Webcouple,
We must admit he is right. You do have a beautiful ass! lol
Mike & Denise
We must admit he is right. You do have a beautiful ass! lol
Mike & Denise
Bill does have a point in that it is a very nice ass. But then he made and ass of himself by not respecting your wishes. :-)
We do understand your frustration. If it helps, we are a COUPLE and would love to meet youuu :0)
OK...gotta agree with all...VERY nice ass...BUT even moreso, is the fact that this guy is not worth complaining about...He may just be Corky's (from 30 Something) twin brother...Hope this does not offend anyone who knows Corky...Anyway...He is just ignorant...EVer wonder why the single men are single? We entertain single men and state in the profile, "No Cock Shots...We knoe what they look like, stimulate our minds, and you may be allowed to stimulate her body"...either on this site or another...Yet we still get TONS of cock pics or no pics at all...We also state we do not do "blind dates"...OUr experience is that the single men you would want to entertain are the ones who do not write to you, but perhaps post in the forums and such, then you get to see where their mind is...Just our 2 cents...Uh Oh...gave our two cents too many times...Now we have no more change and we are coming up on a toll bridge...DAMMIT!!!!!!
Bill is an ASS, but he certainly has great taste!
Bill must have been busy looking at pictures last night, shame he does not spend a little time reading. We are only looking for couples on our profile also. It's a long ride on that Harley from Utah to St Louis.
Agree, you really do have a nice tail.
We get email from SMs fairly often. We politely ask them what was their favorite part of the profile. We've had a few apologize for contacting us. Others simply respond they didn't read the profile but want to meet (Oh, ok, so you're not taking the time to read the profile, and this ingratiates you to us how?). Those men are just too stupid to maintain homeostasis.
We get email from SMs fairly often. We politely ask them what was their favorite part of the profile. We've had a few apologize for contacting us. Others simply respond they didn't read the profile but want to meet (Oh, ok, so you're not taking the time to read the profile, and this ingratiates you to us how?). Those men are just too stupid to maintain homeostasis.
You do have a fantastic ass why is it all the good ones have to live so damn far away. Some single guys could care less what you put in your profile they will contact you hoping thier charm willmake you change your mind just delete the message they will go away.
hmmmm welll, i think most sites have a selection for block single males.? and, even if u do get mail from 1 just take the *&%$$ compliment and move on...some people! just think they are they gift to the world. come on get out of the limo and just move on..its just spam mail like your inbox on your main email. mmmmmmm..oh, have a nice day!
I find it hard to look at a lady's bottom when you are enjoying her smile. Now we know why there are single men and unsuccessful married ones too... lololol
I think it's unanimous on 2 counts, on the ass thing, Web Couple.
The first being that indeed, you really do have a nice backside, and Second, Bill IS an ASS.
He obviously exudes the kind of wit, respect, taste, class and most of all.. CHARM.. that we all look for.... whether you're looking for single males/females, or couples.
Have a good Wednesday Kids!
B & B
The first being that indeed, you really do have a nice backside, and Second, Bill IS an ASS.
He obviously exudes the kind of wit, respect, taste, class and most of all.. CHARM.. that we all look for.... whether you're looking for single males/females, or couples.
Have a good Wednesday Kids!
B & B
I must agree with him on the pics very beautiful, and we wish that you did not have the mileage stipulation on your profile as we do visit your area but do respect your wishes and will just say very nice.
The last time I checked this site had the super-duper-ACME XXX single male blocker, it's been there since this site was born. (So have we) Unless the single male is flying under the "couples flag" he can't send you e-mail. If that is the case just contact the Admin and they will adjust his profile to better suit his persona.
The only e-mail we get from single men is the the classic someone likes you do-ditty, for some reason these are not blocked. The latest trick I'm seeing some are sending the someone likes you ditty and then they block us from answering. (They figure I'm going to call them pooper heads) or something.
If you are leaving the block off because you like the complements then take the good with the bad. The majority of the single men I've seen on the board are respectful and it would be fine for us to be chat friends. I wish I didn't have to block them all becase of a few POOPER HEADS.
Maybe you need to make a decision if it bugs you that much.
I yes I agree, great butt. :-)
The only e-mail we get from single men is the the classic someone likes you do-ditty, for some reason these are not blocked. The latest trick I'm seeing some are sending the someone likes you ditty and then they block us from answering. (They figure I'm going to call them pooper heads) or something.
