CHAMPAGNEPAPI is his screen name he is SM from Orem Ut. 26 yrs old black with tats on his chest. we had a date setup last night this person was a no-show he kept telling us he was on his way just gonna start putting these flaky no-showin fcks up in the forum and we encourage the same from the good people of Swingular let's weed these fck tards out!!!!
There goes your chance of ever getting a date on here... people hate it when you out them and consider you to be the drama couple....
Perma-Bachelor wrote:meh that's ok bud
There goes your chance of ever getting a date on here... people hate it when you out them and consider you to be the drama couple....
AWHOOTY wrote:
CHAMPAGNEPAPI is his screen name he is SM from Orem Ut. 26 yrs old black with tats on his chest. we had a date setup last night this person was a no-show he kept telling us he was on his way just gonna start putting these flaky no-showin fcks up in the forum and we encourage the same from the good people of Swingular let's weed these fck tards out!!!!
You felt like calling someone out by the user Id its proper? Thats sad.
Hey lets all post when this happens with: Couples, Single ladies and men.
Its part of the lifestyle. When it happens you don't run to the corner and cry. You man up and do other creative things.......
Geeeeeeeeezzzz
We didnt cry, we had a great night. We also had cpls and so on asking us TO POST if this happened. So, my friend I guess we will just play with those cpls and maybe you can go find smone eles stream to go cry in. In other words, dont like it? The shut up and move on, your the one causi g drama at this point. - Mrs. Whooty ????
AWHOOTY wrote:
We didnt cry, we had a great night. We also had cpls and so on asking us TO POST if this happened. So, my friend I guess we will just play with those cpls and maybe you can go find smone eles stream to go cry in. In other words, dont like it? The shut up and move on, your the one causi g drama at this point. - Mrs. Whooty ????
Oh you touch my ta la la....LMAO Poor You
We support telling it like it is. Our suspiscision is folks that don't like it are flakes and fer being outed. Way to go. It's completly different from.
Hay were are getting ready to leave just waiting for baby sitter, or mechanic to replace the engine and then will be on the way.
Then 5 min later just got cancelled on. Sorry for the short notice. Next time if you will permit we will have two of each lined up.
But to say on the way, , then never show up. What a slime. Guessing it's a married man, lost his nerve or wife decided he wasn't going out.
Keep up the good work.
Hay were are getting ready to leave just waiting for baby sitter, or mechanic to replace the engine and then will be on the way.
Then 5 min later just got cancelled on. Sorry for the short notice. Next time if you will permit we will have two of each lined up.
But to say on the way, , then never show up. What a slime. Guessing it's a married man, lost his nerve or wife decided he wasn't going out.
Keep up the good work.
Mrs whooty. I'll still meet you. I'm not sceered of showing up or getting called out.
Mrs whooty. I'll still meet you. I'm not sceered of showing up or getting called out.
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
We support telling it like it is. Our suspiscision is folks that don't like it are flakes and fer being outed. Way to go. It's completly different from.
Hay were are getting ready to leave just waiting for baby sitter, or mechanic to replace the engine and then will be on the way.
Then 5 min later just got cancelled on. Sorry for the short notice. Next time if you will permit we will have two of each lined up.
But to say on the way, , then never show up. What a slime. Guessing it's a married man, lost his nerve or wife decided he wasn't going out.
Keep up the good work.
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:omg! I just got done saying the same exact things to my hubby. We gave this guy an extra hour and half b4 moving on. I think the couples and peeps on here that have a zero BS tolerence are the least drama! Glad some see it like we do.- Mrs. Whooty
We support telling it like it is. Our suspiscision is folks that don't like it are flakes and fer being outed. Way to go. It's completly different from.
Hay were are getting ready to leave just waiting for baby sitter, or mechanic to replace the engine and then will be on the way.
Then 5 min later just got cancelled on. Sorry for the short notice. Next time if you will permit we will have two of each lined up.
But to say on the way, , then never show up. What a slime. Guessing it's a married man, lost his nerve or wife decided he wasn't going out.
Keep up the good work.
