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So it's pretty much a given that a lot of guys (and more than a few girls) think redheaded ladies are HAWT! My question is why are ginger chicks sexy and ginger dudes not so much? I did an impromptu survey among Ms. Evil and a few of her friends and found pretty much a universal disdain for redheaded guys. So, ladies, would you DO a redheaded guy and if not, why not?

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LIVINITUP wrote:

There are a lot of double standards. Like guys liking girls with big squishy boobs and girls not liking guys with big squishy boobs. Somethings in life just aren't equal


Had to double that one down! How rude is that double standard!-lol
Well obviously the most obvious double standard in the lifestyle is bisexuality. But I just thought gingers needed some lovin' too. So which of you ladies wants ta bang Ed Sheeran?
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

EVILDOERS wrote:

Well obviously the most obvious double standard in the lifestyle is bisexuality. But I just thought gingers needed some lovin' too. So which of you ladies wants ta bang Ed Sheera


Doubtful the dude is in need of any pity puntang. Seems like he dates quite a few hotties already.


It's rumored he borrowed a step ladder and banged the bejesus (or maybe just Jesus) out of Taylor Swift.
I don't base anything off of hair color alone, but if I did that would be my prerogative. Every guy doesn't find me attractive and I don't find every guy attractive. Kind of a silly question it seems to me. Everyone has things that "do it" for them, if red hair doesn't do it for someone, so be it.

Mrs. DD
DDCPLE wrote:

I don't base anything off of hair color alone, but if I did that would be my prerogative. Every guy doesn't find me attractive and I don't find every guy attractive. Kind of a silly question it seems to me. Everyone has things that "do it" for them, if red hair doesn't do it for someone, so be it.

Mrs. DD


Obviously. My question was more to the point of why, in general, redheaded women are considered quite sexy and redheaded men are not. Seems a bit arbitrary to me. Wondered if perhaps it was something society or culture somehow imbued us with or if it was possibly innate in some way.
Learned on mixology that being into gingers is a fetish and they are called pumpkin eaters
FUCKCHASTITY wrote:

Learned on mixology that being into gingers is a fetish and they are called pumpkin eaters


Peter, Peter....
My hubby is a redhead. He doesn't seem to have a problem with people not being interested.....
Gee, folks, I think it's probably real simple. In the LS, no matter what you look at, be it hair color, body size, whatever, the girls ALWAYS have the advantage. ~ Terry
I've beeb into Eddie Redmayne for years and the ginger part works for me!
I've beeb into Eddie Redmayne for years and the ginger part works for me!