Has anyone ran into this issue with a single male Erectile dysfunction when you ask them to use a condom?
An if you have do you let them fuck you anyways with out the condom or say you will try another time?
An if you have do you let them fuck you anyways with out the condom or say you will try another time?
Oh man, that's an oldy but goody, right up there with "I can't feel you enough with a condom on to cum"
"I pity the fool that don't use a condom"
"I pity the fool that don't use a condom"We been getting that the last few times we bring a single guy around and just wondering if anyone else has been running into this issue.
Your probably using the wrong condom, normal condoms are designed for just 2 people, you need the specially designed 3sum condom when you invite a single male to join you.
Can only use one style of condom since most make me break out do to the Lubricant
It's not just the single males that have that problem...
CLASSIC, STOPHER29! I bow to your prowess! 
And in response to the OP...yeah just go ahead and let 'em fuck ya without a condom. I mean what's the worst that could happen? Oh yeah...that....
STOPHER29 wrote:"But when I wear a condom I can't feel anything!"
Oh man, that's an oldy but goody, right up there with "I can't feel you enough with a condom on to cum"
"Good, then we're even."
To the OP, what you have are guys who think a woman in a committed relationship is on birth control and only has sex w/ her husband, who in turn only has sex w/ her. They're fooling themselves b/c they really don't want to wear a condom.
Do not fuck these guys w/o a condom. I'd say don't fuck them at all after they have their little tantrum, even w/ a condom; but I'm one to burn a bridge and salt the earth when someone pulls that kind of switch in a situation of trust. You may not be.
Some guys just get stage fright; I think that's the biggest problem. Condom probably makes it worse, but condom use in the last 20 years has become so common that people should be used to it.
We had an unfortunate encounter with a guy who experienced it. Because we could see how badly he felt, we scheduled another meeting, and it happened to him again. That was embarrassing. No more make-ups for us.
We had an unfortunate encounter with a guy who experienced it. Because we could see how badly he felt, we scheduled another meeting, and it happened to him again. That was embarrassing. No more make-ups for us.
STOPHER29 wrote:
Oh man, that's an oldy but goody, right up there with "I can't feel you enough with a condom on to cum"
Yeah, well, that "can't feel" thing isn't always an excuse. Some people do have that problem, and I'm one of them, and it sure isn't stage fright. It's a nerve thing. But I figure that's my problem, not hers, so I don't even ever mention it, and use the condom anyway, even though I make sure I get tested regularly and know I'm STD/STI free, and I'll end up getting off anyway, after she does. Girls do have more things than just their vaginas to help a guy do that, after all. But ED because of a condom? That's either stage fright or an excuse not to use one. Either way, it's all in his head.
Having that sensitivity problem, I've done the research and the testing too, and the best, most sensitive, condom in the world (so far, anyway) is the Crown Skinless Skin. It's a latex condom that's thinner than any other condom. Unfortunately, absolutely nobody in Utah sells them, so you have to go online to get them. And no, they don't work either, for me, but, as I said, for me it isn't a big problem. Just use the condom, and the girl can use her hands after. Only you need to make sure she knows it's because of you that it's necessary, not because of her. And about those Crown SS Condoms, I've given them to some other people, and they all agree they're the closest they've ever had to using nothing. But they usually do need some extra lube. ~ Terry
Damned single guys! We don't even give 'em a choice. We immediately start a high dose Viagra drip in their arm and then put like TWO condoms on them. 
Always condom use since wife enjoys DVP but to find a single guy willing to preform long term relationship with the couple and that wont hit on the guy is hard to find. Our last long term male toy felt that we should find someone closer to hers and my age but was just wondering how often single males played that card or something like it.
Any gentleman who refuses to use a condom when it's requested is not a gentleman, in our opinion, and is not invited back to any of our house parties. The more common problem we see, with single men as sell as with the male half of our couples friends, is that the time spent fumbling around finding a condom, getting the little package open, trying to roll it on (and inevitably finding you've started it the wrong way ... all of that takes time, is distracting, and can be deflating for a man. But if the lady requesting use of a condom has one immediately at hand, and offers it to the gentleman with a flirty, seductive look, and says "Get dressed and join me, please," THAT should stiffen the resolve of any worthwhile gentleman.
Agree but its hard to find a gentleman these day, most looking for 1 night stand instead of a long term arrangement. An honesty to where we can trust, because our last male friend was with us 2 years to where he brought us a test after he hooked up with other couple on the web site since after awhile wife trusted him enough for bare back and he didn't want to lose that respect. but with his age he felt it would be better for her to find a more younger guy closer to her age since I'm 12 years older than her and age wasn't a issue. But attempting to find someone with the same respect as are last has became a challenge.