I will admit that some of our pics are older than they should be, but we have pics up that are within a year.
I have never really considered this, as we do not actively search for "play dates".
I do have to agree that pics should be on a profile, if for anything for a general idea of the person's looks. Although, we mostly go by personality and attraction due to that when we do play.
I have never really considered this, as we do not actively search for "play dates".
I do have to agree that pics should be on a profile, if for anything for a general idea of the person's looks. Although, we mostly go by personality and attraction due to that when we do play.
we try to update our pictures regularly, we usually leave the old ones up because they tell stories about us.
We think pictures should be on profiles.
We think pictures should be on profiles.
How about when your weight goes up by more than 10 lbs. ...or you lose a fight with an ugly stick?
Our pics are not really meant to be the attracting piece in our profile. It is more a reminder to our friends as to who we are. To me Ms. Karma is the most beautiful person that I know (inside and out) but it is not a marketing process to us. Friends that know us know us, and we look out for our friends...we need more of that in this world...and lifestyle.
Sorry about the mushiness...but from the heart!
Sorry about the mushiness...but from the heart!
Show us any pic you want...but if you don't resemble that at first meet...hasta la vista baby.
Good to hear it MR Goodkarma.
It is a good idea. I'll post one of the "newer" me pictures. I've lost 35 pounds since my profile pic was taken in 2010.
As you can see, I've replaced my profile picture to a more recent one (13 months ago.) that shows me at my svelt 150 lbs. In 12 years I lost 142 pounds: from 292 in 2000; to 150 lbs. in 2013.
We think once a year would be good or if major changes happen, Maybe like pictures of your new wife and get the ones of your last wife gone even if she is hot.Or maybe pictures of all six of your wives if you dare.
It's kind of a hassle getting the camera out, convincing the wife to pose, sucking in my gut, looking up at the camera in the classic I'm really skinny, so skinny I can't even for in frame, edit out the zits and missing teeth and identifying tats and post that.
I'm exhausted just thinking about it....
I'm exhausted just thinking about it....
Why do people get SO hung up on profile pics? I guess I can see it if you look about as much like your profile pics as a giraffe looks like a hedgehog. We figure if people look REASONABLY like their pics it gives us a general idea if we MIGHT be attracted to them if and when we meet them. But let's be honest. Most of us only put up the pics that we think show us at our most attractive and not the ones that show our massive cellulite or the gnarled 6th toe on our left foot. I get it that people don't want to waste their time meeting peeps they definitely aren't going to click with but all of this is a crap shoot anyway because someone can be stunning in their pics and in real life and still be a ginormous twatwaffle inside. 
Should be one week old, max. Should have 8.5 pics per couple, should have 4 pics per single. Should have 1 picture which includes an erection, regardless of the subjects gender. Should include toilet in background. Should have minimum of one pic with random strangers. Should be at least 600x480 pixels unless ugly, then 6x4 max. Should include one pic of car or motorcycle, two of a hot tub, and one of favorite pet. sorry, but Any less is indicative of a real douchenozzle.
You forgot a pic of a high heel caught in your thong underwear. 
Cuz thongs are WAY trickier to put on than garments and constantly get caught on stiletto heels.
Apparently at the exact moment when someone nearby has a camera.
Cuz thongs are WAY trickier to put on than garments and constantly get caught on stiletto heels.
Apparently at the exact moment when someone nearby has a camera.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Why do people get SO hung up on profile pics? I guess I can see it if you look about as much like your profile pics as a giraffe looks like a hedgehog. We figure if people look REASONABLY like their pics it gives us a general idea if we MIGHT be attracted to them if and when we meet them. But let's be honest. Most of us only put up the pics that we think show us at our most attractive and not the ones that show our massive cellulite or the gnarled 6th toe on our left foot. I get it that people don't want to waste their time meeting peeps they definitely aren't going to click with but all of this is a crap shoot anyway because someone can be stunning in their pics and in real life and still be a ginormous twatwaffle inside.
Sounds about right to us.
We update ours often. I am a BBW and I want people to see me (all of me) before we meet. Don't waste my time or yours if you are not physically attracted (after all we are here to make physical connections). I am easy going, but I want things to be legit from the get go. Once we move to text I usually ask for you to send me a selfie for my phone. I also may skype. I HATE on chat when you see a profile, read the profile, then they turn on their cam and are NOT what they have on their profile. Better to be honest now and have people reject you before they even contact you instead of them rejecting you to your face when you show up and are not what they expect. *Ten*
EVILDOERS wrote:Oh yes, and THAT too, although having the heel up someone's arse is an acceptable alternative.
You forgot a pic of a high heel caught in your thong underwear.
Cuz thongs are WAY trickier to put on than garments and constantly get caught on stiletto heels.
