We've read the forums and other articles. We could use some tips from real people! What time to arrive? What to wear? What NOT to wear!? How to meet people? Questions to expect? Scenarios to expect? What NOT to do? How to approach couples we are interested in? etc.
If you ladies are hot, dress sexy and are talkative you should not have any problems meeting other hot couples. Do dance with your man, enjoy yourself, don't look bored, out of place or scared otherwise you'd fall prey to single men or ugly people. They'd chat you up and take up your time. Just you (hot girls) approach other hot girls in your "range" or younger ones just like you'd approach any other girl (I like your shoes! pretty outfit!) and that's it, spark a conversation, bring the men into it and ease into the play subject. Younger girls in their 20's really dig and enjoy the company older girls in their 30's and 40's. When my wife and I got into swinging our friends were always older than us. She was 22 and usually the "baby" of our group of friends. Now she is in her mid 30's and has a few girlfriends on their 20's. Remember ladies, you are even more gorgeous, nicer, smarter and sweeter than what you think you are. And what happens if there is not too much connection? Nothing, move on to the next one. Always smile and be positive 
Do stay away from single guys because they take up your time and attention by chatting you up and you will not be meeting other hot girls. Think of this as throwing a steak at a stray dog: he will follow you home.
Do stay away from single guys because they take up your time and attention by chatting you up and you will not be meeting other hot girls. Think of this as throwing a steak at a stray dog: he will follow you home.