I have heard many of many good people who have been black balled from parties and they don
We do agree with you completely, but why should it be ok for any one ( men or women ) to be able to touch or fondle any other person without permision, or a common interest. Now we are drunk and cant tell for sure is she is into me at all, then drink less. Some people have a hard time with confrontation so they would walk away, then 5 min later they have the same person all over them again.
You are so right that we as adults need to nicely speak our minds, and back off when told to.
It is a two way street, deal with it in a nice controled manner on the spot and then have fun. We have had to leave a party because the wife did not like the advances of someone and when I made a coment to them they got all but hurt and wanted problems, not in someones house that has invited us for some fun. Not worth it so we removed ourself from the problem.
To bad a few can make this hard on all others
You are so right that we as adults need to nicely speak our minds, and back off when told to.
It is a two way street, deal with it in a nice controled manner on the spot and then have fun. We have had to leave a party because the wife did not like the advances of someone and when I made a coment to them they got all but hurt and wanted problems, not in someones house that has invited us for some fun. Not worth it so we removed ourself from the problem.
To bad a few can make this hard on all others
Hmmmm I've gotten blue balls. I've been kicked in the balls. I've even been told I have NO balls. But never had black balls. Sounds painful...or racist. 
And fwiw I don't know why people think just because we're chronologically older that people (especially me) won't act just as juvenile and superficial as they did when they were kids. In the words of the immortal band Bowling For Soup...High School Never Ends!
And fwiw I don't know why people think just because we're chronologically older that people (especially me) won't act just as juvenile and superficial as they did when they were kids. In the words of the immortal band Bowling For Soup...High School Never Ends!
Now we do understand if you go to an Orgy hou should expect to have someone all over you .
But if it not an Orgy when you get there it should, and we know the host has little control over this but it should be a causal affair untill two people choose it to go farther.
Ok rant over, peace out
But if it not an Orgy when you get there it should, and we know the host has little control over this but it should be a causal affair untill two people choose it to go farther.
Ok rant over, peace out
Let me just say this, I don't believe it's black balling when it's your house and you get to choose who comes to your house or not. I also would not call it tattling, friends talk to each other and when someone has done something to one of your friends it's pretty much done to you also, that being said, just cause host/hostesses don't tell the person why they're not invited, it's really none of the violator's business, maybe the host/hostess doesn't want the drama and back-stabbing in their house. There again it's their house so they can invite or un-invite whomever they damn well please. So if people don't want to be un-invited to parties, maybe they shouldn't do things that would get them un-invited & I'm also sure if these people that were as you call black-balled would think about it, they would know exactly why they were un-invited or not invited at all. Which is why some of us don't publicly post parties anymore & it's invite only, so we don't have to worry about drama.
We host parties at our house and for the most part we have never had any problems. We put it on the local parties for everyone to see and possibly show up and have FUN. We have never told anyone they could not show up (up to this point of time) even if someone has came to me and ask if I would not invite someone or let someone show up, most of the time the problem would work it self out.
At 1 party we did have a couple that was bickering with each other and made some of the other people uncomfortable so I just watch them to make sure there was not going to be a problems, thing work out ok and they did show up at a different party and they was much better and are still welcome back again, we are not here to judge other unless they start problems with others, that is there life just like my life is my life.
We just had a party and I the host had to go potty after a few home made tequila rose shots and a few whiskey and my Pepsi to find pills on my Bath room counter top, not sure what to do (I wanted to go out to everyone and ask who left the pills in the bath room) I drop the pills down the drain and wash them away and just watch what everyone was doing yes it did bum me out and I did stop drinking, what if I did not find them and they drop on the floor and my dog or GRAND KID got them, how do you think I would feel if my dog dies or my GRAND KIDS gets sick or even could of died over, how is that RESPECTING my house. Also used condoms and unused condoms in the bed room left for us to clean up REALLY RESPECT my house or the host of the party house we or they don't have to have parties for everyone but we do so everyone can have FUN and a good time. (even with the broken bed LMAO)
I will always respect the host home no matter where I am at that is all I ask of the people at my parties, we all as host just want you to have FUN, lot of LAUGHS, I tell people all the time if you can not drive home stay here we don't need any DUIs or any body hurt from drunk drivers.
