know anyone in the scene around there, and won't be in the area we would like to plan this until a week or two before when we would like to make it happen.
First, where? A private home, some rented space, a hotel where everyone would have to rent a room? Where in CA? There are a lot of things, including what could be called sex clubs, in some areas, like Riverside County. Where it will be sort of controls a lot of the aspects of planning.
No mattter where it will be, best would probably to post an event on an adult site that has quite a few members in the area where the event will be. Unfortunately, I don't know which to use. If it was Utah, or maybe even Florida, I'd suggest here..
No mattter where it will be, best would probably to post an event on an adult site that has quite a few members in the area where the event will be. Unfortunately, I don't know which to use. If it was Utah, or maybe even Florida, I'd suggest here..
Look up Lifestyle Lounge. It's the top Swingers site in CA, especially SoCal.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
Leave it to people that know how and join there. Help them if you get a chance.
Or learn how and do it yourself but plan on working your ass off and probably a stressful night. The people who do it get overlooked and deserve more credit.
Or learn how and do it yourself but plan on working your ass off and probably a stressful night. The people who do it get overlooked and deserve more credit.
Don't forget that a lot of people who go so far as to RSVP may still not arrive- don't take it personally
Also, the more of your own money you invest in party planning, the more work/ stress you create for yourself.
Also, the more of your own money you invest in party planning, the more work/ stress you create for yourself.