If you are leaving the block off because you like the complements then take the good with the bad. The majority of the single men I've seen on the board are respectful and it would be fine for us to be chat friends. I wish I didn't have to block them all becase of a few POOPER HEADS.
Maybe you need to make a decision if it bugs you that much.
I yes I agree, great butt. :-)
We belong to a couple of lifestyle sites and it's pretty much the same everywhere you go and it can get frustrating at times.
I do have to admit that we don't have as much of a problem on this site with things like that as we do on some other sites. In fact we communicate with a few single males from this site that are very nice and respectful but we have had our share of some of the bad ones.
Here's what we got from another site... got the first message yesterday and got the second message a few minutes ago.
"wow what a body!! nice nipples for sucking..mmmmmm "
Our reply ( we try to at least say thanks for a compliment even though we feel it's a little forward for a first time message)
" thanks"
Then we got this message a few minutes ago...
" i want some "
Our reply...
"no thanks"
Now does this guy really think he's actually gonna get anywhere with this??? Sometimes I wish we could just turn these guys over to the "good" single males out there and let them police themselves
I do have to admit that we don't have as much of a problem on this site with things like that as we do on some other sites. In fact we communicate with a few single males from this site that are very nice and respectful but we have had our share of some of the bad ones.
Here's what we got from another site... got the first message yesterday and got the second message a few minutes ago.
"wow what a body!! nice nipples for sucking..mmmmmm "
Our reply ( we try to at least say thanks for a compliment even though we feel it's a little forward for a first time message)
" thanks"
Then we got this message a few minutes ago...
" i want some "
Our reply...
"no thanks"
Now does this guy really think he's actually gonna get anywhere with this??? Sometimes I wish we could just turn these guys over to the "good" single males out there and let them police themselves
NOT ALL SINGLE MEN ARE JERKS
I took some offense as to JSTJIM72's remark about why single men are single.
I was married for 14 years being the support system for my ex to get her degree all while running my business from home and raising our child. She left me for a smooth talking salesman who blew sunshine in her face 8 hours a day.
I have had swinging girlfriends and succesful swinging friendships with couples.
I do hope one day to meet Mrs. Right. A woman who is uninhibited enough not be bothered by the concept of swinging, even if she doesn't want to do it.
I'm always the one who writes people back, even if its to say sorry I don't think we are a match. Thats not a favor most other people return.
I have had a profile as a couple with a past girlfriend and we were open to single men.
Yes there are a lot of PEOPLE men and women who don't seem to take the time to read a profile completely.
I guess the real thing I'm trying to say is. A jerk is a jerk.
Be it a single man, woman or couple.
They are all out there.
Don't let some bad apples ruin it for every one else.
Thanks for reading this.
Feel free to reply.
Scott
I took some offense as to JSTJIM72's remark about why single men are single.
I was married for 14 years being the support system for my ex to get her degree all while running my business from home and raising our child. She left me for a smooth talking salesman who blew sunshine in her face 8 hours a day.
I have had swinging girlfriends and succesful swinging friendships with couples.
I do hope one day to meet Mrs. Right. A woman who is uninhibited enough not be bothered by the concept of swinging, even if she doesn't want to do it.
I'm always the one who writes people back, even if its to say sorry I don't think we are a match. Thats not a favor most other people return.
I have had a profile as a couple with a past girlfriend and we were open to single men.
Yes there are a lot of PEOPLE men and women who don't seem to take the time to read a profile completely.
I guess the real thing I'm trying to say is. A jerk is a jerk.
Be it a single man, woman or couple.
They are all out there.
Don't let some bad apples ruin it for every one else.
Thanks for reading this.
Feel free to reply.
Scott
We just received email from an idiot. In his header line he just wrote "ASS".
In the body of the message he wrote "I love your ass, what I would do with it". Please send me a note."
We just replied that he did not deserve a reply with that mouth of his and blocked him.
In the body of the message he wrote "I love your ass, what I would do with it". Please send me a note."
We just replied that he did not deserve a reply with that mouth of his and blocked him.
Yes, you do have a terrific backside....and believe me he would love to have his way with you....too bad we are so far apart.....Eileen
Actually, the whole package is great, not just the ass!
