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Ok, so... Why such a drastic difference between people's bodies? It's like two opposite ends of the scale. They either look like porn stars with zero body fat, perfect horizontal titties and dudes with huge cocks, or the normal people. You know, people who have had kids, people who don't have time to spend 4 hours in the gym, people who cannot afford plastic surgery. So, why is it like this? Because quite frankly, it is intimidating. We are very attractive, extremely nasty( some on here will tell you), but we have had kids, we work out hard, eat right, but are not super porn star body people. Ok, rant over, but I would like all of your thoughts.
You may be looking too much into the pictures you see. Just because they look good in pics, doesn't mean they act (or even feel) like 10's.

That being said, not sure what the issue is. There are lots of different body types out there. Isn't that a good thing?

Besides, when it comes down to it (for us), whether they have rock hard abs, or have never been to the gym, it is all going to come down to chemistry in the end. Being super fit or any other great body parts will only go so far if personalities don't click.
I guess more than anything we feel intimidated. We would seriously rock their world, but we don't approach because we think that they would not appreciate our bodies. Plenty of self esteem clothed!! Lol. I just thought it was a good topic since I know there are lots of people who feel that way.
Let's just say Mr. simple has a porn star body. Albeit he may be closer to the grandpa porn.
It has been our experience during the 25 years of this lifestyle, that the ones with porn star bodies tend to grow old far beyond there time. All the time in a tanning bed & starving themselves to maintain that hard body takes it's toll. Time spent staring at yourself in a mirror is lost to vanity, and can never be reclaimed. Just be yourself, enjoy what little time you have on this earth.
Hey, I have a porn star body, it just happens to be a current Ron Jeremy body!!
I dunno. We all have 24 hours in a day. Some would rather spend a good portion of it sweatin' in the gym, others with their kids, and still other's trying to personally deplete the world's supply of Doritos on the couch watching DWTS or Storage Wars. Personally we like people who can find a balance and don't go to extremes on either end. Don't want people who are SO into their workouts that it's the ONLY thing they talk about and literally run away screaming if you show them a carb. On the other hand we don't want people who look like they joined a gym, got 10 minutes into their first workout and ate their trainer because it had been twenty minutes since their last donut. Moderation in all things whether it be heavy squats on the rack or Krispy Kremes.
UTARD61 wrote:

Hey, I have a porn star body, it just happens to be a current Ron Jeremy body!!


You owe me a new keyboard, there's freaking mountain dew everywhere. lol.
We prefer a porn star mind;)
WYSTYLE wrote:

We prefer a porn star mind;)


Yeah, I got that mindset!!!
ERICDRED728 wrote:

personality goes a long way, bodies are just the shell holding it.


agreed
Thanks everyone for your thoughts. We dont put pics in the public area due to job constraints. Any that would like should friend request then they can see us. This was meant more to provoke talk about the subject. We are quite comfortable in our skin, but we completely understand the concept of being somewhere in the middle of that spectrum. Thanks evildoers for the laugh, you never disappoint. Moreover, the people who are more ok with their bodies are the exact people we are looking for. Everyone get naked. :)
Mr here. Just because she is a porn star or skinny as a rail does NOT mean she is attractive. And I have seen Many very beautiful women that were much larger than the stereotypical TV model body. I think if you can see her ribs then she is too skinny. What is this obsession with this media based way of telling us what we should and should not find attractive. ALL women are beautiful and should not be bullied or shunned because they don't look the way media says they should.
Oh and most magazine models are photoshopped anyways so you shouldn't be comparing yourself to a fake picture.
STARSHELL1212 wrote:

You may be looking too much into the pictures you see. Just because they look good in pics, doesn't mean they act (or even feel) like 10's.

That being said, not sure what the issue is. There are lots of different body types out there. Isn't that a good thing?

Besides, when it comes down to it (for us), whether they have rock hard abs, or have never been to the gym, it is all going to come down to chemistry in the end. Being super fit or any other great body parts will only go so far if personalities don't click.
Well said!
EVILDOERS wrote:

I dunno. We all have 24 hours in a day. Some would rather spend a good portion of it sweatin' in the gym, others with their kids, and still other's trying to personally deplete the world's supply of Doritos on the couch watching DWTS or Storage Wars. Personally we like people who can find a balance and don't go to extremes on either end. Don't want people who are SO into their workouts that it's the ONLY thing they talk about and literally run away screaming if you show them a carb. On the other hand we don't want people who look like they joined a gym, got 10 minutes into their first workout and ate their trainer because it had been twenty minutes since their last donut. Moderation in all things whether it be heavy squats on the rack or Krispy Kremes.


Evil, if you showed us your crabs we would run far and run fast. Oh wait, you actually said carbs. But it looks the same to us. Pass us another Krispy Creme please. And btw, the trainer tasted like chicken.
Wow, pediculosis pubis, tasty deep fried mass produced pastry and cannibalism references in a single post. Kudos.
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