Swingers Forum - It's an age, old, question.

SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:

Were a curious type of swinger. We are looking for couples that we can actually hang out with. Enjoy doing things together and if or when we get. Naked if all are in agreement we play. And the play is fine if it is only hugs, kissing, oral or all the way full on sex. Though the last hasn't happens in years.

We like feeling comfortable with who we hang out with. Age never comes into play unless they have some drama they can't seem to leave at home. Then we don't have an interest in farthing the relationship. Yep relationship. Not looking for notches.

We have been on both sides. Had to tell folks sorry we are just not interested. Some times we simply don't respond to their emails if we had never met. And we have been told your nice but not our type. And though it did have us ask ourselves why we were and are not offended as we all have our preferences.

We love the parties. Don't care if they are 21 or 91. Let's have fun with similar like minded couples.

TMACA wrote:

The thing is, folks, it IS about age. Sort of. Sometimes. People mostly get interested, at least at first glance, in people who look younger. The younger someone looks, the closer they are to what we've all had drummed into us as the "ideal" look. If nothing else, we're all stuck with that biological imperative, we automatically desire someone who looks like they're a good producer of offspring, which means young and fit. How far that goes in our actual choices varies a lot, but it still does arouse interest. But whether that initial interest results in anything is often a different matter. I don't personally give a damn about age itself, and not much more about appearance, but even I will do an automatic double take if I see a good looking 20-ish girl, and am less likely to do one with a good looking 50-ish looking girl. But, on the other hand, that double take is as far as it'll probably go with the 20-ish one, if for no other reason than I'll assume she isn't going to have any interest in me. The "trick", if there is one, I think, is getting past that first look, to have just enough interest to find out who that person is, and from what I've seen, 20 somethings, male or female, don't usually have that much interest in someone older. I've certainly ended up in bed with someone who, based on just looks, I would have had no interest in, because I found out she was just such a nice person. But I think it usually takes a few years of life before people start to realize that that can happen, that the physical looks are not all that important in the end. When you're younger, I suspect, you're still operating from hormonally driven impulses more than from your brain, at least when it comes to a sex partner.

KIDSATPLAY wrote:

Young kids don't see age, that's a learned behavior, while helpful in some circumstances, in swinging, it cheats you out of growth and fun, more often than not.