We have attended many parties, have played at some and have just been social at others. But why do you go? I had someone say to me at a party last night that when they go to a party they expect that everyone is there simply to fuck. Sometimes for us it is not about the sex or about the play but about meeting people to play with later. Establish a new friendship, etc. We took a friend to a meet and greet and she sat kind of in the corner but in a chair by a girl across from my husband. That girl had her hands all over our friend while mean mugging my husband (I was floating around socializing). Am I missing something? Are meet and greets and parties now for feeling up/fucking as many people as possible or are they for meeting and socializing? I have been out of the lifestyle for nine years and back for one. Have the rules changed? Do we not respect others personal space. Is it now "implied consent unless you say no" or is it still "ask before you touch"? Is this a general problem or am I just going to the wrong events? *Ten*
We go in hopes of meeting a nice couple and develop a friendship, no such luck yet