When meeting couples do you prefer meeting with people who are close (within 50 miles) or folks are are futher away (100 or more) and why?
Also do you get with folks passing by or who are going to be coming to your area from far away?
We personally prefer folks closer (within 50 miles) so we can get with them more often and enjoy more. We have tried the long distance meetings but found the scheduling too hard to work out.
We also prefer to get to know folks before we do the wild thing. Meeting someone passing through or coming to town from far away kind of precludes that. Of course if we have chatted for a long time or it is the Hunts we would make exceptions for. LOL
Also do you get with folks passing by or who are going to be coming to your area from far away?
We personally prefer folks closer (within 50 miles) so we can get with them more often and enjoy more. We have tried the long distance meetings but found the scheduling too hard to work out.
We also prefer to get to know folks before we do the wild thing. Meeting someone passing through or coming to town from far away kind of precludes that. Of course if we have chatted for a long time or it is the Hunts we would make exceptions for. LOL
Some of the most fun we have had was with cpls just passing through on vacation :-) Other than those travelers we limit our play to within a hours drive except of course when we go to a snow ski resort and setup fun with other swingers who love to play in the mountains.
As our name impies, we like visitor to our area. We have a high profile locally and can't take chances. We also like meeting couples when we travel. Either way, we exchange messages and photos long before a meet, at the meet if the chemistry is good all around, we're ready to play.
This is something that affects us a lot, as we are drivers and travel for a living. We try to make friends all over and see where it goes from there. We are not in to notches on the bed post. We have meet a lot of people that we like to call our friends and visit when we are in their area and have time. A lot of the time though, we do not have much warning that we are going to have time to meet with people, so it is more sper of the moment meetings. We have found that a lot of people do not like to meet with us for this reason and respect their right and views. We have also found that the ones that do make good friends and we have a lot of fun with them when we get the chance and also find that we tend to make plans to visit them and for time off and special times.
yes we are in the same boat. i start driveing OTR with my wife May1st,and looking for folks to meet. hopeing over most of the lower 48 states
roger and vickie
roger and vickie
Thanks for the 2 cents everyone and yes we too enjoy the friendship part of the people that we like to meet with. I will tell you this most of the time we just meet and get to know people on the first meeting, and the anticipation of meeting them again to play can drive you mad especially if you where very connected on the first go round. When it should happen that we get to meet the second time, and there was a connection the first time, there will be a second and 3rd, it just makes that meeting really wild and heated. As I was always told as a boy good things come to those who wait, and ohhhhhh how good it can be. as for the ones that are going to be driving send us a email and will look for you out here on the road.
all of our play friends are near & over a 100 miles from us, it isn't how we plan it.
we did have a few in town friends but they have move do to job changes, so we
now travel to play. we also do not meet ones just passing threw, we care to get to
know our playmates.
we did have a few in town friends but they have move do to job changes, so we
now travel to play. we also do not meet ones just passing threw, we care to get to
know our playmates.