Don't you know that every guy thinks he is the exception to the rule!
Truth be told, this guy probably would never follow up anyway. He was just looking for an ego boost, hoping you would say he is the special exception to the rule. Don't waste a second thought on it. Also, please don't judge all single guys based on this clown. Unlike Playboy, I read first, look at pictures second.
Guys if the profile says they are not interested in single males, do everyone a favor and jack off to the pictures. They will not get annoyed, you will not be vilified in the forums, and all the rest of us single guys will not be generalized as assholes...
Don't you know that every guy thinks he is the exception to the rule!
Truth be told, this guy probably would never follow up anyway. He was just looking for an ego boost, hoping you would say he is the special exception to the rule. Don't waste a second thought on it. Also, please don't judge all single guys based on this clown. Unlike Playboy, I read first, look at pictures second.
Guys if the profile says they are not interested in single males, do everyone a favor and jack off to the pictures. They will not get annoyed, you will not be vilified in the forums, and all the rest of us single guys will not be generalized as assholes...
I wasn't going to reply as I do know that not everyone is open to having a solo male attempt to make some sort of approach to a couple. I can tell you this much, it really doesn't take long to figure it out. If a couple excludes single males...then DON'T EVEN TRY! It's an easy lesson, if their profile indicates they are interested in single males then they are interested. I can't imagine a solo male even trying if the door says "Closed Beat It" then move on. I know that it is very dificult to be any sort of a success in communicating with a couple. Besides Murphy's law always applies. If the couple is interested in you..They will always live at least 2000 miles away. Regarding the pictures and the remarks.. If she has a nice ass then flaunt it.. I'm sure favorable comments are welcome. Why else would you post it? I'm off my soap box. In a nutshell. Read the profile before you contact someone and you'll likely get a reply if you understand what the poster is looking for..
Believe me there are a lot of single guys out here that are nice, polite and do read the profiles. Of course we look at the pics for there are some very nice looking women and couples on this site, however when I am reading the profile, if I see "no single males" then that is it, done, I don't even think about contacting. Sometimes however it is confusing as in the preference area you will see "single males" and then in the body of the profile you will see "no single males", so I still take that as a no. As one poster said, there are jerks in every preference area, I happen to be a nice guy but have to suffer with the rest of them for the few jerks that spoil it for us, just my 2 cents. Mav
Ok my two cents worth. If they say no single males,then those are the keywords. I would never bother someone that puts this in their ad. But a question comes to mind,why would you put single males in the heading if you have no interest in them. Put single females,couples,leave the single males totally out of the heading. To be absolutely sure that any jackass can figure things out,do like a lot of ads I have seen and put NO SINGLE MALES in the ad itself. I have replied to a couple in here that have no interest in single males but only when I see a very beautiful,sexy lady(I have to say that includes damn near all of you ladies).The only reason I do this I feel I have to compliment the lady on her looks and pictures and her mates photography skills. I do NOT put anything vulgar or insinuate what I would like to do to the lady. That is just plain rude and ignorant for anyone to do to another person. I know I'll get blasted for this but I think I needed to say it. After all,every woman likes to hear compliments if worded correctly. Like I said most of the women on this site are beautiful and all women are sexy to me,but some I have found truly breathtaking and deserving of their own centerfolds.... Jim
have to admit he is right on the ass hun..... we entertain single males as well as one or 2 others stated .. but eggy the ones who sends stupid crap mails ... seems alot of them think they are gods gift to women but seems to me thats probably why they are single .. hard to find one thats respects others wishes.. but there are a few few and they are the ones that will have all the fun lol
We try to just put some basic requirements to limit the emails from single guys and they don't even read our profile. And then when we say you don't meet our criteria get nast. This just happened today. Here is what the guy initially emailed us:
Good evening....I am a professional artist in Manhattan. Please let me know if you'd like to speak and if you'll ever be visiting NYC.
