So we just got a friend request from a late-30s couple. Him straight, her bi-curious. But... They're over 1,000 miles away (in Texas), they have NO pics, public or private, they have a Gold membership and have been on the site 3 1/2 years but have never been verified by anyone. Am I being paranoid, or is this just a (not terribly smart) single male picture collector? ~ Terry
- 1,000 miles away... Ignore them.
- Not Verified... Ignore them.
- No photos of themselves... Ignore them.
Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.
- Not Verified... Ignore them.
- No photos of themselves... Ignore them.
Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.
BMSHELL wrote:
- 1,000 miles away... Ignore them.
- Not Verified... Ignore them.
- No photos of themselves... Ignore them.
Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.
Bingo!!!
We have been getting several requests from what sounds like the same person and we just delete the request. However it's become more and more frequent so we will block them next time.
UTHEDOCPL wrote:
We have been getting several requests from what sounds like the same person and we just delete the request. However it's become more and more frequent so we will block them next time.
Yeah, we've been getting friends requests from people in other states with no pictures and no message. We just delete.
Yes, you are being paranoid, this is a totally legit request. You should immediately email them including multiple full frontal nude pics in various sexually explicit poses. "CC" us and we'll confirm that you've included pics that are explicit enough.
We travel all over the USA, Canada, and Mexico. We make friend requests for couples all over the continental USA. Some answer, some don't. We have pictures on our profile and we answer all messages sent to us. Are we worthy of your friendship? I guess we'll see.
OBXLOVERS4U wrote:
We travel all over the USA, Canada, and Mexico. We make friend requests for couples all over the continental USA. Some answer, some don't. We have pictures on our profile and we answer all messages sent to us. Are we worthy of your friendship? I guess we'll see.
If you preface it with a note, probably. If you send a blind request... nope!!!
Sounds like one we'd ignore for sure...yep. But we ignore all that have no pics. There is no reason for a friend request if not to share personal info, they can access everything else without one. We don't care for the onesided exchange. We also ignore most that send blind requests, unless they appear to be someone we actually might enjoy meeting. In that case a note is usually sent stating that. No reply? Friend request deleted. As for distance, I guess we always hope we might be able to meet someone when they travel..or we do. That might be a pipedream...never happened, yet.
Sounds like one we'd ignore for sure...yep. But we ignore all that have no pics. There is no reason for a friend request if not to share personal info, they can access everything else without one. We don't care for the onesided exchange. We also ignore most that send blind requests, unless they appear to be someone we actually might enjoy meeting. In that case a note is usually sent stating that. No reply? Friend request deleted. As for distance, I guess we always hope we might be able to meet someone when they travel..or we do. That might be a pipedream...never happened, yet.
I'm with TIFF. Why in the FUCK would we respond to a friend request from someone with ZERO pics of themselves much less living so far away that ever meeting would be extremely unlikely?
Hmmmm lemme see; I okay their FR...they get to see our naughty bits (and more importantly faces) and we get WHAT exactly? Not saying everything has to be tit for tat with us but seriously, what the fuck do you want or need to see us for unless you want to jerk it to our pics or worse steal them and do who knows what with them. I'd almost rather send my checking account number to that Nigerian prince dude.
It's bad enough when we get FR's from locals who have a total of 3 blurred thumbnail sized pics that we can barely tell are human beings and seemingly nothing in common with us or WORSE send us an intro email that sounds like they spammed it out to the entire site.
Throw us a fucking bone here. Give us SOMETHING to go on that might indicate that we might have a few things in common...like we're both Geminis, both like Guinness and are both card carrying members of the communist party and getting ready to overthrow America by means of offering health care to people who don't have it.
Hmmmm lemme see; I okay their FR...they get to see our naughty bits (and more importantly faces) and we get WHAT exactly? Not saying everything has to be tit for tat with us but seriously, what the fuck do you want or need to see us for unless you want to jerk it to our pics or worse steal them and do who knows what with them. I'd almost rather send my checking account number to that Nigerian prince dude.
It's bad enough when we get FR's from locals who have a total of 3 blurred thumbnail sized pics that we can barely tell are human beings and seemingly nothing in common with us or WORSE send us an intro email that sounds like they spammed it out to the entire site.
Throw us a fucking bone here. Give us SOMETHING to go on that might indicate that we might have a few things in common...like we're both Geminis, both like Guinness and are both card carrying members of the communist party and getting ready to overthrow America by means of offering health care to people who don't have it.
We got the same friend request - Tx, no pics. An easy "no".
Sounds like everyone is getting the same request. He sent it to us 3 times in the last month or two. It was an easy "block" after that.
We get a request from a couple like that from florida and they send it about every 3 months, we replied asking what interest they had and got no answer, then a few months later got another friends request so figure pic collectors.
