The Role of Clothing in The Art of Seduction
In a sense, any clothing can be seductive, because seduction is, first and foremost, a state of mind. The thrill of seduction more often than not lies in the chase rather than the conquest. The excitement of wanting, pursuing and flirting can give a sense of satisfaction in itself. In the Lifestyle the final move in the seduction game is the play itself
In a sense, any clothing can be seductive, because seduction is, first and foremost, a state of mind. The thrill of seduction more often than not lies in the chase rather than the conquest. The excitement of wanting, pursuing and flirting can give a sense of satisfaction in itself. In the Lifestyle the final move in the seduction game is the play itself
We disagree. Seduction, to us, IS a game and not serious at all. It's fun, frivolous and light hearted. It should be filled with laughter and teasing, flirtation and titillation. And as far as seductive clothing goes, whatever makes the wearer FEEL seductive and sexy should be what is worn and not someone else's idea of what THEY deem sexy. We're all different and have different tastes and desires. One size does NOT fit all in every sense of the word. Ms. Evil and I would vehemently disagree that something like torn jeans and a nice tight t-shirt or tank top cannot be extremely sexy. So wear what you want to wear and what makes YOU feel sexy. If others don't agree or like it for some reason then they don't have to play with you.
The Evildoers
The Evildoers
There was a poll a year or so ago on another swing website we're on asking what specific items of clothing people found the sexiest. The winner (of the dozen or so choices listed) were jeans and a white t-shirt. Of course you kind of have to have the body to pull it off but yes, sexy without trying super hard to BE sexy is SO sexy! The funny thing was it was voted most sexy by BOTH sexes. Wear what you want. Feel sexy in it and that will translate to a sexy vibe to those around you.
Or you could wear a loud button-up shirt (unbuttoned to at least mid-chest) with a bunch of gold chains...
Or you could wear a loud button-up shirt (unbuttoned to at least mid-chest) with a bunch of gold chains...