SORRY FOR ALL THE RAMBLING BUT THIS IS MY 2cents hope it makes some kind of sense and I did not board you to death
At 1 party we did have a couple that was bickering with each other and made some of the other people uncomfortable so I just watch them to make sure there was not going to be a problems, thing work out ok and they did show up at a different party and they was much better and are still welcome back again, we are not here to judge other unless they start problems with others, that is there life just like my life is my life.
We just had a party and I the host had to go potty after a few home made tequila rose shots and a few whiskey and my Pepsi to find pills on my Bath room counter top, not sure what to do (I wanted to go out to everyone and ask who left the pills in the bath room) I drop the pills down the drain and wash them away and just watch what everyone was doing yes it did bum me out and I did stop drinking, what if I did not find them and they drop on the floor and my dog or GRAND KID got them, how do you think I would feel if my dog dies or my GRAND KIDS gets sick or even could of died over, how is that RESPECTING my house. Also used condoms and unused condoms in the bed room left for us to clean up REALLY RESPECT my house or the host of the party house we or they don't have to have parties for everyone but we do so everyone can have FUN and a good time. (even with the broken bed LMAO)
I will always respect the host home no matter where I am at that is all I ask of the people at my parties, we all as host just want you to have FUN, lot of LAUGHS, I tell people all the time if you can not drive home stay here we don't need any DUIs or any body hurt from drunk drivers.
SORRY FOR ALL THE RAMBLING BUT THIS IS MY 2cents hope it makes some kind of sense and I did not board you to death
Love the different comments and perspectives! All valid points.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Hmmmm I've gotten blue balls. I've been kicked in the balls. I've even been told I have NO balls. But never had black balls. Sounds painful...or racist.
And fwiw I don't know why people think just because we're chronologically older that people (especially me) won't act just as juvenile and superficial as they did when they were kids. In the words of the immortal band Bowling For Soup...High School Never Ends!
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You ain't old enough to be "older" yet. Wish I was still a youngun like you.
FUN50ISH wrote:
We host parties at our house and for the most part we have never had any problems. We put it on the local parties for everyone to see and possibly show up and have FUN. We have never told anyone they could not show up (up to this point of time) even if someone has came to me and ask if I would not invite someone or let someone show up, most of the time the problem would work it self out.
At 1 party we did have a couple that was bickering with each other and made some of the other people uncomfortable so I just watch them to make sure there was not going to be a problems, thing work out ok and they did show up at a different party and they was much better and are still welcome back again, we are not here to judge other unless they start problems with others, that is there life just like my life is my life.
We just had a party and I the host had to go potty after a few home made tequila rose shots and a few whiskey and my Pepsi to find pills on my Bath room counter top, not sure what to do (I wanted to go out to everyone and ask who left the pills in the bath room) I drop the pills down the drain and wash them away and just watch what everyone was doing yes it did bum me out and I did stop drinking, what if I did not find them and they drop on the floor and my dog or GRAND KID got them, how do you think I would feel if my dog dies or my GRAND KIDS gets sick or even could of died over, how is that RESPECTING my house. Also used condoms and unused condoms in the bed room left for us to clean up REALLY RESPECT my house or the host of the party house we or they don't have to have parties for everyone but we do so everyone can have FUN and a good time. (even with the broken bed LMAO)
I will always respect the host home no matter where I am at that is all I ask of the people at my parties, we all as host just want you to have FUN, lot of LAUGHS, I tell people all the time if you can not drive home stay here we don't need any DUIs or any body hurt from drunk drivers.
SORRY FOR ALL THE RAMBLING BUT THIS IS MY 2cents hope it makes some kind of sense and I did not board you to death
(from Terry)
And if THIS guy is upset over something someone did, then what they did was WAY more than just inconsiderate. At that same party, he didn't even get upset after 3 of us broke one of his beds. I hope whoever left those pills sees this, and starts using their head in the future. That wasn't just showing disrespect, it was dangerous. His grandkids were at his house the next day, for God's sake. What if he hadn't found them first? Even if they were something harmless, like cold pills, he'd have no way of knowing that, and pretty much everything, even aspirin, is dangerous to some people.