Well you chose the wrong guy. How in the world would you not show up for a night of fun . That doesn't make since. It's called immature. Sorry that happen to you guys but trust me some of us single men show up regardless
Agree with Awhooty, we've been stood up before and it sucks. Common courtesy is to at least give a heads up that you cant make the date, but to lie and say on the way and BRT is being an ass. I guess if people want to be treated as gentlemen they should act like one.
Bob
Bob
Meh, some people are flakes. Prolly (like many people) found what he thought was a BBD (bigger better deal, not big black dick...although I guess he could have found that too, who knows). Block him or whatever and move on. But ya might wanna check and make sure you aren't violating the TOS before callin' somebody out publically, by name, on the open forum. I know on another site we're on that would be a big no no and at very least you'd receive a strike or a time out.
69ME wrote:
maybe he did not show because he was afraid he would have to show his small weinnie!! lol
Some people travel a long ways to enjoy some fun, so if they make plans with you and then travel and you no show that is so disrespectful, Awhooty is from I think Price, so they traveled to SLC to have some fun and had to change plans because of this. As well as they put in their booty call they would do this is you flaked on them so good for you guys.
I dont know if its the right thing to do but they kept their promise so that tells me they are at least honest. That is something you cant say about every one on here.
People make mistakes but usually the second time around they do the exact same thing, but not always and not everyone.
I dont know if its the right thing to do but they kept their promise so that tells me they are at least honest. That is something you cant say about every one on here.
People make mistakes but usually the second time around they do the exact same thing, but not always and not everyone.
As we see in the previous posts, anyone posting on here must be ready to defend their actions. Personally, I would rather that someone have the guts to post in open forum where an accused can at least defend them selves than defame by personal back biting and bitching
KRAZYGIRL wrote:I don't have the words but thank you (tear)
Some people travel a long ways to enjoy some fun, so if they make plans with you and then travel and you no show that is so disrespectful, Awhooty is from I think Price, so they traveled to SLC to have some fun and had to change plans because of this. As well as they put in their booty call they would do this is you flaked on them so good for you guys.
I dont know if its the right thing to do but they kept their promise so that tells me they are at least honest. That is something you cant say about every one on here.
People make mistakes but usually the second time around they do the exact same thing, but not always and not everyone.
[quote=SUGARSANDSPICE]As we see in the previous posts, anyone posting on here must be ready to defend their actions. Personally, I would rather that someone have the guts to post in open forum where an accused can at least defend them selves than defame by personal back biting and bitching
I'm ok with this being posted. What, it's drama to get a person to own up to their actions?
I've had a couple of flakes, and it wrecked a weekend. This is different than snitching to an authority, this is warning people about others. And at least it's out in the open. I was viciously accused of being a cheater on here, all behind my back, and when I tried to get it out in the open to talk about, got accused of causing drama by one of the chat room police people.
I've had a couple of flakes, and it wrecked a weekend. This is different than snitching to an authority, this is warning people about others. And at least it's out in the open. I was viciously accused of being a cheater on here, all behind my back, and when I tried to get it out in the open to talk about, got accused of causing drama by one of the chat room police people.
DRAPERCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:no reply and yes we text up to the point where we decided to go another way we trued to give him the benefit but I guess that was too kind of us we're not bad people we are very fun we just don't like liars at all
Did he reply to your text messages? I take it that likely he did not. Assume you guys were texting each other up to when he no showed
We understand the frustration. Not sure "outing" them in a forum like this is the right answer...but we do spread the word around to our friends, here. But, have to say...in this instance, I may well have done the same thing.
The last booty call we posted, we asked for 3 couples to join us for an evening in the hot tub. We only have room for 8...so requested that no one respond, if there was any doubt they may not make it. 3 couples responded fairly soon..so took the booty call down. Two more couples responded, even after the call was down, but understood when We had to tell them the tub was full.
Only one couple showed up. no word, note, text, nothing from the other two couples. We had a very nice time, anyway with the couple that did show up, and made some new friends. But, was very disheartened that we turned to other couples down who would like to have come..
What do you do? We added a note of their "no show" on the note place on their profile..and...their place next time just maybe filled with someone else.
The last booty call we posted, we asked for 3 couples to join us for an evening in the hot tub. We only have room for 8...so requested that no one respond, if there was any doubt they may not make it. 3 couples responded fairly soon..so took the booty call down. Two more couples responded, even after the call was down, but understood when We had to tell them the tub was full.