Apparently at the exact moment when someone nearby has a camera.
I have lots of random woman in my profile pics... otherwise no one would talk to me. I have lost over 130 lbs. but I choose not to show the pics with lots of stretch marks... I hope that is ok with everyone. If not please do not ask me to have sex with you.
The Wife
The Wife
We think putting up a pictures of somebody that is not you is strange. There are a some on here that post pics of people that are not them. It makes them seem desperate for attn. and dishonest. I'm sure they are not, but why not be who you are up front.
BISEXUALMOJO4FUN wrote:
We think putting up a pictures of somebody that is not you is strange. There are a some on here that post pics of people that are not them. It makes them seem desperate for attn. and dishonest. I'm sure they are not, but why not be who you are up front.
The ones I like are the single doods who post lots of pics of many different women they are fucking. The odd thing is they often show the women's faces yet their face is blurred or blocked out. Reminds me of those pornos where the guy will wear a mask or something so his wife won't find out that he really isn't a "consultant" and makes barely legal babysitter porn films instead. LMAO!
DRAPERCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:
Seems like the only pictures you put up should be those of yourself. While you can blur faces there are probably people who may know who's tat or piercing it is.
We agree, they dont need to be naked if your not comfortable with that and no face pics are fine as well but your friends should be more then just a copy of your public. This is what you share to interest us to pursue you, they should be your best, but your best as you are currently. just our .02
I would think people want to update their pics. On some sites we see pics of people that are 3 years old or more...that's just too long. Over a year is about the max for new pictures. This site does not have the pics dated so you never know what your gonna get.
We really don't get this as an issue, no one is forcing anyone to meet anyone on here. If profile pics are that important to someone, and a profile seems deceptive don't hook up. We can honestly say that every couple we have met on here ended up being pretty much who they said they were. If deception is an issue then meet in a public place, and take a more conservative approach to meeting people. I am sure there is deception out there, but we really have never been surprised by anyone that we have met. Our concept may be a little different, we really look for friends first and foremost. This works very well for us.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Why do people get SO hung up on profile pics? I guess I can see it if you look about as much like your profile pics as a giraffe looks like a hedgehog. We figure if people look REASONABLY like their pics it gives us a general idea if we MIGHT be attracted to them if and when we meet them. But let's be honest. Most of us only put up the pics that we think show us at our most attractive and not the ones that show our massive cellulite or the gnarled 6th toe on our left foot. I get it that people don't want to waste their time meeting peeps they definitely aren't going to click with but all of this is a crap shoot anyway because someone can be stunning in their pics and in real life and still be a ginormous twatwaffle inside.
Couldn't have said it any better. bravo!!!
We have to admit, we have not updated our pics in over a year. We have both gained about 60lbs and I (mr) has what seems to be a goiter growth on my sac. Ohh well, dinner anyone?
ORCHIDS42 wrote:
We have to admit, we have not updated our pics in over a year. We have both gained about 60lbs and I (mr) has what seems to be a goiter growth on my sac. Ohh well, dinner anyone?
Since a goiter is actually an enlarged thyroid gland (that's in the neck, fyi) often associated with lack of iodine in the diet I would venture a guess that your sac growth is far more likely to be a ginormous genital wart. Another possibility would be something along the lines of a spontaneous generation of redundant testicles (I'm assuming this was Mr. ORCHIDS posting). A ubiquitous phrase often heard in our current vernacular is "Grow a pair.". Perhaps your subconscious decided that growing a pair was indeed an excellent idea and activated the gene to make this possible. I can only imagine how virile you will be and indeed how popular your extra pair of testes will be at the next swing party. Mazel tov!
EVILDOERS wrote:ORCHIDS42 wrote:
We have to admit, we have not updated our pics in over a year. We have both gained about 60lbs and I (mr) has what seems to be a goiter growth on my sac. Ohh well, dinner anyone?
Since a goiter is actually an enlarged thyroid gland (that's in the neck, fyi) often associated with lack of iodine in the diet I would venture a guess that your sac growth is far more likely to be a ginormous genital wart. Another possibility would be something along the lines of a spontaneous generation of redundant testicles (I'm assuming this was Mr. ORCHIDS posting). A ubiquitous phrase often heard in our current vernacular is "Grow a pair.". Perhaps your subconscious decided that growing a pair was indeed an excellent idea and activated the gene to make this possible. I can only imagine how virile you will be and indeed how popular your extra pair of testes will be at the next swing party. Mazel tov!
Thank you so much for clarifying my situation.. Perhaps I will become the "swinger" of the week with all that swinging between my legs... I'm so excited. mrs Orchids should consider herself very lucky... probably... maybe... whatever
You're welcome. If it turns out to be a big fucking wart I have a band saw that will take it off much quicker than Compound W.