Regards / Bob
[email protected]
So then we sent back an email and saying we were not interested as he does not meet our requirements (not to include he is 1000 miles away) and he sent the following email:
How ridiculously picky you are.....YOU MUST BE?....first of all age has no bearing on sexual performance..people lie about that all the time. You are 44 & 41 respectively and where did you cum up with 38 as the line..thats nuts! Secondly....I have many pics in my profile including a face shot...did you look? I am in great shape..greater shape than his flacid and amorphic body, and my cock is 8"...huge loads and tasty too. I am and always have been caucasian. Are you sure you looked at the right profile and if ya did...were you drinking or smoking when you did? By the way...is you pussy the Grand Canyon and are you into damaging your internal organs? My cock can fuck you real well..a few inches wont matter. Also..why do you need a big cock..my tongue can drive you up the wall and its only 4". Lastly..have either of you looked in a decent mirror lately..you aren't exactly Barbie & Ken..in fact...you aren't even their parents!..Get real and do me a favor...go away..people like you give a bad name for recreational sex and you must be exceptionally bored with the sex that you do have!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The nerve of this guy!! We have reported him for abusive behavior but it gives all the decent guys out there a bad name. Oh and if he was respectful we may have even emailed him if we were in NY, but we don't need so guy like this on the site that can't take rejection
Steven and Susan
Good evening....I am a professional artist in Manhattan. Please let me know if you'd like to speak and if you'll ever be visiting NYC.
Regards / Bob
[email protected]
So then we sent back an email and saying we were not interested as he does not meet our requirements (not to include he is 1000 miles away) and he sent the following email:
How ridiculously picky you are.....YOU MUST BE?....first of all age has no bearing on sexual performance..people lie about that all the time. You are 44 & 41 respectively and where did you cum up with 38 as the line..thats nuts! Secondly....I have many pics in my profile including a face shot...did you look? I am in great shape..greater shape than his flacid and amorphic body, and my cock is 8"...huge loads and tasty too. I am and always have been caucasian. Are you sure you looked at the right profile and if ya did...were you drinking or smoking when you did? By the way...is you pussy the Grand Canyon and are you into damaging your internal organs? My cock can fuck you real well..a few inches wont matter. Also..why do you need a big cock..my tongue can drive you up the wall and its only 4". Lastly..have either of you looked in a decent mirror lately..you aren't exactly Barbie & Ken..in fact...you aren't even their parents!..Get real and do me a favor...go away..people like you give a bad name for recreational sex and you must be exceptionally bored with the sex that you do have!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The nerve of this guy!! We have reported him for abusive behavior but it gives all the decent guys out there a bad name. Oh and if he was respectful we may have even emailed him if we were in NY, but we don't need so guy like this on the site that can't take rejection
Steven and Susan
Just our thoughts from a couple who at this time is ~not~ looking for single males.
We just want to point out that respect goes a long ways. We understand Webcouples frustration with the emails they have received from single men.( And we too admire his beautiful female partner) But however it is not just single men who can be disrespectful and tactless, it does come from some couples as well. We have received emails from both that are less then desirable.
In defense of single males, most of the interaction we have had with them in the chat room or in emails has been polite and very respectful, even when they know we are not looking to meet them. We see both sides of the problem but I think to "generalize" that all the single males are annoying jerks just isn't fair.
There are some couples and single woman that enjoy single males and like their company, so to each their own. In the end we are all here for the same reason to enjoy ourselves and hopefully some of each other. Maybe we all need to just be more mindful and respectful of what our profiles say we are,or are not looking for and don't cross over the line. And if it does happen brush it off and move forward, life is too short to let it get at ya!!!
We just want to point out that respect goes a long ways. We understand Webcouples frustration with the emails they have received from single men.( And we too admire his beautiful female partner) But however it is not just single men who can be disrespectful and tactless, it does come from some couples as well. We have received emails from both that are less then desirable.
In defense of single males, most of the interaction we have had with them in the chat room or in emails has been polite and very respectful, even when they know we are not looking to meet them. We see both sides of the problem but I think to "generalize" that all the single males are annoying jerks just isn't fair.
There are some couples and single woman that enjoy single males and like their company, so to each their own. In the end we are all here for the same reason to enjoy ourselves and hopefully some of each other.
Maybe we all need to just be more mindful and respectful of what our profiles say we are,or are not looking for and don't cross over the line. And if it does happen brush it off and move forward, life is too short to let it get at ya!!!Ignore him he will go away....just don't reply...we delete all single males messages
Lest there be misunderstanding. I don't say guys like Bill are an ass because they are single, I could even let the approach go and allow some slack. What makes him an ass and any who does the same thing is that when it clearly stated NO he didn't take no for an answer. No means no whether it is a bi woman coming onto a straight woman, a man coming on to a woman, a bi man to a straight man, or a woman coming on to a man who is not interested. Where as I am sure the last one doesn't happen often LOL it can and should be respected.
