SIMPLYRED wrote:
I have been asked how to deal with people on here that are just plain and simply dishonest on here? In any fashion. Not just sexual. Do you let others know so they do not get caught up and taken advantage of?
Do you just turn a blind eye and forget?
Block list or ignore. pretty simple. It is the internet and there are creeps everywhere, I don't care if it's Minecraft or Hello Kitty or Swingular or whatever, they are there, and phonies are not worth your time. If you know for sure about someones indiscretion and you wish to share your observations with those you feel you can confide in, then by all means, do so.
Unfortunatly it's a catch 22 on this site, it's he said she said with no way to know the truth, in the end you end up with a black mark on yourself to those thad don't know you so the best policy is like Torque&Tara said tell your close friends you trust, the word will get around faster than you think.
NEXT! Enough said!
Dishonesty comes in all shapes and sizes. From lying about relationship status to having pics that strategically hide or fail to show what a person's body actually looks like (and much much more). We just assume everyone is, to some degree or another, being dishonest at least in some small way and don't worry that much about it unless it's something potentially damaging to us or to others. If we find out something they've done that's dishonest and it for some reason really bothers us we will move on but we won't spend time tattling on them to others (again, unless it's something potentially dangerous like maybe they had AIDS or something). If we dealt too harshly with dishonesty in general we'd have to deal with ourselves as the vast majority of us are VERY dishonest with ourselves and lie to ourselves constantly about many things. JMHO
I had an uncle that spent his life in law enforcement. His advice was,
Bad feeling...walk away. Think they may not be completely honest...walk away. Great thing about the lifestyle is there are so many choices you don't have to settle for what does not feel right, whatever the reason.
We block them, don't associate with them at all and don't associate with anyone that defends them or hangs out with them. And if we are asked we explain why in a brief 30 second explanation and move on.
What good is being willing to let someone fuck your wife if you can't count on them to be honest with you about real perverts, scam artists, players, or predictors.
We only tell our specific experience not what we have heard.
You should not be afraid of telling what you know about someone. The fear lies when your afraid they will expose you as a swinger. That fear for us has long since past. We don't talk about it with family, but we are pretty sure they know. They often bring up such possible experiences they had when younger hoping we will say something.
Let's all share in protecting each other.
What good is being willing to let someone fuck your wife if you can't count on them to be honest with you about real perverts, scam artists, players, or predictors.
We only tell our specific experience not what we have heard.
You should not be afraid of telling what you know about someone. The fear lies when your afraid they will expose you as a swinger. That fear for us has long since past. We don't talk about it with family, but we are pretty sure they know. They often bring up such possible experiences they had when younger hoping we will say something.
Let's all share in protecting each other.
You should call CRAZYDAVE's lawyer. He'll get 'em for ya!