I know that some couples prefer to meet with a single person (guy or gal) but want to have some privacy with the person, so this is a new thing to me.
I have been meeting with a couple where the husband waits on the living room or somewhere else while we play, and afterwards he wants to hear the details, anyway here is my question...
Into this great world of the lifestyle is this a normal thing to happen or am I outdated of new forms of swinging, I can deny that it is an exciting new experience to me.
Thanks
I have been meeting with a couple where the husband waits on the living room or somewhere else while we play, and afterwards he wants to hear the details, anyway here is my question...
Into this great world of the lifestyle is this a normal thing to happen or am I outdated of new forms of swinging, I can deny that it is an exciting new experience to me.
Thanks
Well, in my humble opinion, if that's what they wish, then it
is normal for THEM.
That sure beats my most recent experience... the couple in
question clearly said they wanted me to join them, but when
I got there I was told I wasn't allowed to do anything but sit
in a nearby chair and watch them... Guess what? I got up and
left.
is normal for THEM.
That sure beats my most recent experience... the couple in
question clearly said they wanted me to join them, but when
I got there I was told I wasn't allowed to do anything but sit
in a nearby chair and watch them... Guess what? I got up and
left.
We read alot of erotic stories posted on a website by real people. alot of these stries are true, and we have noticed that east of the rockies that that is not an uncommon act. It seems that more couples are looking for single men or groups of men where the husband send his wife on her way and waits for her to return to get all the details. On the west side of the rockies this does not seem to happen as often but does seem to be that most couples are looking for couples or females and everyone plays together.
Every couple has there own thing I.E. I love sending hubby out to play with woman or couples and hearing about everything when he gets home. This is such an exciting thing for me that i have small orgasms while he is out. So just keep in mind that if everyone agrees to the situation then have fun and keep an open mind.
Bris
Every couple has there own thing I.E. I love sending hubby out to play with woman or couples and hearing about everything when he gets home. This is such an exciting thing for me that i have small orgasms while he is out. So just keep in mind that if everyone agrees to the situation then have fun and keep an open mind.
Bris
It is in our world......but that is just us.
I think its relatively common. Some men loose their sex drive after a certain age while their wife's sex drive is just kicking in. This is the most unusual experience i've had:
I dated this married woman, whose husband was straight but submissive. He was small and had she him in one of those penis restraints with a lock 24/7...lol When he was good, he was allowed to watch. Rarely, she would unlock him and allow him to have sloppy seconds. When he was bad (which was most of the time), she would banish him from the bedroom. I had a discrete conversation about this one time with him, to see if everything was kewl. He loved it. He said the imagining part, as to what was going on behind the close doors, was the excrutiating but erotic. He said he was in a constant state of arrousal thinking about it and fed off it all week long. They had an unusual relationship but they loved their sex life. Different strokes for different folks. Never asked about it again.
I dated this married woman, whose husband was straight but submissive. He was small and had she him in one of those penis restraints with a lock 24/7...lol When he was good, he was allowed to watch. Rarely, she would unlock him and allow him to have sloppy seconds. When he was bad (which was most of the time), she would banish him from the bedroom. I had a discrete conversation about this one time with him, to see if everything was kewl. He loved it. He said the imagining part, as to what was going on behind the close doors, was the excrutiating but erotic. He said he was in a constant state of arrousal thinking about it and fed off it all week long. They had an unusual relationship but they loved their sex life. Different strokes for different folks. Never asked about it again.
We attend parties at a local swing club and see it pretty even with couples that split and play solo in private rooms and couples that stay in the same room. No rhyme or reason, its just their preference. We prefer to stay together.
I've been seeing a couple for close to two years. In our email and phone conversations prior to the first meeting everything was about a three some. On my first visit we sat around for 10 to 15 minutes just verbally feeling one another out. Then she excused herself, I wasn't sure if she had lost interest or what and I wasn't getting a clue from the husband. Then from another room I heard her say "Jim, please help me dry my back". As I entered the room she was standing there with a towel in her hand but nothing else. We embraced and began some hot and heavy petting, some we were on the bed. Things followed their natural course and I never though of the husband until she was sucking my cock and I saw him standing in the door way. As the afternoon progressed I saw him at the door several other times but other times he wouldn't be there. In the weeks and months that have followed he has never actually entered the room while the two of us played but I came to realize that he was often at the doorway when he would hear that she was about to reach a climax. I was a bit taken back at first but she is a great lover and the three of us seem to be very satisfied in this relationship although we've never spoken about why he doesn't join us in a three some. I might add that at his suggestion I have visited her while he isn't home and she has never said anything about "why" he doesn't participate or whether or not they have sex together.