Valance you are a trip. LOL I do like your humor though.
Just a thought and not a defense of singlemen everywhere, but: Sometimes a single male might write to a couple to express a compliment or to initiate a conversation about some non swing issue. I have writen to couples in southern Illinois, where I was born and raised, just to chat about the old stomping grounds. I sure as hell am not going to drive 1500 miles or more to get laid. I am very active in the Brevard area of Florida. I set up meet and greets for some Yahoo groups, I occasionally host small parties, and I sometimes help promote other peoples parties, so I write to couples that are not looking for a single male to let them know of events in the area. I understand that they are not looking for me and in most cases I am not promoting myself but an event. The iritating thing for me are those couples that get rude, obviously not reading the note. You know thats ok too because I figure if they can't read then they are not likely to fit in with our group anyway.
Reading with those glasses must be tough cookie. :-)
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I would like to add a couple of things to this post...
First off, DWB, that same post in so many threads is completely obnoxious, things like that help to give single guys the bad reputation we have of not being able to read profiles, not understanding how to properly behave, etc.
Secondly, WEB_COUPLE2001, you have some beautiful photos posted, but why that would be a good excuse for someone to send such an idiotic message is completely beyond me.
I have yet to figure out why there doesn't seem to be any sites around that have a system in place that allows people to report rude behavior like that to the admins to get people who pull that crap to be banned, which would make it a lot easier to tell who the DECENT single guys on the site are (that way if they have been around for a while, and are known to be active on the site, there is a much better chance they aren't assholes).
From what I have seen, single guys have a bad reputation because there sems to be so many who are married and cheating, which brings a lot of drama no matter how much they want to deny it (and how many couples want to end up dragged into a divorce because they were with the cheating husband (or wife!) for that matter?), because so many have such obnoxious behavior as sending vulgar messages to couples they don't know, sending dick pics to people unsolicited, and harrassing people they contact, and that is just the tip of the iceberg!
Not all single guys are problematic, I would love to sit here and say I'm one of the good guys, which I do feel I am, but I wouldn't expect anyone to take my word for it becuase without talking to me how would they really know? It seems that some guys think just because they SAY they are one of the "good single guys" that people ought to believe them, and subsiquently dismiss any of their crap when in reality they ought to be booted off the site for their attempts at making the real good single guys look guilty by association
Well, this is long and confusing enough now, hopefully some of it made sense!
-Peter
First off, DWB, that same post in so many threads is completely obnoxious, things like that help to give single guys the bad reputation we have of not being able to read profiles, not understanding how to properly behave, etc.
Secondly, WEB_COUPLE2001, you have some beautiful photos posted, but why that would be a good excuse for someone to send such an idiotic message is completely beyond me.
I have yet to figure out why there doesn't seem to be any sites around that have a system in place that allows people to report rude behavior like that to the admins to get people who pull that crap to be banned, which would make it a lot easier to tell who the DECENT single guys on the site are (that way if they have been around for a while, and are known to be active on the site, there is a much better chance they aren't assholes).
From what I have seen, single guys have a bad reputation because there sems to be so many who are married and cheating, which brings a lot of drama no matter how much they want to deny it (and how many couples want to end up dragged into a divorce because they were with the cheating husband (or wife!) for that matter?), because so many have such obnoxious behavior as sending vulgar messages to couples they don't know, sending dick pics to people unsolicited, and harrassing people they contact, and that is just the tip of the iceberg!
Not all single guys are problematic, I would love to sit here and say I'm one of the good guys, which I do feel I am, but I wouldn't expect anyone to take my word for it becuase without talking to me how would they really know? It seems that some guys think just because they SAY they are one of the "good single guys" that people ought to believe them, and subsiquently dismiss any of their crap when in reality they ought to be booted off the site for their attempts at making the real good single guys look guilty by association
Well, this is long and confusing enough now, hopefully some of it made sense!
-Peter
WEll, I will agree that everyone has his or her or their own wishes and desires, and that if one isn't erudite enough to understand the language, then they should be discounted out right.
