I know some of you inside and outside of the lifestyle, some of you I've met at parties and some I've only met online. So what's your take if I run into you in the grocery store? If you're by yourself can I come up and say hello discreetly? I know there will be a lot of different answers. I've run into this in the past with people I've met at parties and it always went well. But I am curious to see what the majority thinks.
Saying hi to anyone in or out of the lifestyle just lets people know you see them not saying hi to people you pass is rude in my book. By saying hi it tends to lead to conversation or just a simple hi. Saying hi to some one in or out of the lifestyle is just fine just need to know how open to be in public about the lifestyle.
my 2cents
Poet
my 2cents
Poet
Say hi
We are new to the lifestyle, and are still getting to know ppl. If u see us n we dont say hello please feel free to come up to us. 
we arent rude ppl by any means. We thought we seen a couple last week but felt dumb didnt say anything
we arent rude ppl by any means. We thought we seen a couple last week but felt dumb didnt say anythingPlease say hello we have seen lots of people in the lifestyle lately and we always say hello whenever we recognize or see someone. And I would hope that we seem approachable as well.
if we are without kids say hi for sure
id be disappointed if you recognized us and didn't at least say hi
Saying hello is always polite. Being from the southern states, its my nature to speak...
As long as it's done in a vanilla way, I don't see an issue. But if we're not friends and I'm with family (kids or something), then feel free to skip coming up to me. A message on here saying you saw me in a store and thought I looked great will be fine. 
We recommend a nice sharp smack on the butt and a wink.
That'll keep the checker guessing.
That'll keep the checker guessing.
Thanks everyone. We've run into people multiple times and always said hello. It seems as everyone has the same opinion on the matter.
Don't know how to approach a coworker that is in the lifestyle, with customers is awkward for some of them when I come to say hi.... just trying to be polite. ..
Say 'hi' but don't go calling them by their swinger screen name.
Be friendly but discreet. Simple "Hi" won't hurt. If anyone asks, it's just someone from xyz.
We have a great many friends we have met here and on AFF...Hell....half our wedding folks were friends from AFF.
We are always great with a hello and if anyone ask "we met online"...never had any family member ask beyond that.
We are always great with a hello and if anyone ask "we met online"...never had any family member ask beyond that.