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We are brand new to this would like to start with same room. Any advice would be helpful on how to start? Thanks so much
1) Walk into said room.

2) Get nekkid.

3) Play hide the weeny.

4) Lather, rinse, repeat.

Welcome to the party! Have fun, relax and communicate!
Talk talk talk get comfortable with people spend time with them before you play to make sure you enjoy there company and that the respect you.
We have found no one to be truthful or real in st george also.
I think we were looking in the wrong places????
You have no photos and no real description of who you are or what you're looking for..... I'd say that's 80% of your problem right there.
we are new to DV And high fiving in a tag team scene.
We just signed up today. That is why we are asking these questions? Sorry????
Thanks for the help so far.
Can you elaborate on what you mean by "We have found no one to be truthful or real in st. george"? Sure there are fakes and flakes in the lifestyle (and not just in St. George I'm sure) but there are plenty of "real" and "truthful" people as well...unless your expectations are simply not realistic. If you're really "brand new to this" I find it a little hard to believe you've met or tried to meet enough people to have found nobody who suits you. And yes, the suggestion that you throw up a few pics (they need not be explicit or necessarily show your faces or whatever) is a good one especially since you are accusing others of not being real. Oh, and might wanna add a little more content on your profile as well. Not very specific about what you are or are not looking for.
SOPHIE wrote:

we are new to DV And high fiving in a tag team scene.


I call bullshit. You may be new to DV but I've seen you do TV at least three or four times and DVDA once as well. SLUTS!
EVILDOERS wrote:


EVILDOERS wrote:

Can you elaborate on what you mean by "We have found no one to be truthful or real in st. george"? Sure there are fakes and flakes in the lifestyle (and not just in St. George I'm sure) but there are plenty of "real" and "truthful" people as well...unless your expectations are simply not realistic. If you're really "brand new to this" I find it a little hard to believe you've met or tried to meet enough people to have found nobody who suits you. And yes, the suggestion that you throw up a few pics (they need not be explicit or necessarily show your faces or whatever) is a good one especially since you are accusing others of not being real. Oh, and might wanna add a little more content on your profile as well. Not very specific about what you are or are not looking for.


What we meant about truthful is are fault we answered a couple ads on craigslist we should of known better. Tried to meet a few couples they never should up. Another one finally admitted to being a single guy. Iam sorry if we offended you in any way. We are just new and nervous looking for advice. Maybe this is not the correct place or site either. Sorry again
Don't let Evil scare you away so easy.... he does that so well.. lol

People on here are just like everywhere else except they want to fuck your wife,,, which separates them from the rest of the world...
But the more info you can put out there the better the people are going to know you and want to play. so tell us about you and what you want to do... also add tons of pictures of yourselfs! Next would be get out and meet people... if your in SLC come to a meet and greet... get your name out there! word of mouth is a big thing in this lifestyle!
Great advice all around, be yourself, set your pace and talk is essential, imperative. Open communication will be what makes or breaks you. If one or the other is feeling left out or like taking one for the team, the chances of it being a long term enjoyable experience like many have found it to be, will be slim. It is obvious you are feeling secure enough in your relationship to explore the wonderful possibilities, so again, set the pace the tone, and talk, share and enjoy.

***( The following message brought to you by one of those dreaded single males so many hate becasue other ones have been pushy, rude, disrespectful and more...but still has met some wonderful couples along the journey to say it has been fun. Plus you are in an absolute fantastic region, while I live in Sin City, I have met more lifestyle friends in my frequent visits to West Valley City and the Greater SLC area than anywhere, barr none.)
Take nothing too seriously, be in agreement on who you want to play with. It's important to point out that being in the lifestyle leaves no room for jealousy or drama. If you even sense it between yourselves then you may not be ready. If you sense it from others turn and walk, no run away. Decide whether you want to start with soft or full swap. Hope that helps.
We are new to this site and swinging overall. Hoping to find a nice couple and explore
"we answered a couple ads on craigslist"

'Nuff said. And like you say, you should have known better. You're lucky you still have both your kidneys! I think you'd have better luck duct taping your wife naked to the hood of your car outside your local dive bar after last call than answering ads on Craigslist.
Is it just me, or do we all have a love/hate relationship with Evildoers?

I can't figure out if I am just jealous because they are funnier than me (I hear it's actually the Mrs.) or are they just fucking assholes?

Do we need a new thread for this? I don't want to overshadow the original post.

Mr. AC
Definitely just you.

Aw, who am I kidding the guy PERSONIFIES twatwaffle, douche canoe, fucktard, bleeding heart liberal commie fascist pinko fag. He's prolly even one of those ass clowns who doesn't eat gluten. I'll bet he even recycles! And yes, I have it on good authority that he's fucked a few assholes in his day (but never a dude's butt, Mr. Evil is kosher). How did you know?

Oh, and I asked Ms. Evil if she had ever fucked any assholes and she just rolled her eyes.


And now for MORE profound wisdom for the OP: Patience, grasshopper. The little ant did not move the tiny pebble in only one day. He toiled and toiled for many days and finally triumphed over adversity and moved the pebble and totally got laid and stuff.
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:

Twatwaffle... Do they serve those at IHOP?

Nope I asked and they said they dont have the right ingredients.
They TOTALLY served me the last time I was there and it's usually VERY apparent to most people that I am indeed a twatwaffle...with extra syrup.
See not the right ingredients, then Evil shows up and the now have it all in house. lmao
ACC wrote:

Is it just me, or do we all have a love/hate relationship with Evildoers?

I can't figure out if I am just jealous because they are funnier than me (I hear it's actually the Mrs.) or are they just fucking assholes?

Do we need a new thread for this? I don't want to overshadow the original post.

Mr. AC


Like most of the men here, Mr. Evil thinks he is funnier than he really is.
Now THAT is the truest thing anyone's ever written on this site. Well, except for when people state that they're drug, disease, and drama free. That's always 100% true too. Of course it doesn't surprise me that SUGAR saw thru my little fa