Here's a little snippet from our profile:
Guess how many times I have to tell a married & closeted bi guy thanks, but no thanks each week?
~Torque
Another thing on this subject while we're here. Seems like there are a lot of closeted bi curious married guys here. We aren't interested in you. Please don't ask. We don't play with married guys whatsoever no matter the circumstances. If your wife doesn't know about your curiosities and sexual desires, you are probably not close enough as a couple to really even be in this lifestyle, are you?
Guess how many times I have to tell a married & closeted bi guy thanks, but no thanks each week?
~Torque
Swingers rule, cheaters drool! 
You REALLY have to fend of that many closeted bi guys "each week", Torque?
That's..........................weird.
Been doing this almost 30 years and I can count on one finger how many times I've been hit on by closeted bi males. Are you sure you aren't misreading the signs/signals? Or are they actually outright telling you they want to fuck you (or vice versa?)
I'm not into dudes at all but the double standard in the lifestyle about bi-sexuality is pretty fucked up.
You REALLY have to fend of that many closeted bi guys "each week", Torque?
That's..........................weird.
Been doing this almost 30 years and I can count on one finger how many times I've been hit on by closeted bi males. Are you sure you aren't misreading the signs/signals? Or are they actually outright telling you they want to fuck you (or vice versa?)
I'm not into dudes at all but the double standard in the lifestyle about bi-sexuality is pretty fucked up.
Yes Evil, several times a week. You don't get hit on by guys cos ur profile says ur straight, I bet. I (we) contemplated on how to answer about my Sexuality when we made the profile, and decided "curious" and "comfy" was not telling the whole truth, so I (we) decided honesty was the best policy. Yes there is a double standard society puts on Male bi-sexuality, but I don't really care. I like who I am and if somebody else doesn't, I'm OK with that as well.
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I like who I am and if somebody else doesn't, I'm OK with that as well.
In life, that is really the only thing that matters.
Sometimes we get contact by males saying that they have a Hall Pass , honestly we think is just BS.
It's not always, though. I played as a single male before I got married. Sexuality and physicality are a large part of how I interact with people, and my wife understands that. She's not interested in playing as a couple with other people at this time (although I'm trying!), but she accepts that I will still play with other couples as a third on occasion. I keep her up-to-date unless she specifically asks me not to.
To be fair, I do suspect that guys like me are in the minority.
To be fair, I do suspect that guys like me are in the minority.
Evil - 30 years? You started swinging when you were both 5??? That's just wrong!
Well I give my hubby hall passes.. so it may be true most of the time but we always state that if there is questions about it that we can video chat or meet in person to prove that it is so. 
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Evil - 30 years? You started swinging when you were both 5??? That's just wrong!
I started getting erections when I was 6. If Id had any idea what to do with them....
PAIRPLAYERS wrote:
Evil - 30 years? You started swinging when you were both 5??? That's just wrong!
Hmmmm good point. Trying to figure out how old "Tuesday" was when we first met her. Divide by two...carry the one, add 6.5% sales tax. Fuck I hate math!
We completely agree with you! Feel its so wrong....