Only one couple showed up. no word, note, text, nothing from the other two couples. We had a very nice time, anyway with the couple that did show up, and made some new friends. But, was very disheartened that we turned to other couples down who would like to have come..
What do you do? We added a note of their "no show" on the note place on their profile..and...their place next time just maybe filled with someone else.
People have busy lives and it usually takes lots of planning to go out. Thats probably why people get upset at flakes. Besides, profile feedback should be like on ebay good and bad feedback should be viewable to everyone.
shepa06 you don't have much room to talk about this.
shepa06 you don't have much room to talk about this.
PLEASE LET US KNOW ABOUT FLAKES. We would prefer to know who flakes out and not waste our time not knowing if they show up. It definitely is not drama. Those that think it is, well we are at a loss to their thinking. Warning others about bad experiences is welcome and we will do the same.
Bravo thank you!
Bravo thank you!
Hey lets start a flake forum and let me use my flake buster..!
69ME wrote:
Hey lets start a flake forum and let me use my flake buster..!
Damn! Great profile and pics. Perhaps you are a flake with that type of profile?
Mav
MAVENX wrote:Yup I dont give a who69ME wrote:
Hey lets start a flake forum and let me use my flake buster..!
Damn! Great profile and pics. Perhaps you are a flake with that type of profile?
Mav
Don
(from Terry)
What I noticed was the "on the way" then not showing up. Lots of things might happen to keep someone from being where they're supposed to be when they're supposed to be there, and some of them could even make it hard or impossible to let whoever's waiting know in time. But
"I'm on the way" then not showing sounds too much like someone having made a commitment he didn't know if he could keep, then hoping it'd work and trying to keep the other people on the string as long as possible. I'm sorry, I don't see a thing wrong with putting something like that on a forum, especially if there's been no explanation even the next day, which it sounds like there wasn't. If it turns out there is some legit explanation, then Champagnepapi is perfectly free to post it here, as well as sending it to Awhooty, like he should have done as soon as was possible. And if there is a good reason it happened, then I'm sure Awhooty will apologize for the post. But if people can just get away with leaving other people hanging, then they'll never stop doing it. I just don't think that the anonymity about people and their actions ought to apply to conduct that harms other people, not even if it's only to the extent of ruining their plans by just breaking a commitment without any explanation.
What I noticed was the "on the way" then not showing up. Lots of things might happen to keep someone from being where they're supposed to be when they're supposed to be there, and some of them could even make it hard or impossible to let whoever's waiting know in time. But
"I'm on the way" then not showing sounds too much like someone having made a commitment he didn't know if he could keep, then hoping it'd work and trying to keep the other people on the string as long as possible. I'm sorry, I don't see a thing wrong with putting something like that on a forum, especially if there's been no explanation even the next day, which it sounds like there wasn't. If it turns out there is some legit explanation, then Champagnepapi is perfectly free to post it here, as well as sending it to Awhooty, like he should have done as soon as was possible. And if there is a good reason it happened, then I'm sure Awhooty will apologize for the post. But if people can just get away with leaving other people hanging, then they'll never stop doing it. I just don't think that the anonymity about people and their actions ought to apply to conduct that harms other people, not even if it's only to the extent of ruining their plans by just breaking a commitment without any explanation.
Perma-Bachelor wrote:I hope we didn't do too much damage to ourselves we still want to play (feeling hopeful)
There goes your chance of ever getting a date on here... people hate it when you out them and consider you to be the drama couple....
I hope we didn't do too much damage to ourselves we still want to play (feeling hopeful)
Would you really WANT to play with someone who truly believes, to the extent of taking you off their list of possible playmates, that someone should be able to screw people over like that and not be called on it, or that it's wrong to warn others about someone who behaves like that? The whole anonymity tradition is to protect us from the vanilla world, not to let us mistreat each other.
At this point if he is not in the Hospital or Jail and has not responded to defend himself I would say the op was spot-on. Kuddo's awhooty.
Funstuff how could any one in their right mind even think about doing that to you,that is not only rude but down right Krazy, maybe they are just blind and could not find the club.