That being said, I would add that here in a world of people that have expressed their "OUTSIDE THE BOX" mentality just by being here, about morality and judgementalism, but those in residence are more than a little hung up and judgemental themselves, especially about single males. Once again the reverse dual standard for "single" men vs "single" women.
We all need to be a little more forthright and less judgemental... also you can set your parameters to block these people I believe. So why the rant? Many people are stupid assholes in general and some in specific!
That being said, I would add that here in a world of people that have expressed their "OUTSIDE THE BOX" mentality just by being here, about morality and judgementalism, but those in residence are more than a little hung up and judgemental themselves, especially about single males. Once again the reverse dual standard for "single" men vs "single" women.
We all need to be a little more forthright and less judgemental... also you can set your parameters to block these people I believe. So why the rant? Many people are stupid assholes in general and some in specific!
Dear All;
"For the 10's of thousands of married people who are doing this to enrich their already secure marriages as they say"? Please fill me in!!!!!
If you and your spouse do have a perfectly secure and happy marriage. Why do you just wanna fuck somebody else????? Are you bored with each other? Or, do you realize that there really is "more flavors of ice cream than just vanilla".
This is the last of my messages, some will say "Thank goodness", the purpose was to seek what is the "truth" and why a mwm is considered cheating if he seeks fucking outside of marriage, lets say for the best of reasons. And that while it would be accepable to have a female, married or otherwise acceptable to these secure and happy marriages, it is not for a male.
These, "cheaters", individuals can also have secure and happy marriages. My case, 35 years of a great marriage..could not dream of a greater person to spend my life with. Planning our retirement home closer to the children.
Nevertheless, GOOD FUCKING AND DO NOT BE SO PIOUS AND BE MORE OPEN MINDED.
KINDEST REGARDS TO ALL!!
"For the 10's of thousands of married people who are doing this to enrich their already secure marriages as they say"? Please fill me in!!!!!
If you and your spouse do have a perfectly secure and happy marriage. Why do you just wanna fuck somebody else????? Are you bored with each other? Or, do you realize that there really is "more flavors of ice cream than just vanilla".
This is the last of my messages, some will say "Thank goodness", the purpose was to seek what is the "truth" and why a mwm is considered cheating if he seeks fucking outside of marriage, lets say for the best of reasons. And that while it would be accepable to have a female, married or otherwise acceptable to these secure and happy marriages, it is not for a male.
These, "cheaters", individuals can also have secure and happy marriages. My case, 35 years of a great marriage..could not dream of a greater person to spend my life with. Planning our retirement home closer to the children.
Nevertheless, GOOD FUCKING AND DO NOT BE SO PIOUS AND BE MORE OPEN MINDED.
KINDEST REGARDS TO ALL!!
DWB,
You have sent your whining emails to several other swinger web sites besides this one and its getting old. Why don't you just shut up!
You have sent your whining emails to several other swinger web sites besides this one and its getting old. Why don't you just shut up!
DWB, I don't think you have a clue, as to where you are. You mentioned FANTASIES in your original post. That is what it is all about, not just the idea of fucking someone else. I will not deny that sex is the big issue here but, TRUST and RESPECT are very important here. The reason many couples say they are secure in their relationship is because they are. Even though they enjoy sex very much they enjoy and love each other for other reasons, and have a proven trust in their commitment. We have always enjoyed sex even before we met each other, and we both now realize we can alow each other to enjoy the different flavors, as you put it. It is a great feeling to enjoy your fantasies and those of your best friend in life, and like wise. It is truely one more thing we can share in our lives.
You must not have the trust and openness in your relationship otherwise you would understand this, and would not be telling all of us swinging couples that we have missed the point. I don't know much about your relationship with your wife because you have not given any reason why you are seeking to cheat on her, or if you have her blessing to do so. It is a shame they don't have a CHEATERS site for people like you, where you can hook up with like minded cheaters.
You must not have the trust and openness in your relationship otherwise you would understand this, and would not be telling all of us swinging couples that we have missed the point. I don't know much about your relationship with your wife because you have not given any reason why you are seeking to cheat on her, or if you have her blessing to do so. It is a shame they don't have a CHEATERS site for people like you, where you can hook up with like minded cheaters.