Hey every one I have a question we have had a normal swinger couples and its been great but now we are wanting just a female she doesn't have to be bi has anyone had a problem finding people or is it just us living in Idaho lol
Carrie
Carrie
THAT is why they are called "unicorns". Magical mystical creatures that may or may not exist. Some say they do, some have never seen one. Good luck on your search.
Shit, go back 5 or 10 years. There are a BUTTload today compared to the past. Don't know about Idaho. Guess all the good SF's get snapped up by wealthy potato moguls. 
We haven't done that, but there seems to be plenty.
Not had a problem finding the proverbial Unicorn.
Toujours Flammes.
Toujours Flammes.
FLAME_N_TJ wrote:
Not had a problem finding the proverbial Unicorn.
Toujours Flammes.
(from Terry)
Yeah, but YOU have the famed and indomitable Flame as a lure. So of course you catch more than your fair limit of the beasts. Everyone else has to just stumble about, hoping against hope that the Goddess smiles upon them, and bestows upon them the gift of some time with one of her daughters.
But for Carrie, instead of looking for single females, why don't you try couples whose mrs.plays alone? There may not be a zillion of them, but there are more than there are of the Unicorns. My wife is one of them. But I'm not sure how much good she'd do you, she only plays alone with males or couples that I've met. That used to be just for single males, but we added couples after she had a somewhat unpleasant experience. I don't presume to actually approve or disapprove of anyone, she's going to be playing with them, not me. But I do need to feel like she'll be safe, and not hurt or pushed into anything she doesn't want.
So the problem with you guys would be that, if you do talk with her, and you click, I really don't want to drive 2 1/2 hours just to spend maybe 10 or 15 minutes visiting and then just turn around and drive back home. I dunno, maybe there'd be a good movie playing someplace near that I'd want to go see?
We have found it is easier in the vanilla world to find ones to join us.
They're out there, and are normal people, if not statistically more guarded than most *for good reason*. Creeps abound. This includes couples. Personality, humor, not being pushy, and respect seem to work in my neck of the woods for couples. Go to meet and greets. The public ones. Put out a decent, respectable, and non-felonious vibe on sites. They just might pay you a visit.
As a single female I have to say I haven't have a ton of people contact me, and more single males than couples. I haven't met a couple that I clicked with yet but I'm always willing to chat. LOL
We would like to find that unicorn as well.
TMACA....
We also love married females that play alone, Hell! we love females that play with their other half also!
We are never against couples, just find it easier to find singles that click.
Toujours Flammes.
We also love married females that play alone, Hell! we love females that play with their other half also!
We are never against couples, just find it easier to find singles that click.
Toujours Flammes.
We've had a couple unicorn friend request us but when we try to email or text to chat we rarely get an awnser from them if we do get a response there shirt and not very conversational so we said fck it cleared our friend list and have now decided to only do parties and motorcycle rides maybe we'll find a unicorn one day that we can play with Mrs. Whooty does enjoy her girl's ALOT lol
Hello~Since my husband responded to this thread, I would like to throw in my own two cents.~First, I would and have (in the past) played alone with other women. But there are so many dynamics to this LS that I have yet to find a woman or women to play with on my own. Some men, like my husband are totally ok with me playing on my own. But, I have had a couple situations that happened to me. One time I met a couple and I really liked his girlfriend. But I was just not into him. His girlfriend understood this and was fine with it just being me and her. However, he insisted that he should be present and participate because it was his "dream to see two women together". Well, I am not the owner of "Fantasy Island" and it is not my job to grant you your wishes. Esp. when you are acting like a complete asshole and you give me a creepy vibe. So, she and I did not have play time because of his behavior and attitude and I am not going to do or be with someone without the prior consent of the spouse/partner. The second situation (happened some years ago) was that I met a single woman who was bi-curious. I had already been bisexual for a few years at this point and we were getting along just great! She was recently divorced and I was separated from my 1st husband. Well, I did end up being her 1st. Though she enjoyed herself as much as I did, after the act, she became a different person. I knew she was raised LDS (though she told me she was no longer a believer in that faith), but it raised all kinds of issues with her. Though I did try to help her, what she needed was professional help and I had to let her go. So now when I have females who are bi-curious and wish to explore their other sexual side, I usually turn them down. Not always, but usually. I need to be sure she has really thought it out first, including any possible conflicts that might arise. from her beliefs, religious or otherwise. I am not your social experiment. As for "unicorns" on this site, I have found a decent number of them. (but perhaps I am just a unicorn whisperer). Even Terry somehow managed to stumble upon one. They do exist, there just aren't a lot of them. So if you can't find that single woman to play with, the next best route is to find a woman who is part of a couple and whose husband/partner does not mind if she plays alone. As for being from Idaho, I don't think that is a deal breaker for most couples on this site. I just think if you are out of the general area for most people, then you've got to take the time to develop rapport with the prospective couple or woman and let the relationship develop. For example, if I liked a couple and I think we were seriously going to "click" then sure, I would take the time to go and be with them, and Terry would probably come up too to meet them, even if there wasn't anything for him to go do while we played, and he had to just turn around and drive home after a very short visit..However, I would expect to stay more than just a couple of hours, probably the night. I would also want it to be more than just a one time thing, if I was going to invest time ,money and travel (once Terry ha met someone and feels I'll be safe with him or them, he doesn't need to come along every time - just the first time.) .But keep in mind this is just my opinion, and perhaps other couples or women would be just fine for a quick trip to Idaho. You know, grab some lottery tickets and a quick piece of ass? 
Anyway - that's my two cents worth. And I am sorry if this post is a little long. Have a great day! ~Dana
Anyway - that's my two cents worth. And I am sorry if this post is a little long. Have a great day! ~DanaWe have had our fair share and have found that there are slot in the vanilla world. In our experience, it just happens naturally. Since we've moved here, we've had afew experiences. However, we have yet to meet a girl that compares to our previous GF. the wife is bi, but she has grown tired of flakes and as a consequence, easily tires of women if she feels they are not serious. What someone above has said is accurate, there are a lot more today than a few years ago. A lot of women are more comfortable with their bi feelings and are more willing to act on them.
11MIKE wrote:lol that was my first thought too she's got a weiner
Awhooty they where probably from fake females the friend requests I get tons of them and the way they talk makes me think they are really male.
Fuck. I HATE chicks with wieners. They're my least favorite kind of chick. 
Evil it does seem to change the mood quickly when you learn that your chick has a dick. Something that should be disclosed long before that point. But since you said it was your least favorite type of chick I'm wondering what tops your chick list. Just curious 
ONEHOTGINGER wrote:
Evil it does seem to change the mood quickly when you learn that your chick has a dick. Something that should be disclosed long before that point. But since you said it was your least favorite type of chick I'm wondering what tops your chick list. Just curious
You want me to come right out and SAY I'm a sucker for gingers? Fine! I've been known to do all kinds of demeaning things (act serious...ish, and other stuff too) just to be able to play hide the weeny with a hot sexy redhead now and then. Satisfied?!!?