Do they travel to your area? Do they sound interesting when you chat? Will they send pics if you ask them to? Will they do a requested type of pose so that you know it is really them in the pictures?
It's not that hard to weed them out.
It's not that hard to weed them out.
We just leave them in the pending status so they can't add us again
MAPARTY wrote:
All blind requests are denied. If they don't bother reading our profile...fuck'em.
If we don't read your profile will you really fuck us? Done!!
Is the one people are getting from Texas Jason_R? (funny name for a couple)
We don't mind if it's from a long ways, people do travel, but this one seemed to have every possible red flag waving. I just denied it, and sent a note explaining why. Be interesting to see if we get another from the same profile. ~ Terry
We don't mind if it's from a long ways, people do travel, but this one seemed to have every possible red flag waving. I just denied it, and sent a note explaining why. Be interesting to see if we get another from the same profile. ~ Terry
we get random friend requests all the time. from people usually a long way away. it sounds like they need to boost their fake profile prevention processes on the site. we have been getting them for years. we always message them to be certain they arent just out on vacation or something but to me even then were not going to add you until we have met.
I don't know as there's much they could do to prevent fakes, really. Maybe if they could hire tons of staff or something, but then the price of using the site would have to go way up. ~ Terry
This, straight from our profile...
"We simply will not accept a blind friend request without so much as a "hi, we like to to drink too." seriously. We can only assume you are trolling for naked pictures and we probably won't respond. (Unless you are married to Megan Kelley or Scarlett Johansen...) Besides, doing so now makes it obvious you haven't REALLY even read our profile. So we'll make it easy for you, just cut and paste this into an email to send along with your friend request and it will all be good... "Hi, Mrs. ALLITTLETWIST has a nice ass. We would like to learn more about you and see whether or not Mr. ALITTLETWIST is a troll. Thanks"
"
And yet.. rarely a day goes by that we don't get a couple of BLIND FRIEND REQUESTS! People, please, read the fucking profile and quit shotgunning for naked pics! It's not that complicated!
"We simply will not accept a blind friend request without so much as a "hi, we like to to drink too." seriously. We can only assume you are trolling for naked pictures and we probably won't respond. (Unless you are married to Megan Kelley or Scarlett Johansen...) Besides, doing so now makes it obvious you haven't REALLY even read our profile. So we'll make it easy for you, just cut and paste this into an email to send along with your friend request and it will all be good... "Hi, Mrs. ALLITTLETWIST has a nice ass. We would like to learn more about you and see whether or not Mr. ALITTLETWIST is a troll. Thanks"
"And yet.. rarely a day goes by that we don't get a couple of BLIND FRIEND REQUESTS! People, please, read the fucking profile and quit shotgunning for naked pics! It's not that complicated!
Nope Just Plain Paranoid! If they don't Have Pic's "Shoot The Bastards"! If they send Blind Friend requests "Shoot The Bastards" If they are way far away with no intent to visit "Shoot The Bastards" Single Males who shot gun everyone's Email "Shoot The Bastards"
Yes it is form Jason_R and the minute we refuse it we get a new one the next day so member blocked.
We had the same request. Asked for more information and no reply. Deleted the bastard.
We had the same request. Asked for more information and no reply. Deleted the bastard.
Well, it seems it IS probably a single male, and a pretty dumb one at that. Blind request, Username that sounds like just a guy, NO pics, over 1,000 miles away, and others have gotten the same from the same profile. At least most single guys pretending to be a couple make some kind of an attempt to hide it.
If we get another one from him, we'll just block him. ~ Terry
If we get another one from him, we'll just block him. ~ Terry
As a couple that hold residency in two states, and at our age have the flexibility to travel, we do not find this strange. We are primarily a east-coast couple, but do love our travel west to places such as Napa and Vegas. So LS couples feel free to put us on your friends lists.
We are not verified cause we can't get that special status but I assure you we are real. We did plan on attending the golf pro tennis hoe party but seems it's on easter fckin weekend and we have to travel to all the get togethers!! We awnsered all our profile have a ton of pics my face is on the public profile but we usally don't send friend requests cause we get shit about the verified status.
We also get the same requests from across the country and we do the same they go on the block list but not cause they are not verified but because I don't plan on being in Texas anytime soon. I know this response is kinda skittish but damnit I'm angry about all the paranoia. If somebody sees you on this site they are most likely doin the same thing as us awesome folk
Mr. Whooty
We also get the same requests from across the country and we do the same they go on the block list but not cause they are not verified but because I don't plan on being in Texas anytime soon. I know this response is kinda skittish but damnit I'm angry about all the paranoia. If somebody sees you on this site they are most likely doin the same thing as us awesome folk
Mr. Whooty